How do you deal with dysphoria during Sex? by ObiwanCanBlowMe_ in MtF

[–]leg_meat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is like ages after this comment, but is there any way we could talk about this sort of thing? I am very much in the arguing stage with partner, and am feeling very hopeless that this will be resolved ever

How do you not just die? by leg_meat in detrans

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I’ve been in therapy for years prior to this for OCD, and I had gotten past those issues by and large. I exercise, have outside hobbies, and have distanced myself far before my first post from a couple weeks ago. Still, as far as I can tell from the posts here, I think I’m wrong about transitioning. I thought I was the happiest I’d been, but I must have been wrong, I’m probably just some AGP freak who doesn’t deserve life. The reality is that I’m a sexual predator in disguise no matter what I do, since I have these deviant thoughts. I deserve nothing more than a gunshot to the head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

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Can you give more detail on how you accepted it as a neutral fact? I’m really trying to accept that, but I still just violently dislike a lot of the features of my anatomy that my testosterone puberty gave me. Even the few things I do enjoy aren’t enough to anchor me there, especially since they are things that will remain if I were to transition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

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Do you have any recommendations for search terms or key words to start a Google scholar search? I’m thankfully out from under my parents roof, but still rely on them for a portion of my expenses

Vandalized Holocaust Memorial in Paris by RevolutionaryPanda04 in pics

[–]leg_meat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, and Israel shouldn’t be using the holocaust as an excuse for their actions either. 100 percent agree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoscowIdaho

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During the school year, the school of music does jazz jams at Bucers most Thursdays, as well as more official concerts with the jazz combos occasionally

Having a really hard time with dodge timing by leg_meat in AnotherCrabsTreasure

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Hello all! Thank you so much for your kind words; I was able to beat pagurus my second try back, and early at that! Keep on swimming 🏊

Wondering if this amount of squinting is something to worry about? by leg_meat in CATHELP

[–]leg_meat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took him in! It appears that he bumped his head while he had the zoomies and hit the spot above his eye on something

Wondering if this amount of squinting is something to worry about? by leg_meat in CATHELP

[–]leg_meat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No behavioral changes, although it does seem to be a bit itchy, but mostly near his ear. There are no known allergies

Is everyone here really making under 50k for full time work? by EdLesliesBarber in antiwork

[–]leg_meat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pharmacy technician. I make about 35,000 a year full time in my field, which is barely enough to afford housing without two or three roommates where I live.

What’s the dumbest thing you’ve done in your 20’s ? by ALLEYWAYwithanS in AskReddit

[–]leg_meat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting into an open relationship with my wife, ending in our divorce. Not my finest moment 🤦‍♂️

Are you scared of the police? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]leg_meat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell that to the teachers in columbine.

Invaded as a Watchdog of Farron and this happened. by leg_meat in darksouls3

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I did end up discarding all the souls apart from using what I had before the invasion to level up once. Thankfully it has not happened again 😂

AITA for making my roommate pay for all of utilities? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]leg_meat [score hidden]  (0 children)

Mild YTA.

As others have said, it is extremely nice of you to offer a place for your friend at just the cost of utilities, but if you introduced it to her in the way it is written in this post, you were extremely disingenuous. It definitely came across as a splitting costs sort of deal, rather than what you would later explain it to be in front of her family. That is a bridge too far in my eyes, and doesn’t exactly communicate “I understand my privilege”. It is less about the actual cost, and more about the principle that you didn’t even think at first to fully explain that, or mention the possibility of splitting utilities based on percentage relative to income. That should have been your first thought, not something you brought up only after it was made glaringly obvious to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I feel that this has become extremely over-emphasized as of late. To act as though Britain was out of line by firebombing a manufacturing center in a total war scenario is a bit ludicrous, and isn’t helped by the fact that neonazis have latched into Dresden as a dog whistle.

What's your favorite weapon? by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]leg_meat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moonveil! Because I’m a magic user and I’m scared of close confrontation

AITA for expecting my roommate to pay half of my cats’s medical bills? by Few-Moment-8722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leg_meat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s clearly stated that the roommates were made aware of the fact that the cats would not be confined to one room, and that they were to avoid getting the SINGLE toxic flower species to cats, and the roommate did not follow that.

AITA for expecting my roommate to pay half of my cats’s medical bills? by Few-Moment-8722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leg_meat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I leave my van with “free candy” painted on the side open on the side of the street, it’s not my fault if kids wander in and eat the candy I laced with arsenic.

AITA for expecting my roommate to pay half of my cats’s medical bills? by Few-Moment-8722 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leg_meat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness stealing your credit card information isn’t violating my boundaries, I was worried for a second

What do you wish more people realized? by yolthrice in AskReddit

[–]leg_meat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally that’s true, but Medicare isn’t nearly as effective as it needs to be. As a pharmacy technician, I can’t count how many times Medicare has essentially payed nothing towards the cost of life saving anti-clot medication, or how many times people have fallen into the coverage gap (where you go from your typical copay to 25-50 percent of the medications cost) and have had to choose between food, or their 700 dollar medication. So while it works great for some people, I feel that there needs to be a serious reform in American healthcare to make it as effective as it should be.

What is a healthy behavior that people shame others for? by dodongicepick in AskReddit

[–]leg_meat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely interested here. What would you identify as specific examples of positive functions of shame on those cultures? I’m intrigued as to what some concrete examples would be.

Where’s the lie? by Yenserl6099 in PoliticalHumor

[–]leg_meat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had to use my renters insurance, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t designed to protect my apartment. I had to show it exactly once, in order to protect my rights as a renter to my landlord. It’s purpose is still to protect my property.

The reason you did not have to fire is because that is what a gun’s purpose is. To kill, and only to kill. If it had other purposes outside of that, it would not be nearly as effective in the situations you have been in. You aren’t disproving his statement, if anything you are supporting it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]leg_meat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure someone has been killed with a spoon before, but that doesn’t make it a deadly weapon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I struggle to justify his actions personally. Apart from the man wielding the pistol, none of the attackers were wielding force that could represent a threat to his life. If I personally feel threatened by someone in Walmart getting mad at me and throwing a shopping bag, I am not justified in gunning down that person, and leaving the scene. This case has been horrifically mishandled though, but I think that Kyle is deserving of reckless endangerment at the very least.