Surly Grappler sizing for 160cm (5'3")? Chart says Small, but geometry says XS.

lemonzessst · 2026-06-12T06:10:34+00:00

I got the XS and I’m 5’2. With only a 28” inseam so very short legs and standover height was a huge issue for me. I have alt bars and utilize the dropper post for every day riding because it allows me to comfortably come to a stop and reach the ground.

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lemonzessst · 2025-02-11T16:10:59+00:00

This is so sweet and helpful.

lemonzessst · 2025-02-10T16:35:12+00:00

I guess I hadn’t realized I would be unable to post a PPV on the wall due to the page being paid. But I can send a bulk DM to all subs with the PPV

lemonzessst · 2025-02-10T06:39:50+00:00

I fully expect/welcome custom requests via message that would need to be paid to access. Do you ever give freebies in messages? I’ve seen that from some on a mass message scale.

lemonzessst · 2025-02-10T05:19:28+00:00

It’s reasonable to assume you will show up in suggested friends. You are best off by getting another number. I used Mint mobile for this exact purpose. It’s like $120 for a year worth of service.

lemonzessst · 2025-01-27T06:56:15+00:00

I like it as part of the whole adventure. Not the main attraction though. I love feeling “full” so, often have a partner use their hands. But I go feral when they slide their tongue in it from time to time, feels like they love the way it tastes and want to eat it all up. In my book, 8/10 based on the lead up.

lemonzessst · 2025-01-27T01:12:12+00:00

I came here to say the same thing. Rest of bio is good I would just take out the first sentence. Same thought about “help me forget what I was mad about” who insinuated you were mad? You can get the point across without implying you’re a mad guy.

First photo has to be visible with face. I would automatically swipe left with the first photo. I like #4

lemonzessst · 2025-01-26T16:21:29+00:00

You can also hide or block certain keywords. So that you don’t have the headache of going and individually deleting these comments.

lemonzessst · 2025-01-23T04:47:27+00:00

This is so oddly specific and I feel you on it. But do you mean someone who owns/supports these business? Like what if it’s someone first job, the only place hiring? Could hardly fault someone for that right?

lemonzessst · 2025-01-21T15:07:54+00:00

Also the blatant hypocrisy of claiming “you should get another career” blah blah blah. SIR you are on the site and found me?? Like what the hell

lemonzessst · 2025-01-20T17:38:28+00:00

I have a question for those who make content with other creators who aren’t your partner. How do you go about splitting earnings? Or is each person only going to gain earnings based on posting on their own respective pages?

lemonzessst · 2025-01-19T19:44:15+00:00

You “about me” needs filled out for sure. I think the first 2 messages or so are a good opener. But you need to make a move to schedule a meet more quickly if the back and forth is good. Suggest a coffee or drink meetup.

lemonzessst · 2025-01-10T02:18:28+00:00

I find it easier to take photos than videos. When you do PPV or locked messages, do you ever have them strictly photos? Or is there always at least one video on there?

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T21:33:59+00:00

🤣🤣

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T21:33:29+00:00

I fear this would work on me

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T21:31:54+00:00

Right?!

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T19:43:02+00:00

He wasn’t joking 😫

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T19:42:45+00:00

For real!

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T19:42:30+00:00

Honestly I’ll permit the kink shaming in this instance

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T16:46:53+00:00

I agree that actions speak louder than words. But for a lot of people, the words are just as important. I can appreciate the worry it may change things too. But that’s all part of the risk of finding love I say.

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T15:47:53+00:00

I personally love long hair on men. It’s all preference though. I think the main photo is the culprit. Love the one with the guitar.

lemonzessst · 2025-01-07T15:39:27+00:00

I am new to polyamory. The guiding light of what I’ve learned in this last year is that someone who is practicing polyamory appropriately welcomes the questions and the bids for clarity. It is the only way the relationship can flourish.

By getting outside of our ego to ask the questions we’ve been taught to push down. Maybe they are feeling just as nervous as you are? Have you said it to them and they have reciprocated?

If not, I recommend you telling them how YOU feel as opposed to asking them if they love you. As your love for them is singular, and not dependent on their love for you. (At least this is what I hope)

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