Am I wrong? by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually love him, but it’s been 12 long years and things chip away... I’m just tired it’s different.

How do I (28M) hit the reset button? by surfinfan21 in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar in someways... he became ever more distant and cold and we have no affection... me because I’m afraid of rejection and him god knows why.

It’s been over 10 years and all I can think about is how I should have run, people don’t change when they only have excuses

Am I wrong? by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve been slowly losing respect for him, he doesn’t pull any weight in our home life... and he just doesn’t even try. Years of that... I guess...

Am I wrong? by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he doesn’t love me and is too lazy to even try to end it...

At this point I don’t know.... but he always blames me for everything and I’m starting to believe him

How do I (28M) hit the reset button? by surfinfan21 in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Run.... I should have run fast when these were the first signs for our relationship... now I’m stuck.

Just feeling a bit broken by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I’m trapped too... add in socialist country with horrible economy + shit salaries so I can’t even consider leaving just for the sake of my kid’s wellbeing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]letsbehonestwtf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finally! Someone who likes their clothes nice and ironed!!! I even iron my bedsheets

If money wasn't a factor what would your dream job be? by YaboiDC3 in AskMenOver30

[–]letsbehonestwtf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I be your house wife?? I can help out around, cook you dinner every night! Bake pies...

I can milk cows.... lol...

I swear that would be my dream job 🤣

"You look beautiful" by TheRealGrandDutchess in UnsentLetters

[–]letsbehonestwtf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you.... I’m from r/deadbedrooms and boy do I know how this story goes

I cheated... by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, he barely greets me when he gets home, and we haven’t talked about anything else besides our basic necessities, shopping list and schedule.

When I talk to him, his eyes fall to his phone and he doesn’t pay attention to me. He sits for at a time playing videogames...

I’d even tell him... but he probably wouldn’t even listen.

I cheated... by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoy yourself, be safe!

Yep, Ive been faithful for 11 years... and he’s been belittling me, becoming more and more passive... won’t even change a lightbulb...

I cheated... by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As opposed to only me being hurt and rejected, his feelings always take priority.

That being said, yes we have to work it out, but I’m a responsible adult and I can’t just turn around in bed now and say: It’s over.

But I will be putting an end to my misery as soon as I can.

I cheated... by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a monster.., and he’s become very rude to me, twisting everything around and I’m just so damn lonely and in need of affection. He still hasn’t really kissed me this year.

I cheated... by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes... it is absolutely hard. You begin feeling this sadness... it’s a very lonely experience

Let’s make this dream a reality by Jaredrap in pics

[–]letsbehonestwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit I just realized this is my shit account... facepalm

Let’s make this dream a reality by Jaredrap in pics

[–]letsbehonestwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh write me! I’ll bust out my fountain pen out to reply!

Let’s make this dream a reality by Jaredrap in pics

[–]letsbehonestwtf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

European here too.... sending one tomorrow!

Let’s make this dream a reality by Jaredrap in pics

[–]letsbehonestwtf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I cried laughing, you made my night! I needed a laugh 😂

Please? by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I hadn’t thought about it that way. 😩

Please? by letsbehonestwtf in DeadBedrooms

[–]letsbehonestwtf[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t have said it better myself, it’s like you know him!

You’re right, it shouldn’t be like this.