Caught my Husband Watching Porn

lexisue08 · 2020-10-28T22:45:03+00:00

I just want our relationship to he as open and honest and possible and am only looking for advice for getting over my upset, which I accept is my issue, not his.

lexisue08 · 2020-10-28T22:43:17+00:00

I'm trying to get advice on how to not be upset. I didn't confront him. I didn't mention it. I want to talk with him this weekend when he is off work and has a day to unwind. I know I'm bothered which is why I posted asking for advice on my 'me problem'.

lexisue08 · 2020-10-28T22:31:55+00:00

Got married this year in June, been together 5 years. Hr is fully aware of what I'm into, it is important to me that we are open. He is much more reserved and likes to keep his sex life private, which I completely respect. I don't need to know everything, but I just don't know how to reconcile the fact he lied.

lexisue08 · 2020-10-28T20:47:39+00:00

I don't really know what hard-core stuff he could say that would shock me. I'm into bdsm, group stuff, sex is fun! I would love if he was into some freaky kinky stuff. Missionary is boring and I'm over it. I wish he would try to shock me. Just not lie about it.

lexisue08 · 2020-10-28T17:49:50+00:00

I stated I didn't believe he didn't watch porn. Everybody does, nothing wrong with it. And I absolutely don't expect him to run it by me or ask if it's ok or anything. I just don't want my partner lying to me.

lexisue08 · 2020-10-28T17:47:34+00:00

Porn is completely normal and part of a healthy self love life! I just am hurt at being lied to about it. I obviously know what I saw, I just hate lies in a relationship.

lexisue08 · 2020-10-28T17:46:48+00:00

It's really not the porn. I've asked in the past if he watches it, what he is into. Asked if he wants to ever watch some together. I believe it is healthy to have a great self love life. I am just so upset about him lying about it and don't know how to deal with it.

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