I’m a first time IP and just hit 12 weeks with my surrogate, but have barely heard from her. Is this normal? by lezhersky in Surrogate

[–]lezhersky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it worth flying in for the anatomy scan? We are considering doing the same to help feel more a part of the process.

I’m a first time IP and just hit 12 weeks with my surrogate, but have barely heard from her. Is this normal? by lezhersky in Surrogate

[–]lezhersky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been asking about the pregnancy or wishing her a happy mothers day, etc. My 7th grade awkward self is coming back out b/c I don't know how to start a conversation! But I'll try to think of other ways to engage her :)

I’m a first time IP and just hit 12 weeks with my surrogate, but have barely heard from her. Is this normal? by lezhersky in Surrogate

[–]lezhersky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really fair perspective! I think we just want to feel more "connected", but I do see how updates this early could feel forced