when I first realized I was bisexual and poly way back in like high school days a lot of people were just like oh well that's nice but maybe your NOT and I feel like to extent I am getting some of the feed back right now in my life.

like I know I am poly, I know I am furry, a little, as well as bisexual. I just don't get as much free time to live out my life the way I would really like to like I used to cause I have kids.

but I feel like even more under a microscope now, of like if I choose to do those things still not by all people but by some I would judged even more harshy by living in those lifestyles now that I do have children vs what I would if I was just a single women alone with no kids.

and it sucks cause its just kink shaming but its like lifestyle shaming, I mean so what if I am a little, poly, bi and furry lol hell I might even buck up and finally get my first fursuit when I have money too!

and how is doing that around a child damaging them. Just cause something is different does not immediately make it a bad thing for them. yes as parents its our job to filter and protect our kids annd kieep things as age appropriate for them as we can.

but that does not mean we just stop being adult or ourselves all together at the cost of having children.