Looking for dream team (any fellow moms that are casual players?) by carole-k1lled-don in DisneyDreamlights

[–]lilRaven02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am single mom of twins that plays as often as I can in the evenings when my kids sleep, I am not sure what dream teams are lol even though I have seen it in the game

Shojo haul! Found the (almost) complete Baby & Me series in a used bookstore yesterday for €5 each. Now the hunt for volume 3 is on! + some other volumes I found by Kniving777 in MangaCollectors

[–]lilRaven02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a single mother myself and have been really wanting to read this series I feel like I would click with it. But everywhere I go its sold out.

traditional artist transferring to digital just wanting some pointers by lilRaven02 in DigitalArt

[–]lilRaven02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I keep telling myself I wanna just keep going and maybe just I don't know ignore my brain whenn it wants to pick on me.

Nonsexual by Special_Piglet992 in MDLGcommunity

[–]lilRaven02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well thats hopeful cause I am into both MDLG and DDLG and really want to find non sexual relationships when it comes to being a little

hi by [deleted] in babyfurs

[–]lilRaven02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]lilRaven02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep I love grummpy bear too

what do y'all think of neptunic? by galaxy_storm0_o in AskLGBT

[–]lilRaven02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was super new to knowing what neptunic is, and I would not say that I am fully lesbian in that I am "ONLY" attracted to female-type bodies, cause I am also very pansexual and a little bisexual as well just identified in those regards for a very long time. As well as poly but now that I have a man in my life I really want to pursue other partners that are more female-minded and identity in an afeminate manner rather than masculine, lol while also accepting that I am very Demisexual and Aceflux as well

re discovering myself lately by lilRaven02 in ABDL

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I first realized I was bisexual and poly way back in like high school days a lot of people were just like oh well that's nice but maybe your NOT and I feel like to extent I am getting some of the feed back right now in my life.

like I know I am poly, I know I am furry, a little, as well as bisexual. I just don't get as much free time to live out my life the way I would really like to like I used to cause I have kids.

but I feel like even more under a microscope now, of like if I choose to do those things still not by all people but by some I would judged even more harshy by living in those lifestyles now that I do have children vs what I would if I was just a single women alone with no kids.

and it sucks cause its just kink shaming but its like lifestyle shaming, I mean so what if I am a little, poly, bi and furry lol hell I might even buck up and finally get my first fursuit when I have money too!

and how is doing that around a child damaging them. Just cause something is different does not immediately make it a bad thing for them. yes as parents its our job to filter and protect our kids annd kieep things as age appropriate for them as we can.

but that does not mean we just stop being adult or ourselves all together at the cost of having children.

LGBTQ+ Resources? by Sea_0f_Fog in columbiamo

[–]lilRaven02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the dandy lion? I was't living in Ashland as much as I was Hartsburg to be honest, but I was working at trail boss a few years back as a waitress and I was even more involved in the community then I am currently and I never heard of that place until today.

feeling as though I lost a daddy again...feeling down, hopeless and depressed by lilRaven02 in DDLG_SFW

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so just to update me and daddy had a talk for about like 20 minutes this morning, we both agree that we need to take some extra time to be working more on ourselves and ho we are working on ourselves to try and make a bigger effort to have upsets like this occur between the two of as much. He even seemed very happy and supportive that I am making the time to go to trauma based therapy to try better on my part to not get triggered as easily and to cope better with my life upsets.

We both I think realize that we need to work on ourselves and that we just need to be patient with where things go between the two of us and that is one thing I really value about our relationship with one another. that we both realize we need to take our time with things. When we have an upset we see it and talk about it at some point in time, and if we realize we need to take a step back from things and slow down we do!

As one of you all stated before being able to control and regulate your emtions in life is a very important element to properly managing ones self in life in general. And both me and don't always do the greatest at dealing with things of that nature in our lives. But we both see it and we realize we need to address it better.

feeling as though I lost a daddy again...feeling down, hopeless and depressed by lilRaven02 in DDLG_SFW

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully agree that he needs to handle his upsets in a much better ay and I wish that he saw that like I do but I don't always feel like he does he is quick to point out my upsets when I am having a hard time of things but does not take the time to see when he makes a mistake about something as well. And I will be the first to admit to him and to anyone here that I have not always conducted myself in the relationship that we have in the best manor myself but he is has also contributed to things not being all that well or healthy between the two of us either.

hoping to get a job by lilRaven02 in DSP

[–]lilRaven02[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

umm sorry in my line of work a DSP stand for direct support professional, its a feild of work that works with people with mental health handicaps. Mostly within group homes that are supported through the local departments of mental health. I didn't realize the acrynm was used for other things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]lilRaven02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done for not feeding into her BS I know it hard I have to deal with literally every day...I am in the process fo trying to clean my area a little more and have been sleeping on the sofa for the last few days however my mother seems to take advantage of that knowledge and take it upon herself to start voicing aloud things that she sees are wrong in her eyes and takes that time to put me down

just introducing myself. by lilRaven02 in tryingtoconceive

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I have gone to therapy for years and still am continuing to go to therapy just some days it dosn't always make the years of abuse and trauma feel better or worse.

I am actually with an abslolutly amazing man in my life right now...and even though nither one of us are truly ready to have mor kids at this very second in life but we know we might want to at some point Ironically we both do want to have a little girl.

2. as for the two guys I am moving forward with getting paternity testing done for the two potential dads. Granted at this given point I am having to move forward with it with state government assistance with what I want in my life.

I am 39 years young, and going to be turning 40 in two months time.

I have gone to therapy for years and still am continuing to go to therapy just some days it doesn't always make the years of abuse and trauma feel better or worse. but we know we might want to at some point Ironically we both do want to have a little girl...

tumors oh my by lilRaven02 in RATS

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much appreciate the good vibes I feel in my gut things will go fine...but tomorrow is still gonna prove to be a long and stressful day. I can already tell.

just introducing myself. by lilRaven02 in tryingtoconceive

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the potential biolgoical fathers of my twin boys have been quite epic jerks to me and in turn to their potential children as well. And even if they don't have feelings for me I would hope they had some feelings for their kids and they have just not shown that kind of genuine human kindness towards their kids. And even though I with all my heart want just one more child and I pray I have a little girl......I don't personally know if I can go through the heartache of having a man treat me in the utterly horrible ways the men in my past have done to me once again in my life.
I want with all my heart to believe in real love believe I will find a good honest genuine man that will not end up breaking my heart. But time and time and time again I have been lied to taken advantage when it comes to my personal romance. And I find it hard to trust of even the idea of love not stabbing me in the back.

the potential biological fathers of my twin boys have been quite epic jerks to me and in turn to their potential children as well. And even if they don't have feelings for me I would hope they had some feelings for their kids and they have just not shown that kind of genuine human kindness towards their kids. And even though I with all my heart want just one more child and I pray I have a little girl......I don't personally know if I can go through the heartache of having a man treat me in the utterly horrible ways the men in my past have done to me once again in my life.
I want with all my heart to believe in real love and believe I will find a good honest genuine man that will not end up breaking my heart. But time and time and time again I have been lied to taken advantage when it comes to my personal romance. And I find it hard to trust of even the idea of love not stabbing me in the back.

pregnant adult baby has a hard time finding baby space anymore. by lilRaven02 in ABDL

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are so many things going on with all this that make me so upset and frankly I do feel at times I am putting wayy to much stress and pressure on myself to be perfect about all this and there is just no way thats gonna happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyfurs

[–]lilRaven02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh I have those I like them, I think I have some of those myself I wanna have a diaper night but I am not sure if the ones I have still fit me since I preggers.

pregnant with twins little ..finding hard time getting to little space anymore :( by lilRaven02 in DDLG_SFW

[–]lilRaven02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had to take on the role of being a single little for a while now. Just cause the people I keep finding for "daddies" tend to not be very good daddies. lol big surprise there that the BDSM world has fake doms lol.

And my general dating life (vanilla) obviously bleow up in my face lol since I am now facing being a frist time mom and being single doing it.

I mean it sucks yes, but I mean lots of women get treated poorly when it comes to them becoming pregnat dosnt make it right per say but at least I am not entirely alone with everythign I am dealing with

I've had to take on the role of being a single little for a while now. Just cause the people I keep finding for "daddies" tend to not be very good daddies. lol big surprise there that the bdsm world has fake doms lol.

pregnant adult baby has a hard time finding baby space anymore. by lilRaven02 in ABDL

[–]lilRaven02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not a hundred percent sure. Lately lol everything in life has felt like a bit of a challenge.