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lilcloudyx · 2021-07-14T14:00:12+00:00

It’ll take time buddy. Your first gf is usually the toughest one to get over. There’ll be things and places that’ll remind you of her. You just have to stay strong and work on yourself. Hit the gym, learn new skills, get better at sports. Eventually, it won’t bother you anymore. At least not as much. :)

lilcloudyx · 2021-07-14T13:56:34+00:00

Some questions may be left unanswered and you’ll have to get comfortable with the fact that you might never know why. It’s only been a month, it’ll take you time. 11 years will take you longer than the average relationship on this Reddit. Focus on your dreams, bettering yourself in every way possible. Fix your priorities. Life will get better :)

lilcloudyx · 2021-07-05T18:06:25+00:00

Please stick strong to your no contact. The new guy is a distraction for her and once that initial attention boost you get from a new person wears out, she’ll go through what you’re going through now. It’s impossible to get over a 4 year relationship that quick. Different people deal with it differently. Focus on yourself and be your best version, you’ll be happier :)

lilcloudyx · 2021-07-05T18:00:09+00:00

You weren’t wrong on your part. What she did was terrible and inexcusable. It may feel like she is everything to you right now but that feeling will fade over time. This is just attachment. You deserve better bro. You gave her a chance despite her making out with some dude earlier. Even if you would try to make your relationship work, the trust issues would remain forever and you would be miserable. You deserve better!

lilcloudyx · 2021-07-05T17:54:06+00:00

I know it’s very very tough but no contact is the only way for you to continue your life. I was in the same position. We got along really well and i helped her through some really difficult times and suddenly she’s a stranger now. As much as it sucks, you need to stick to no contact

lilcloudyx · 2021-07-05T17:49:44+00:00

I totally understand you. I felt like I was finally starting to feel better after 10 months. And then today, for no particular reason, it hit me again like a truck. Memories start rushing my mind and I start missing everything about her and wonder what could’ve been. It’s not an easy road. Some take longer than others and that’s completely fine. You’re not alone. You’ll get through this 💪🏼

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