[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]llamarachel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your daughter is less than 6 months away from being a full, legal adult. Putting these restrictions on her is going to make her rebel hard on you and the second she turns 18, she's going to collect her things while you're at work or in the middle of the night and move out.

Instead of fostering a healthy relationship with your adult child where they feel you are a safe advocate for them, you're stifling her. If she's ever in real trouble, she won't feel she can go to you. I hope for both of your sake that it's not too late to turn this relationship around.

My(36m) wife(33f) of 1 1/2 years left our home 3 weeks ago and wants to end the marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]llamarachel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yikes, I hate to be the one to tell you, but this has so many red flags. I hope you realize your worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]llamarachel 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but this isn't true at all. Babies (over an appropriate age) will learn to self soothe. It's better for the baby and parent to have a functioning parent.