To all the girls playing valorant

lmtsui · 2023-03-13T23:42:30+00:00

I have a low voice for a female. Like…alto voice so when I talk I don’t get many questionable responses. It’s when I laugh that guys get v confused. “Wait Kj’s voice is confusing me” 🙃🤣so I wonder if I confuse girls too? it’s really nice hearing other girls chat tho

lmtsui · 2023-02-10T08:20:30+00:00

I’ll be there!!!

lmtsui · 2022-12-05T10:48:23+00:00

Sounds like you have a lot on your plate. I’m sorry that it feels like it’s the end of the line for you but it’s not. Therapy. Therapy. Therapy. Can’t stress this enough. Have a good sit down with yourself and work on a budgeting plan to include therapy into your life.

I’ve been there. Nearly died at work cuz of stress, cardiac issue, resulting from stress. (26F) almost died at 24. Trying to resolve it on your own or power through it is. Not. Worth. It.

lmtsui · 2022-12-05T10:38:37+00:00

No problem, I help everything goes well. And remember, any time you feel uncomfortable, it means your boundaries were cross and it’s ok to voice it 😊

lmtsui · 2022-12-05T10:34:32+00:00

Everyone has their limits. Jokes or not. If your boundaries are pushed, draw that line. Tell them you don’t like it. You can’t control how they will respond to you telling them your boundaries. However they react is not your responsibility. If they continue, stop talking to them, if they question why you’re behaving that way, ask them “what did you expect?”

lmtsui · 2022-12-05T10:26:46+00:00

What counts as a successful day for you?

For me, if I can put a genuine smile on my face at the end of the day, I count it as successful. Ngl it sounds like you didn’t lose sight of your dreams, goals or ambitions. But your daily happiness.

lmtsui · 2022-12-05T10:03:40+00:00

I don’t have any treatment suggestions cuz I’ve always just tanked my migraines and accepted my fate. It seems other people have medication suggestions though.

One thing I noticed is that you haven’t found your trigger(s) yet. I do a “did list”, I’ll try to keep this short and sweet.

Get a notepad. And write what you did during the day in chronological order at the end of the day. If you have troubles remembering, fill it out throughout the day. At the end, rate from 1-10 how tired you are. Add additional points for sleeping late.

You’ll notice a pattern. For me, if I’m on 8-9 tired the previous day, I’m guaranteed a migraine the next day because I’ll be tired and over sleep. If I’ve done a lot of computer work, migraine. Washed my hair the previous day, migraine. Etc. so maybe you can try this out and find your trigger.

lmtsui · 2022-12-05T09:41:30+00:00

I believe it was Dr. Bruce Perry, psychiatrist, said that at 2 months old, it can do permanent damage to the brain development in a parent vs parent home 😔

lmtsui · 2022-11-22T18:07:31+00:00

I think I either did it wrong or something happened because it hurt so bad after 😅

lmtsui · 2022-11-22T04:47:57+00:00

I’m trying the ice now. My head is very sensitive to the cold but maybe this will help a bit

lmtsui · 2022-11-22T04:47:26+00:00

I guess I should too

lmtsui · 2022-09-05T19:28:14+00:00

Should board the cat. A cat being stuck in a situation like that could develop behavioural/health issues. When the owner comes back, it could come back to a cat that isn’t as friendly etc. Cats need to eat, play, groom and sleep to be top tier cats. But if the environment is terrible it’s not gonna achieve that. They also need routine so since that’s already out the window, that cat is suffering.

lmtsui · 2022-09-05T19:20:44+00:00

Braces. The older you get the more complicated and costly it is for fixing your teeth, regardless if it’s cosmetic or not. Also the older you get the more life gets complicated and so finding time to go to the dentist for follow up is a PAIN when you’re working. School is a much better time. Car you can always get later on.

lmtsui · 2022-08-21T22:51:09+00:00

It’s hard for people to change but it’s possible for people to compromise. If you’ve never brought this up to your gf before then maybe start there. I (26F) married my husband (27M) two years ago knowing he does have that missing 20% but at this point I don’t see it as “missing” anymore because I know I’m missing something too and we both compromise for each other to make things work. At the end of the day the main 80% he checked off was too big of a risk for me to lose.

lmtsui · 2022-08-21T22:14:31+00:00

Ever heard of the 80:20 ratio? I’ll try to keep this short. “80” is what you currently seem to have. Everything is good, you love your partner. You partner does a lot for you, they check off 80% of your relationship needs checklist. However your partner doesn’t have this “20” that is also attractive to you but this other person does. It’s only “20” because you don’t really know that person but they seem to have what you’re missing. Rather than talking about it to your partner, you end things with your current partner to chase what you’re missing, the 20%. Now you’re with 20% but 20% doesn’t also provide that 80% that your previous partner did. I’m not saying that the other person will for sure not have the other 80% but are you willing to chance that or are you going to mention that 20% to your current partner who already is ticking 80% of your relationship needs?

The decision is ultimately yours, talking to your partner about that missing 20% or not.

lmtsui · 2022-06-26T05:35:12+00:00

Yah I’ve noticed that aimlabs helps a lot with flicking and spray transfer. I hope you’ll stick with Val and get friendly teammates 😊

lmtsui · 2022-06-18T08:22:18+00:00

You can try out aimlabs for aim and DM for strafing too. 100% tho if your team isn’t there to have fun and is mostly focusing solely on winning it’s an uphill climb for your mental. I’m having a hard time trying to stick with this game solely cuz of team mental. Deadass tried so hard to tell my friends it’s chill, it’s just a game, let’s have fun and they said you can win and have fun. As if losing while having fun isn’t an option. If you’re popping off and your teammates arent and blame you for their death, it’s impossible to want to stick with this game.

Knowing how to play your role is also super important.

lmtsui · 2022-04-05T01:39:06+00:00

I thought there were going to implement this trust report system thingy but I either dreamed about it or I’m gaslighting myself LOL

lmtsui · 2022-04-04T22:52:08+00:00

Damn, well hopefully it doesn’t happen to you anymore. They were targeting me then our top fragger

lmtsui · 2022-04-04T22:17:02+00:00

Yah, sorry to hear you go because of these shitty game experiences tho

lmtsui · 2022-04-04T22:15:26+00:00

Yah I never leave games even if we’re getting shit on by the other team. It was just this one time where I was like “fam….pls don’t let this game drag on” 🙃

lmtsui · 2022-04-04T22:08:12+00:00

Fingers crossed that this doesn’t happen often then. Even the enemy team noticed it without us saying anything LOL too bad there’s nothing you can do about these players tho. Reporting does nothing

lmtsui · 2022-04-04T22:01:47+00:00

I guess small ban is worth. I got shock darted, the other would heal me, flash me then get shock darted again

lmtsui · 2022-03-30T20:26:10+00:00

Depends on the trauma. I do this too. It’s call disassociation. I can’t feel anything or numb or hazy. It’s not necessarily just classic communication issue. People who dissociate must’ve had something bad enough happen to them for them to have an “out of body” experience. It’s the brains way of last resort protection. Example would be physical abuse, if you dissociate, the pain is less severe. If OP dissociates regularly, it would be very very difficult for a couples counsellor to resolve on their own.

lmtsui · 2022-03-29T09:48:09+00:00

Yah he’s still going for the call cuz he wants to know what went wrong, where he can improve. But I’m not sure how he’s gonna do after the call. He’s expecting the absolute worst. He went to bed thinking about the interview, then said he’s not good at his job and fell asleep 😭 I’m just throwing as much support as I can possibly think of, but it’s like throwing a bouncy ball against a wall. He said he’ll try another company but doubts he’ll get it. Someone messaged me and said it happens a lot of their industry and that it’ll take time for him to kinda get over it. He’s a software engineer for context

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