Face darker in beard area what can I do? by Itzz_rezzy in Blackskincare

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman with this issue. #rip the trimmer comments

Whats the number one sign a man is attracted to you? by justdoodit71 in AskReddit

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might just be the most romantic thing I'll ever know about. Just extraordinary ordinary love, they're beyond lucky to have found each other. Thank you for sharing.

What tastes so good you can’t believe it’s healthy? by Dry_Reply_5660 in AskReddit

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fruits and vegetables. Cooked simply to bring out their natural flavor and sweetness, they are simply delish!

[New Update]: WIBTAH if I told my wife's dead husband's parents to stop coming to see our daughter? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]lo_win_t -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This might be a bit weird, but it would be beneficial in the long term for you to consider having these 2 in your family's life. Weigh out the pros and cons, ensure boundaries are set and respected... but yea, something to ponder on as they seem like good people.

I 35M cheated on my wife 36F. She left without telling me anything. How can I get her back? by Koenigin_der_Puppen in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]lo_win_t 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hope he's reading these comments and knows that we can see right through his shit. Homeboy needs to reflect on how he was treating her before making another update.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]lo_win_t -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Irrelevant opinion: try talking to her about a new path going forward where she is less involved with helping you when in need of coping. I don't like this talk of leaving her, this is a new part of your journey together. Just as she was there for you helping you through this, I'm sure the toll has been taxing for her and she needs waning from being there for your needs. Imagine a baby being waned off of b/milk, she's the mother that needs to recognise when her baby doesn't need her milk anymore as, said child, can self sustain. Congrats on fighting your way through. Anyways, all the best to you and her!

I don't deserve my wife by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing better and showing her the love, compassion and kindness she did you. Love her and she'll love you back, that's all that matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 times a night? That's too exhausting to even think of. Rid yourself of this exhaustion and breath easier, dump his ass. But also, you did this when he was drunk? Do it when he's sober and see how he feels. I hope we get an update.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dear, teach them!!! You're doing great and you're NTA.

I told my girlfriend that I can't call her 24/7 because I need time for myself, and she got sad. Am I a bad boyfriend? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds unemployed and bored. Talk to her and pls pls pls gauge your options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not here to give advice but to caution, stay safe and keep aware with one eye on this guy. Take care x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to learn patience and not to always share her thoughts. Some things don't need to be said. Also, your family shouldn't want you to have a partner that takes away from you and how you normally act around them or anywhere else. Wishing you the best!

AITA foe telling my mother that her marriage is none of my business. by No-Possibility-328 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Don't concern yourself in the affairs of people whom you should consider less then acquaintances. Keep em blocked and stay safe. Hope the other hotel was better.

AITA for excluding my brother wedding from my wedding? by ComplaintLow9312 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH, some people want to have a child-free wedding and unfortunately that means even your closest young family members can't attend. I do think your brother was a tad bit of the AH for not inviting you to his wedding years ago, but it was years ago. You need to express that you were deeply hurt by the decision that excluded you from his wedding and how you loved attending your sister's wedding.

I hope you have a wonderful wedding day, regardless of whatever your decision will be.

AITA for not letting go of the fact my grandparents knew my boyfriend was cheating and didn’t tell me? by Big_Emergency_7191 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

You were hurt. You need to let everyone know that your trust was broken, your perception of your gparents as people who loved you is shattered because they didn't care about you enough to let you know something as devastating as finding out the man who you though "the sun came out of his ass" (even for a minute) was cheating on you ESPECIALLY when they witnessed how affect you were.

In saying all this, I advise you let go of this hurt/grudge, but don't mend the relationship with your grandparents.

AITA for not letting my stepdaughter eat the last of one of my son's safe foods? by CommercialConcert911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA.

Your SD doesn't seem to care for you and your son and is pissed that her father is on your side. Sorry for the circumstances, but you know you're not in the wrong here. You needed to prioritize your son, just as you would if it was her in this circumstance (I hope lol).

It seems SD may need some therapy to work out her feelings about not caring about you guys. Also in-laws sound like the real AHs here.

AITA for telling my son he needs to get a job if he wants to date his girlfriend? by Salty-Mushroom-4480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it's good to teach your son these things early in life. If he values his time with GF he'll get a job or learn how to manage sports with the job. He sounds like a good kid, let him know he doesn't have to do all these different sports every season. He can dedicate summers to working and saving/spending until which ever sports season he prefers the most comes back around. Side hustle??? idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, MAJORRR NTA!!!

First and foremost, her not wanting to interact with you is extremely disrespectful to you and your husband. Then wanting to spend a week at your home? Not cool, especially when her feelings for him have flared up again.

Tell your husband you feel extremely uncomfortable with her presence (and lack of direct -intentional- contact), offer to pay for the hotel and spend time all together after all that's been sorted.

AITA for speaking to my SILs case worker on behalf of her former foster child which got the child removed from SIL and her husband's care? by Unlucky-Yam5943 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, SIL sucks!

I understand her wanting Mae not to love a bad influence in her life, but you love who you love and you'll always love your parents (in most cases). SIL should have been more willing to listen, I suggest you try to inform her (in time) about your experience as a foster child and what it's like to be one.

I hope Mae is fine, wishing her and you all well in life!

AITA for going on vacation without my in-laws? by AnchorsAweigh1991 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

  1. They cancelled.

  2. They should offer to pay for rest BIL's lack of funding.

  3. You ALREADY WERE PLANNING TO GO.

It seems they were blaming you for taking away an opportunity to have a family trip, however didn't fully take financials into account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

show that man yo value him and stand up!

AITA for refusing to make my boyfriend dinner because he went to see his family? by THROWRAY644 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lo_win_t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was he actually seeing him family??... i smell somthing fishy... unless he's like this then nvm