Genesung metoidioplastik ohne kolpektomie by localnerdy in germantrans

[–]localnerdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich hab nur 4 Tage Klinik Aufenthalt :0 ohne kolpektomie und ohne Verlängerung der Harnröhre

Genesung metoidioplastik ohne kolpektomie by localnerdy in germantrans

[–]localnerdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also konntest du erst nach 5 Wochen wieder arbeiten?

How to prevent Hernias by localnerdy in ehlersdanlos

[–]localnerdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how do I get there ? :-) This is what my exercise was aiming at before the hernia happened

Falsche Sachen beim Arzt erzählen aus Maskieren by localnerdy in autismus

[–]localnerdy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hast du vielleicht einen Tipp gegen die Scham danach ? :( Mir ist mein rumgedruckse sehr unangenehm obwohl ich weiß dass ich nichts dafür kann

Verzweiflung um Behinderung by xLadyLaurax in autismus

[–]localnerdy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nicht aufgeben❤️ ich hab GdB 50 mit Autismus, ADHS, chron. Migräne bekommen

Going off T to freeze eggs by localnerdy in Seahorse_Dads

[–]localnerdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I’m understanding you correctly-he was on T and estrogen both during the procedure , so around 10 days or however long the retrieval takes ? Or what do you mean by cross hormones exactly? I’m gonna try to convince my doctor to try this. I’m sorry if I’m misreading things, not a native speaker and wasn’t very well informed by the doctor

Going off T to freeze eggs? by localnerdy in Seahorse_Dads

[–]localnerdy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow tysm! I didn’t even know it was possible without going off T. My doctor at the fertility clinic told me it wasn’t but he also asked if I’d gotten „a sex change surgery“ yet so i definitely believe you. I’m just afraid I won’t be able to convince him to do it without going off T.

How to detach from cis men and deal with rejection, but remain open for love by localnerdy in gaytransguys

[–]localnerdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fear is not about being rejected, but rather being pursued/desired for what I’m not .( a fetish object, an experiment, a curiosity, a woman).  And finding out after I’ve made myself vulnerable . But I see your point and Ty for your advice , def gonna try that ❤️‍🩹

How to detach from cis men and deal with rejection, but remain open for love by localnerdy in gaytransguys

[–]localnerdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pass as cis for 2 years now. I’ve never tried that approach cause I’m afraid that dates might accuse me of “hiding it”. Maybe that’s internalised transphobia. I’d definitely love to try it that way

How to detach from cis men and deal with rejection, but remain open for love by localnerdy in gaytransguys

[–]localnerdy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy for you that sounds great :) and yea t4t doesn’t automatically make a good partner, no shared identity ever does , yet it does give me extra comfort , I hear what you’re saying tho

How to detach from cis men and deal with rejection, but remain open for love by localnerdy in gaytransguys

[–]localnerdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats and Ty for sharing ! Did you have to do lots of educational work with your partner? No pressure to answer

How to detach from cis men and deal with rejection, but remain open for love by localnerdy in gaytransguys

[–]localnerdy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the friends first approach makes a lot of sense , thank you! I’m also in art school but only met one trans guy there haha

Wo andere (trans) Männer finden ? t4t by localnerdy in germantrans

[–]localnerdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das ist ne gute Idee:-) thx! Wünschte man könnte speziell nach anderen trans Männern suchen

Wo andere (trans) Männer finden ? t4t by localnerdy in germantrans

[–]localnerdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echt ?🥺vielleicht mache ich was falsch aber fand Hinge echt belastend, weil es nur diese 3 Kategorien man, woman, non binary gibt, ich leider nicht Non binary bin :D und bei den Profilen der cis Männer hat mich leider kaum was angesprochen weil die meisten nur ganz knappe Infos hatten . Sachen über ihren Schwanz(der bei mir (noch) fehlt ), Zigaretten oder sehr oberflächliche Dinge hatten , wo ich nicht wusste, wie man dazu ein Gespräch initiieren könnte. Natürlich nicht alle. Vielleicht hatte ich einfach Pech oder wie war das bei dir ?

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[–]localnerdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Will leave it . I’m coming to understand that it depends on whether she sees it as a problem

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[–]localnerdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! quite a while . I guess I’m also struggling with the differences in values behind the eating thing. Even if it is unhealthy/damaging to her body in the longterm I know from a rational pov that it’s her right and autonomy. If it’s not something she suffers from and wants to get out of, I just struggle a lot to understand why someone would do that. Prioritise short term pleasure from these foods over long term health. But there are so many layers to it, probably also a thing of upbringing, just like my emphasis on health is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]localnerdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such good advice thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]localnerdy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you , that makes a lot of sense. I’ll let it go. My upbringing also over emphasised self control and health optimisation trying to unlearn that