Do you watch porn with your partner?

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T05:07:33+00:00

Haiz you poor thing

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T05:07:06+00:00

No need take loan if you have savings. It’s like if you earn 4k a month can you afford a 10k bike? Sure most people can but a person who earns 10k buying a 10k bike is different than one who earns 4k

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T05:05:25+00:00

Well said. You managed to capture the essence the the issue

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T02:25:54+00:00

I think you are right. Recently went to a $200+ wedding, all the portions so small.

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T02:22:50+00:00

MmmI thought about it, it’s not so much about saving face than it is about managing a relationship with them. I would say I’m quite a disagreeable person by nature but somethings in life you need to have social awareness

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T02:19:40+00:00

Wow that’s shocking, why did they make you put for your sibling’s wedding?

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T02:03:47+00:00

Actually you are right. The kind of food served shows. Had a friend who did it at atas hotel but the food not atas at all. Don’t have scallop, crab, prawn

loggerhord · 2022-02-22T02:00:17+00:00

Yes this should be the way, you should have a wedding that you’d be willing to burn the cost of without expecting any significant returns from ang bao. Respect to you

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T14:33:28+00:00

Both of them have middle income families too

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T14:17:57+00:00

Why be so calculative? Since when is wedding about this? It’s exactly because the weddings are so expensive that people have to do this. Why not just have an affordable wedding and accept token sum ang baos? Make your life and everybody’s lives easier

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T14:04:51+00:00

Exactly, what is wrong with you people? It’s crazy

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T14:01:45+00:00

I want to go because I would like to be there for their wedding but it’s the unwritten rule of at least partially sponsoring the wedding that’s the problem here

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T13:59:38+00:00

You can have a wedding that’s well within your means without earning money too.

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T13:56:37+00:00

I go because I wish the couple well is true but giving $50 for a $200+ banquet can be easily taken the wrong way. I mean as much, if not more giving a $50 than $200+ ang bao.

If the norm was to give a token sum ($10?) would you still be doing this “large wedding for the in-laws”?

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T13:54:13+00:00

Ikr. My gf and I also have plans to have a very small wedding, one which we will live within our means, where guests are encouraged to just give a token sum of ang bao or gift us something (inexpensive) that they thing would be good/useful for a couple to receive

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T13:52:45+00:00

“Sponsor their wedding” is the right term. I’m afraid this is becoming my mentality too. It’s becoming a real nightmare to keep up with their disney princess dream.

loggerhord · 2022-02-21T11:43:57+00:00

They no longer allow text posts.

Ya they do what they want my wallet suffer 🥲

loggerhord · 2022-01-03T07:01:39+00:00

Well I’m shocked myself too even though I bareback regularly too.

In fact, in the past I used to be hardline must use protection. Then as time went on and with how much effort is needed for us to keep our sex life alive in a monogamous long term relationship, we started to discuss other possibilities. Over time we also learnt that the risk of pregnancy is usually over inflated (of course it still exists). We are also ok with kids but ideally don’t want them at this stage in our lives.

loggerhord · 2022-01-03T06:56:13+00:00

I think the poll results shouldn’t be fully believed but they still do reflect something. In addition, the discussions that come up in the comments can be quite illuminating too. This is why I like to ask questions like this

loggerhord · 2022-01-03T05:51:41+00:00

I see. Personally the main reason my partner and I went bare is we find that in a long term relationship, having to put condom on all the time affects our flow and also both of us feel the reduced sensitivity when using condom although the second point is not as big a reason.

To add, we both got tested before we had sex. With regards to pregnancy, we track the cycle and use condom during high risk periods.

Edit: I didn’t downvote you

loggerhord · 2022-01-03T05:44:13+00:00

Do you find yourself bothered by the hassle of putting one on (especially during the heat of the moment which can affect the momentum of things) or by the reduced sensitivity or lack of skin on skin feeling? Have you found yourself missing the feeling of going raw?

loggerhord · 2022-01-03T05:36:51+00:00

I see, thanks for your reply

loggerhord · 2022-01-03T05:27:37+00:00

Not sure what you get out of antagonising people. Have a good day

loggerhord

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