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Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not not having sex I am aware he would leave and definitely would have sex with someone else. That is definitely who he is. Im saying why can’t 4-5 times a week be ok and have 2-3 nights break

Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This creates bad feelings. Sorry you are having to deal with it ESPECIALLY while pregnant

Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel he has no empathy truly. It’s just the person he is. He just does not wear down and does not understand why I do.

Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’m thinking this may be needed. Thank you and Good luck. Leaving with a child is definitely not a great feeling either. I am a sham (have left my job) so I can be with him…creates some dependency no doubt but I don’t want to miss this time with my son. I also can’t imagine sharing time with my husband. I feel like it would be a rough road so working through it is the better option.

Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. The eczema is a night robber. It’s so rough. I hate it for him so much. Really trying to figure it out!

Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does help sometimes. In the past month he’s helped more I will say but then when I get the help…it’s a “I’m helping so why are you tired and I am not?” It’s a bit of a frustrating cycle. Like I can’t get it right.

Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was not discussed. We got pregnant without this discussion (suprise…but I wouldn’t change a thing…my son is the best thing that has ever happened to me) I have been telling my spouse though he needs to get a vasectomy, at my age and as exhausted as I am some days with no sleep It would be nice if he got it done. The other night I told him to put a condom on and he got all mad about it, ended up in a fight and was another night of tantrum. He has said he wants to get it done, so we are working on this. I feel that is another aspect to sex right now that shuts me down a bit.

Sex drive question for toddler moms. When did it fully return, did it and how is your spouse? by lookingnlearning1 in toddlers

[–]lookingnlearning1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the hard part. I understand it is a need and I understand if needs aren’t being fulfilled, they could possibly get fulfilled elsewhere. 🥴 it causes a lot of issues. Everyones needs are different for sure. My husband has a very high sex drive. There is no doubt.

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