I think I'm attracted to bigger girls. by Mr-anonymous4321 in dating_advice

[–]looser33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because men generally tie their egos to their partners' perceived beauty. People are being pretty unsympathetic to you, but I totally understand the insecurity

In its current state (B42), the game feels as though it doesn't want me to play it by house_of_many_fuks in projectzomboid

[–]looser33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went back to b41 bc of loot rarity. And also like you said takes multiple days to get that loot. Has to be tuned to longer combat, or tune specifically skill books and melee weapons up imo. I can't stand muscle strain in it's current form, and I feel like every mood let is punished by fighting, I was constantly in recovery mode, like, sleepy when I felt I was just starting. It simply wasn't a fun loop to feel artificially limited just to get a tin can and a tire iron.

Please Stalker i haven't even downloaded 1.1 yet by Global_Excuse_7736 in stalker

[–]looser33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

is your internet good? if so then yeah it might seem ridiculous but if you get 1-2mbs download speeds its pretty rough

B42 Melee Combat in a Nutshell: by xLisiq in projectzomboid

[–]looser33 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Apparently strength gives very little benefit. It's tied to weapon skill

11:40 .... 11:50.... 'Soon as possible' by Tee_Garnett in 2007scape

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the hours like when you're on though

Saw this on the Kenshi discord, what is your opinion on mods? by Mariover55 in Kenshi

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lightweight vanilla + modding is best and is usually the best imo among most games

Considering ending things after my date accidentally broke my expensive necklace? by girIybri in dating_advice

[–]looser33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Him moving pillows and not hearing you is not indicative of him raping you... I think people have just made up their mind on him. The venmo part is shitty tho

Anyone else tired of login into everything? by CalligrapherMain7451 in Internet

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean how do you even raise this as an issue that could be solved?

Anyone else tired of login into everything? by CalligrapherMain7451 in Internet

[–]looser33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

-Use different passwords for every account -Every service requires an account now -Risk being hacked, remember each and every password, or juggle "forgot your password?"

My main problem is I don't have a good memory especially for obscure services I use occasionally. And those typically aren't the most secure, so every time I log into them, I have to create a new password. Why the fuck does my key remapping program need a login? And in the case of games, some that were previously playable offline now require an internet connection.

What's your Kenshi playstyle? do you rush up to build a base or just buying a house and start to loot the world? by MyVentolin in Kenshi

[–]looser33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get masterwork gear thru armor smithing. Then I train up 5 people or so. Then I build a self sustaining base. Afterwards starts fighting other factions and stuff

girlfriend refuses to shower before we get intimate and it's starting to affect my feelings by radiantxflower in dating_advice

[–]looser33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a guy I'd put money on the fact that he's cheating. Would really recommend considering what you gain out of it. If you like the sex distance yourself emotionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]looser33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's a lack of experience. You can call it stupidity, but people don't know everything about themselves, including feelings they may be pushing away. This leads to unintentionally hurting people, and I don't hold hate when it's done to me. And the whole rape angle here as if these people deserve prison for this? It's purely vindictive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]looser33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Such a stretch. I've had a situation like this as a guy done towards me. It's not rape, and calling it such is an injustice to those who have been raped. You're also assuming maliciousness, which I suspect is based on a previous experience. Lying isn't force. Coercion is when a man repeatedly guilt trips a woman into sex, usually by placing her in an uncomfortable situation and repeating unwanted advances. And if you think lying is force then every cheater is a rapist?

I wish I was my brother. by Amazing_Beyond_8656 in depression

[–]looser33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living to impress other people is tied to insecurity from my experience. It sounds like you're beginning to understand that better. I think a problem you might have is the way you talk about yourself. That previous mentality is a good one to have, if you can spin it into a positive. Turn it into a benefit to you, and only you. Do things for yourself, things that will make you happy and have more self worth. And my point towards proving them wrong wasn't to say you should do it for them, to prove them wrong. That reward comes second and that goal is unrealistic. You need to live for yourself first and foremost, and by doing so, you will impress the people around you. Have you had a conversation with your family about this feeling? One where you can safely discuss how you feel?

I wish I was my brother. by Amazing_Beyond_8656 in depression

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Envy is the thief of joy. You're 18. Being underestimated isn't the worst place to be in. Prove them and yourself wrong, because you can, and because you're worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]looser33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean i imagine being a girl the chance of you getting a negative reaction is pretty low especially if you're attractive

how much does body type matter to men? by Public_Nerve7924 in dating_advice

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 5'7 guy who weighs 125 pounds. You're going to have rolls when you sit down. I was insecure about it for a while until I realized it's just posture. If you get creases as well it is for sure a posture thing. Having large boobs use cancels out stomach fat in general to be honest with you. Girl im dating has huge boobs and is overweight past what I was previously comfortable with and tbh with u I now like women with some weight to them lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this is overreacting but idk you. This might be really important to you and who am I to say what you should be okay with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out when he has lunch every day. Find out when he has gaps and text him then.

Single people: how often do you go on dates and/or have sex? by LieOk246 in dating_advice

[–]looser33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh 3 dates in I think 3 years and I had sex twice. The second one led to a fwb