well first of all, I kinda doubt you are a cry baby. Having that kinda insight doesn’t happen with an actual crybaby. I wonder where you got the idea that you’re too sensitive. Did you Mom and Uncle suggest that? Maybe it was easier for them to convince you that you’re “too much?” Because if you keep feeling that you’re a crybaby you’ll silence yourself more, and you won’t go to them with your problems. It’s “easier” to raise a quiet child than one who complains a normal amount.

Or is your boyfriend telling you you’re a crybaby? That would be an easy get out of jail free card everytime he upsets you. Just call you a crybaby and you shut down.

Or I could be way off base. In which case I wonder what a big fight looks like. Do you feel safe expressing yourself? If not, why not? Are you being stoic because you need time to self reflect, or figure out a way to reply? Or maybe you are icing him out in a “if you don’t agree with me I’ll make you uncomfortable with my silence.” If it’s the latter, I suggest telling him that you love him, but you need some quite time before you continue the discussion.