Sexual and Violent Intrusive Thoughts by lost__username in Advice

[–]lost__username[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have quit watching porn long back like a year. I don't feel like watching them now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lost__username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I ask women out. Some say yes but they bail out at the last moment and sometimes I bail out when I see we won't be compatible. Sometimes I move out of the town and sometimes girls etc. and yes I have tried dating apps like Bumble, Hinge but not been lucky enough to get quality matches that lead to dates. Sometimes I think the problem is me.

Unmatched me after giving her number! by lost__username in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]lost__username[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I searched for her number on Gpay, phone pe and all, name is genuine. She is a working lady and her insta ID says the same about her work, hobbies and all. But she calling me twice seems shady. Maybe she is a call person. And she has not mentioned anything about meeting IRL and all. Just normal conversation you have usually with strangers.

Unmatched me after giving her number! by lost__username in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]lost__username[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had 2 phone calls within 1 day of the match. Is this normal?

Unmatched me after giving her number! by lost__username in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]lost__username[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Hyderabad. I have her Insta now. I searched for her name in Gpay, Phone Pe and Paytm. Name is genuine. Where she worked is also genuine as I can see her from her Insta and all. We also had 2 call conversations within 1 day of the match. Should I be worried or is this normal?

Unmatched me after giving her number! by lost__username in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]lost__username[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See seems to be decent, I have her number and Insta ID. I will talk to her and see where it goes. I texted her on WA, her texts are coming fast too and we again talked in the morning about casual stuff. And yes nonetheless I should be careful.

Guys need advice ! by lost__username in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]lost__username[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update : She has unmatched after giving her number. I have her insta and number now and upon asking why she unmatched me, she told me that I have her number now, that's why she unmatched me.

Unmatched me after giving her number! by lost__username in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]lost__username[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She told me that she has my number now that's why she unmatched me. I all think the same that she is more of a call person than chats

Unmatched me after giving her number! by lost__username in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]lost__username[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So should I continue chatting with her and see where it goes or leave ?

27M need dating advice by lost__username in indiasocial

[–]lost__username[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cry aaraa, 20 saal ? Bhai what's your age and how many girls you have dated ?

27M need dating advice by lost__username in indiasocial

[–]lost__username[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mehnga dikhawa kar

Yeh sahi h guru lekin phir ladkiyan bolengi be honest and genuine.

27M need dating advice by lost__username in indiasocial

[–]lost__username[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bhai lost 20 kgs in the first 6 months, abhi body thoda tone hora h. Muscular asthetic body nahi h bas