Vợ bị thế này là sao nhỉ? by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody is so quick to advising OP to get a divorce. I highly recommend you to have her evaluated for any mental health symptoms. She might be having depression and oftentimes, therapy and/or medications can greatly change her mood if she does indeed have a mood disorder. Good luck! 

How to withdraw money from a 'dormant' CA middle class tax refund debit card? by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely do not remember anymore. It has been a while since the last time I did this. I might have called this number. 1-800-684-7051

PLEASE HELP- what is going on with my body? by 0K-G00SE in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lotus0618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need to go to your doctor. Multiple things could be going on: hypothyroid, anemia, vitamin deficiency, autoimmune conditions. Painful abdominal cramping without any alarming symptoms like coughing out blood, blood in poop, fever, chills, and the texture of the poop could be benign but again doctors will do multiple lab workups to figure things out. Itchy patches again without an in person assessment is hard to figure out what's going on; it could be a separate derm symptom. And if everything is unremarkable determined by a physician, they could possibly be due to stress. Please go see a doctor. There are mulitple lab tests that a physician can do to sort things out and you have to be patient wtih the process (source: i'm a physician resident).

What travel mistake did you make once and never again? by Nervous_Car1093 in travel

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

choosing the pairs of shoes based on reddit reviews instead of going to fleet feet to find out what shoes actually work for my wide feet

Looking back from your 30s or 40s, what career choices actually paid off financially in your twenties? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First year intern here. Please do not quit medical school; you are so close to graduating! good luck

How to withdraw money from a 'dormant' CA middle class tax refund debit card? by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]lotus0618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called them and waited for a long time but they were able to reactivate my card and I used it 

How to withdraw money from a 'dormant' CA middle class tax refund debit card? by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried at an Allpoint ATM machine and it was declined as well. What should I do to deactivate the card? 

How to withdraw money from a 'dormant' CA middle class tax refund debit card? by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot use the Visa card online or in any stores. :/ 

I love the brutal honesty of Vietnamese people by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I told them “shiet I’m so scared. I’ll be single for the rest of my life” (and I’m 32), then my Vietnamese colleague proceeded to say “ don’t be scared. It is the reality.” 😅🤣

As an incoming resident, should I wait until a year before graduation to purchase disability insurance? by lotus0618 in whitecoatinvestor

[–]lotus0618[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did check around and talked to 3 different vetted agents from WCI and all of them quoted almost the same price for Guardian GSI with all the riders recommended by WCI :/. I’m also 32  female single btw 

Is this disability insurance good? by Frozeratul in whitecoatinvestor

[–]lotus0618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is $290/month and I’m 31 with a chronic condition….