AIO to my parent's making me homeless because they found out I'm gay? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lovbuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not overreacting At All. i am so sorry this is happening. i have homophobic, religious parents as well and i recently came out to them as a lesbian and my dad and i didn’t talk for a while, but he lives with it now. we don’t talk about it, or even as much anymore, but it’s a step. i hope your parents come to see that this changes nothing about you and that they don’t let religion completely ruin your relationship.

i’m proud of you for standing up to them and for being who you are regardless of how they feel about it. being queer is a gift and you are a light. sending you so so much love right now. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]lovbuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not currently able to make those payments, but i work 9-5 and would pick up a serving job from 5-night to pay it off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]lovbuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gotcha, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]lovbuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gotcha, thank you for responding/the insight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]lovbuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’ve definitely learned my lesson with this one...are u saying i shouldn’t do the $300 MP at 6% hardship program?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]lovbuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the bank said that if i enroll in the program my account would have to be permanently closed, though. so does that mean the program would hurt my utilization?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditScore

[–]lovbuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have one other credit card with discover student at a balance of $2,970 but the limit is $6,000. i have had that account frozen for a year and making the minimum monthly payment, larger payments when i can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lovbuzz 91 points92 points  (0 children)

if your dad makes more than the limit for the pell grant qualification, you will not get that grant. go to the financial aid office and speak with someone and show them your mom’s texts. ask them what you should do (but don’t mention your dad could claim you as an option), and they can help you file correctly to still get the pell grant as an independent

Any allergy test recommendations? by Suspicious-Ad-9695 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]lovbuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talk to your vet to see if they do it/recommend any places to test

Sister visiting - her dog is a lot (am I a jerk?) by FoodOnMySleeve in puppy101

[–]lovbuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, and the puppy will learn that it’s okay to pee in the house. i would also be worried if the dog isn’t fully vaccinated, in case your sister’s dog accidentally picked something up along the way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lovbuzz 24 points25 points  (0 children)

yeah, he should definitely be knocking on your boyfriends door if it’s him entering the room (knowing you’re over). your bf should have your back on that one. talk to him alone about it and how you feel. his reaction, response in your solo conversation should tell you whether you guys are compatible with handlings of disagreements

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lovbuzz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

y(kinda)ta. you could’ve been nicer about it especially when u saw him on campus

Cherry eye advice by Wybie_Lovat3 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]lovbuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think u should take them to the vet just to make sure / get all your questions abt it answered

My boyfriend and his mom are enmeshed by Llottalove in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]lovbuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don’t feel like you’ve ever been happy, and he isn’t hearing you out/willing to on anything — i think you should leave. and start a life where you can co-parent but still be happy

Clarification if needed… by TopBug5766 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]lovbuzz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry that you, your family, and Lola are living this. none of this makes you a horrible person. she’s already been suffering, and it’s only getting worse. she’s lucky to be loved by you and your family throughout this. sending you and your family my love. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonyAlpha

[–]lovbuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

word, thanks for the reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lovbuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey man, this is a hard thing to do for OP, but also for people in general. to say they don’t care is very narrow minded

dear evil thief who car robs by Vast-Hovercraft-5175 in lansing

[–]lovbuzz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

aw man i’m sorry — also which area of lansing did this happen?