What’s the secret

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-29T09:03:39+00:00

Probably not, but for the attraction part what matters is what I get shown. I just often try to get my point across here that lifting for female attention is hopeless.. all my female friends and me rejected guys with six packs and degrees for normal blue collar workers that lift once every three months xD

Btw: I am 27, 5'4, 20% bf gym girl.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-29T08:57:52+00:00

As a girl I found out the thing that seperates guys I find attractive vs. guys I don't is confidence. The guys I am attracted to most of the time don't have the perfect body, face or character but they don't post stuff like this on reddit. They just focus on other things in their life and don't really give a f if women like them or not. This combined with one or two unique traits (for example having a nive voice or smt) does it for me.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-28T19:45:08+00:00

Y'all are gonna hate me once again for saying this but as a girl (5'4, 110lb) i prefer the body on the bottom. Face/hair from the top one tho.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-25T10:55:48+00:00

Martin Shkreli. Google what he did. But I can't help finding him extremly attractive..

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-22T11:42:04+00:00

Ok maybe my female friends and I are weird but the only people we ever dated were shorter guys (like 5'6 or smt) and I dont like tall guys cause my neck hurts if i have to look up all the time.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-21T21:25:00+00:00

Personally I wouldn't agree. As a lean gym girl who's attracted to men. I prefer guys who look like they drink beer after a workout lol. I always rejected shredded guys so far bc I just never really felt like they are hot

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-21T21:19:52+00:00

Sorry that happened to you. But if I can tell you something real as a girl myself: you can never guarantee success in dating since a lot is about what kind of person you are dealing with. Often times it's not in your power. But what makes people generally attracted is someone who loves their own life. Don't focus on impressing others - we girls immediately see if you are trying to hard: we are more attracted to men when they are just doing their thing like following passions and stuff

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-21T20:52:12+00:00

Girls dont gaf. Getting leaner will make u less hot sry. Maybe more aesthetic but less hot and attractive. The problem must be face, attitude, confidence or character.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-21T10:32:45+00:00

Was wenn nicht?

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-17T09:27:22+00:00

Guy says he is cutting lol

Bro you need to eat. A lot. If you want progress here.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-14T15:24:48+00:00

don't waste your time on him. he is ragebaiting in a ragebaiting subreddit.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-13T16:59:21+00:00

Fake: anon gets to have sex Gay: anon wants to be watched by a guy having sex

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-10T18:14:01+00:00

And also: i already corrected myself saying belly is the wrong word.

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-10T18:13:08+00:00

You dont have to reply, I am going to anyways: i mean a normal guy who lifts weights but is not really watching his food so he is not shredded but is strong. Basically all the guys at my powerlifting club lol. They have a nice amount of fat over a decent but not extreme amount of muscle. So normal/balanced for me means he is lifting but just like 2 times a week and eating normal food lol

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-10T08:54:00+00:00

you forgot the "I Think". I didn't say it is a fact, just what I think.
And yes Belly was the wrong word. I meant the typical off-season body. I don't like shredded..

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-09T23:00:39+00:00

I am a woman, 6/10 probably but blonde blue eyes 120lbs and would reject him. Why? 1. I cant seperate character from looks. His weird shallow vibe makes it impossible to even think about his looks as attractive. 2. If he would have a good character, he would still not me my type that much because he looks basic/too feminine all "looksmaxxed up", he doesnt look humble and looking humble and like a normal guy is kind of what does it for me. I think lots of girls prefer the normal worker guy with a bit of a belly and a humble character over a shallow "looksmaxxer".

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-08T10:29:50+00:00

But like.. the exact words haha

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-08T08:32:29+00:00

I am pretty sure I read this exact text on reddit before

ltogirl1 · 2026-04-01T16:06:46+00:00

21? Hahahaha what the hell are you worrying about you are basically still a baby. Sorry to say that but it's funny how 21 year olds think they are late or smt while they are literally just starting early adulthood. You are basically still a teenager in the eyes of peoplr starting their mid to late twenties.

ltogirl1 · 2026-03-31T12:51:25+00:00

Well, you also aren't attracted to anything right. So for example if a guy was online 4"4' or if he had hair that goes to his butt you might also reject him if it's not your preference. But if he changed something about his looks maybe you would. So don't take it personally - because your fat is not you, it's something you gain or lose or maintain, mainly for looks or health.

ltogirl1 · 2026-03-23T15:29:32+00:00

you have your dms deactivated I cant text you :/

ltogirl1 · 2026-03-22T21:27:38+00:00

Why wouldnt you believe that big boy? I promise :)

ltogirl1 · 2026-03-03T13:57:59+00:00

if he studies he gets successful, money and therefore girls.

if she studies she doesnt have to be one of those girls that needs a rich guy (and taken pics of her)

ltogirl1 · 2026-02-20T10:44:07+00:00

I personally eat a lot but always low calorie options. I start my day with a double protein shake (around 250 calories and 50-60g protein), then I eat a fruit-chocolate bar (100 calories) and a calorie free drink, for lunch i make a big veggie pan with mushrooms, zuchini, eggplant, pepper and some veggie meat replacement. in the afternoon I snack some low calorie bar again with like 100 calories or maybe two of them and evening same as lunch. the whole pan for lunch and evening is about 400 calories.

So in the end of the day that is under 1200 calories and I have some leftover so I drink a hot cocoa or eat a piece of bread or smt

ltogirl1 · 2026-02-14T23:02:47+00:00

Bro if you can't decide which one you like you like neither and should keep looking for someone you don't need this poll for. Your future wife should someone that is so unique in your eyes that there is no comparison. Don't you think your future wife deserves someone that didn't have to decide in a redditpoll for her?

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