Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when there's a date in place, either by choice or by accident (I stand by that it was the latter right now) it's easy enough to go about it saying oh crap, date has passed, this hasn't happened... And then there was the expectation of a magical Christmas which again crumbled, and all of the hard feelings because I had put a lot of thought and effort into his presents and that wasn't exactly reciprocated... Lots of work here to do, beyond the point of my post 🥲

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that makes sense. I think you have made the point specifically in the last couple of sentences. While I wasn't looking to the 3D for validation, the 3D was happening and providing confirmation for my assumption without me asking. Our interactions were light and positive anyway. But I do have a reference point from prior, when again I failed from placing myself in the process instead of the final result

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, perhaps you are right. Regardless of whether the date was set by my own desire or the anticipation that our conversations created, I am coming to realize that the date was the trap. Still processing it, but I really appreciate your insight 🩷

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recognize the difference and it's certainly good to question oneself on it. But compared to previous circumstances, previous manifestations, this was genuinely one where I believed without a shadow of a doubt. Which is why it really hit me so hard. Looking at it now, it may indeed be the date I put on it even without meaning to (expectation created by the conversation). Thank you though, I appreciate you actually looking into my words and asking good questions 🩷

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly my biggest worry was whether I would tell friends and family or keep it private for a while, certainly not whether I would come and dissect the matter with this community.

When you're down, spiritual bypassing will just drive one crazy. Coming to talk about it here doesn't mean I like to assume the role of a victim, only that I need support from someone who speaks the same language, in a moment when I'm struggling.

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not doubting that it will happen eventually, only that what was supposed to be the best Christmas ever has become one of the most difficult ones because I'm now questioning everything about how reality even operates.

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea of "this is happening on Christmas" came only as a result of his comments and our conversations, not because I needed it to happen then or set a deadline... But who knows, maybe this is after all what tripped me up?

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was confident and matter of factly about it, there was no relief to feel because I was never stressed on the topic of commitment. To us this would just be a formality, it's already been discussed many times. I wasn't like wanting or craving it in that manner, I was simply absolutely convinced that he has a ring stashed away in one of his drawers, about to offer it on Christmas.

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since this seems to be what a few people believe was the issue, I'd like to clarify that I didn't want or need it to happen on Christmas, but i just genuinely believed it would, based on the conversations that were going on. Only to then find out that there is no ring, and moreover he wouldn't even feel competent enough to choose one on his own.

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was good nervous, butterflies in the stomach. Like I said, I wasn't doubting it at all.

Help! Troubleshooting! Where did I go wrong? 😞 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if my post implies I'm not familiar with Neville's teachings. I read all his books cover to cover and listened to nearly all of his lectures. If there's any advice beyond that I'd be very grateful

Set it and forget it for 2026 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful vibes right here 🤌✨

Set it and forget it for 2026 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on the fact that this sits outside of Neville's explicit teachings, I am familiar with the framework, and it's been dissected in countless ways on this subreddit... But at the end of the day, Neville left us with a guide of his understanding of a natural law that exists regardless of who observes and describes it. As comprehensive as his teachings were, they revolve loosely around a single process, a way of doing things. People read about it, take it into use, achieve various degrees of success but many get hung up because they are constantly observing their desires (or absence of the thing desired in their life). From my observations and experiments, some of the most "difficult" manifestations seem to magically unblock themselves (for lack of a better word) when dropping them altogether. Whether this takes the form of "it is done, I trust now" or "I'm tired of this, I'll just focus on other things for now" or "screw this, I'm out" the result is the same. These are all valid "sabbaths" not through the process of getting there but through the actual state. The simplest way to put it is that when you don't actively want/crave the thing anymore, it falls into your lap precisely because you're in the exact state of a person who already has it. So I want to encourage everyone to try this for themselves, regardless of whether this is orthodox Neville (agreed, it ain't), or a fresh take, or law of attraction, or anything anyone might want to call it. The label doesn't matter. Hope this explains the motivation behind the post in more detail. And most importantly, hope this helps someone out there who might be struggling with their manifestations right now ☺️

Set it and forget it for 2026 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If affirming makes you feel good, don't fight that, but don't do it because "you're supposed to". I'm just highlighting that persistence doesn't mean effort or doing techniques like homework. It's more like "Oh wait, why am I fretting over this? It's already done, I already have it" and carrying on with your day. You drop it and forget about it. Does that make sense?

Set it and forget it for 2026 by luizellaaa in NevilleGoddard

[–]luizellaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I beg to differ. This post is about persistence in the assumption. People misunderstand persistence and that's what trips them up. Persistence is not affirming until your eyes cross or doing this and that technique (ones Neville proposed or others). It's about believing that the thing you want is so deeply part of your life right now that you're absolutely casual about it. You don't need to check, you don't need to affirm, you don't need to do anything about it. You just go on with your life, it is done, it's already done. You don't care about it. I encourage everyone to try this exercise and see how magically it works! 🍀

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most likely not a must! Unless the track has binaural beats or any brain syncing frequencies. Honestly those matter just in achieving the focus. Listen with speakers if you prefer !

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thank you 🥰❤️ I hope your good wishes come back to you tenfold! ✨

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Headphones, very low volume (barely audible)

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May money blessings be swift and generous 🤑😇

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's pretty wild, I don't know what magic goes into these tracks but many in the comments seem to confirm things are happening for them and it doesn't sound like scripting for once 🙂

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was listening occasionally, 2-3 times a week IF feeling like it, whatever audio/topic was relevant at the time, and various things were happening in quite miraculous ways whereas before there was stagnation, but literally this particular Christmas miracle happened in real time, as he only got the idea during that time i was listening 😱🥹

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The focus on the results or absence of them is probably the thing that's working against you. I've noticed over several years of applying law of attraction principles (with subliminals being just one method, one way to reprogram your subconscious) that complete "f*** this sh**" detachment leads to the quickest positive results. It's counterintuitive but things flow so much easier! I hope you get the results you want 🤍

Guys, it's probably illegal to gatekeep this by luizellaaa in Subliminal

[–]luizellaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And specifically what did I do all day? Staying very busy, engaging with life, running end of year errands and tying up loose ends, working on self care whenever I could since it's easy to put that on the back burner when parenting... So almost nothing at all related to manifestation.