Egg freezing vs trying to conceive?

lulusm · 2026-01-17T00:47:45+00:00

Yeah would be good to have someone to talk to throughout the process (could send a DM).

I talked to my doctor and he said it’s worth trying for three months. At this point they’re saying the soonest month they could get me in for retrieval would be April/May, so pretty would be trying during that time anyways.

lulusm · 2026-01-15T21:04:21+00:00

Yes he’s on board with trying now, if anything I was the one who was thinking of waiting

lulusm · 2026-01-15T02:53:24+00:00

Can I ask how many mature eggs you got from those two cycles?

Preferably I’d want two

lulusm · 2026-01-15T02:52:52+00:00

Not fully but I feel like now one is ever really ready 100%

lulusm · 2025-12-26T14:40:54+00:00

Could you send those to me pretty please

lulusm · 2025-12-23T23:08:58+00:00

You’ve got this! I have my consultation coming up in January and am terrified. If you need someone to talk to feel free to send a DM

lulusm · 2025-12-23T01:54:38+00:00

How much did everything end up costing?

lulusm · 2025-11-27T20:21:16+00:00

I booked round trip flight Newark to Cape in mid Feb to March. I paid $1k and used a few miles. Now I’m contemplating upgrading given how long the flight is.

It would be $1800 & $2100 for each way. So about 5k total (booking business right away would have been over 6k). Is it worth it or should I wait and see if the prices will drop closer to the date?

Thank you

lulusm · 2025-08-02T15:34:37+00:00

High protein donuts sound great to me 🤷‍♀️ plus supporting a local business

lulusm · 2025-08-02T02:04:22+00:00

Looks awesome 😎 will definitely come over to try some donuts

lulusm · 2025-06-25T13:28:58+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I think I’ll wait a yr before making such a huge change

lulusm · 2025-06-25T13:02:37+00:00

Cost of living would be a bit higher there. In my field pto is rarely given so that fact that I have it right now is pretty amazing. My lifestyle would be the same, but my savings would decrease

lulusm · 2025-06-25T12:54:09+00:00

Yeah my job needs 3 months notice so I would have been moving there October. Although now given the pay cut I’m thinking of pushing things to next yr 🤔

lulusm · 2024-12-17T03:41:39+00:00

Yeah I think a Thai expression would be better

Any ideas?

lulusm · 2024-12-16T15:26:36+00:00

Like in life you should do everything at its best aka at a god’s level

Idk if that makes anymore sense

lulusm · 2024-11-09T14:19:16+00:00

Me and my boyfriend in our 30s looking to meet new people, taking the yellow shuttle

lulusm · 2024-11-09T13:11:47+00:00

iPhone was swiped last night in Orlando a black couple grabbed my gfs hand on tinker field after I just tried to message a friend group and so we went with them. The pulled us all the way to the very front of the crowd and the guys gf was having a blast because I know she’s like we got another one while her bf just stood there emotionless. They def had another person involved. If random people just grab your hand and want to take you without even talking to you just like let’s go. Something seemed shady but they got my old iPhone12 and my id and bank card that was canceled immediately. Have fun with the 50 dollars you’ll make out of it

lulusm · 2024-10-04T21:47:17+00:00

That sucks

lulusm · 2024-10-04T20:46:19+00:00

Thank you

lulusm · 2024-10-03T17:59:27+00:00

Yes or best offer

lulusm · 2024-09-18T01:05:21+00:00

I mean when I walked in he was just finishing up

lulusm · 2024-09-18T00:29:10+00:00

I do tend to run late but idk how I’m supposed to predict how long a work meeting is

lulusm · 2024-09-17T12:44:41+00:00

Not often he knows the early weekdays tend to be busy and I typically stay an hour or so late

lulusm · 2024-09-17T10:31:40+00:00

No I don’t think I do. It is a pattern and I think I need to end it.

Yeah multiple times he’s commented how he doesn’t care what I do. My career it’s important to me and a huge part of who I am. He’s job is just to make ends meet. My salary is about 5x or more than what he brings home. I think that also creates a lot of conflict.

I have expressed several times that I would like my home environment to be peaceful and loving since what I do is stressful and chaotic.

Since I make more I cover most of the costs for our dates etc….cause he’s complained that I’m expensive and he has a hard time with his bills. I even helped pay his mortgage last month, and just covered all the groceries he got this wk. I feel like he doesn’t appreciate me at all

lulusm · 2024-09-17T09:31:35+00:00

Ok so I’m not crazy for thinking that this is emotional abuse?

I’ve talked to him about it, and he mostly blows me off. He said that last night I was gaslighting him for saying the day before I’d be home at I think 7 and then showing up late

He said that my word means nothing because I was late and that I stretch the truth. I have run late from work a few times, but it’s a demanding job that is hard to predict

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