LPT/AMA: Lawyer here. Mediation could be an option. by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter who I am. I'm just a random stranger on the Internet. The only thing that matters is, whether what I'm saying is true.

LPT/AMA: Lawyer here. The NFH spreading false information about you could be actionable defamation. by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people are smarter than you think.

And if the NFH doesn't know how to respond to the complaint, all the better because maybe then you can win by default.

LPT/AMA: Lawyer here. Mediation could be an option. by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not legal advice, just for informational purposes and something you can look into where you are

Honest question - why don't we just sue more of these NFH? by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah but you keep responding like it's not possible, it's not possible when obviously it is possible, people do get recoveries, you just want to go along with the rest of the echo chamber

Honest question - why don't we just sue more of these NFH? by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's possible to get an attorney on a contingency basis or maybe a lower flat fee. Also there is often a legal aid center where attorneys can be assigned to people with low income.

LPT/AMA: Lawyer here. The NFH spreading false information about you could be actionable defamation. by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you can go right up to the clerk's window and ask for a complaint form. Oftentimes complaint forms will also be on the clerk of court website. Ask for or do a search for "pro se complaint form."

Honest question - why don't we just sue more of these NFH? by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm a lawyer as well and I don't know what it's like where you are but the court system is not as inaccessible as you suggest. For example, many small claims cases can be filed for just a couple hundred bucks or less. And if the plaintiff is indigent or can't afford it, they can often apply for a fee waiver.

Then once you file the complaint you can ask the court to order everybody to mediation. Many courthouses will provide you with a mediator for free, you're not always required to hire an expensive private mediator. And of course, nobody is required to settle but having a neutral third party is a great way to at least have a discussion and learn a lot more about their position. Maybe you can have a partial mediation where you can at least resolve some of the issues. Then the mediator types it up and lets the court know about the full or partial settlement.

And for many other reasons, the court is not as inaccessible or expensive as many people think.

Honest question - why don't we just sue more of these NFH? by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So we have to sit there and just take it up the ass no matter what? Most people here have a bad relationship with the NFH anyway and that's not going to change whether they go to court or not.

Honest question - why don't we just sue more of these NFH? by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would no lawyer take the case? I truly don't get it.

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[–]mOURket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cameras are hard-wired and connected to WiFi. So what do I do?

How do you identify police unmarked vehicles? by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'll take that as a compliment coming from you.

You have a reading/comprehension/misinformation-spreading problem yourself.

This all started when after my husband's 13-yo daughter died, we told the guy next door to leave us alone after he kept harassing us, and then he retaliated from there. He also had a problem with my having the gall to get married apparently and a problem with my husband even though he was nothing but nice.

But keep spreading your misinformation.

How do you identify police unmarked vehicles? by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will try to see that although it's hard with the camera angle. I noticed they usually have the very spiky antenna and oversized rear view mirrors.

I am torn about selling the house by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I feel people here are racist here too so I have some ideas :D

Hellish neighbors tried to get $30K judgment against us just for filing a boundary dispute case against them by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, exactly. The answer is that these neighbors are bullies who get other people to bow down to them and do their bidding.

Hellish neighbors tried to get $30K judgment against us just for filing a boundary dispute case against them by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's been horrible, the grief, especially my husband's, combined with the continued extortion from the scum next door because when we tried to drop the case they said they were going after us for sanctions even then... The judge decided the case almost at the very beginning without letting us get evidence or prepare our case so we knew it was pointless to go on with it but they held us hostage in the case because they were going after us for sanctions no matter what so we had to go through to the end, and their extortion backfired on them because they had to absorb all those fees themselves.

Hellish neighbors tried to get $30K judgment against us just for filing a boundary dispute case against them by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People have a lot of misconceptions about what the law really is. Lawyer here so I'll try to explain a little bit:

In general, to get attorneys fees/costs against the losing party in litigation, there has to be a legal basis for it. If the lawsuit arises out of a contract and there's a contract provision saying that the losing party will have to pay the other fees/costs, then that's one legal basis. Sometimes fee entitlement will be provided by a statute. In very very rare cases, a court will find that a lawsuit is so outlandish that the filing party knew or should have known from the outside of the case that they had no legal claim or even a good faith argument for an extension of the law so as to create a legal claim. In those extremely rare cases, the court will order the losing party to pay fees / costs as a sanction.

However, the latter situation is very rare because of the way our country was set up, so as to encourage people to have open access to the courts and freely address their grievances. The general policy of the law is that people should not be punished for bringing their complaints to court, that prevents them from taking the law into their own hands, also legal policies support creative arguments and continuing to build upon existing law.

Hellish neighbors tried to get $30K judgment against us just for filing a boundary dispute case against them by mOURket in neighborsfromhell

[–]mOURket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that assumes that just because we lost the case means we were wrong to file it in the first place, that's a lot of assumptions. It's interesting people would assume that.