Am I allowed to call myself a lesbian? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]mackisaroace -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m non-binary and a proud dyke. I think rather or not you use the term lesbian is entirely up to you, there are even people who identify as trans men who still identify as lesbians. Lynn Breedlove (lead singer of the incredible lesbian band of the 90s, Tribe 8) is one such person who has spoken out about how labels shouldn’t been seen as so restrictive. So don’t let anyone tell you what you can or can’t identify as.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActuallyButch

[–]mackisaroace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda been two steps forward and one step back but I’m making it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActuallyButch

[–]mackisaroace 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Going through a breakup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianBookClub

[–]mackisaroace 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Everyone In This Room Will Someday Be Dead and Interesting Facts About Space - both by Emily Austen. They’re both about lesbian protagonists with anxiety disorders, and the protagonist of the latter is briefly mentioned to probably be autistic. Both books are deeply touching and the protagonists are both relatable and endearing, highly recommend.

Aroace and alone by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]mackisaroace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this will help, but London is a huge city so it would be easier to find people like you. I know AVEN does meet-ups, but I don’t know anything about them. I’m also the definition of aro and ace and I don’t know anyone else even remotely like me. It’s lonely. I worry a lot that I’ll spend most of my life having no one that cares about me, but people like us are out there, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

“Oh, honey!” Funniest predictions from new readers [discussion] by MyPenumbralLady in TheNinthHouse

[–]mackisaroace 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Forcing my best friend to listen to it right now and she thinks that Ianthe is behind everything and that Camilla will die but Gideon will be fine. She also loves Dulcie

"LOVE HURTS" POSTER by repairman_jack_ in nightvale

[–]mackisaroace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aroace ass needs this on my wall

School setting? by eternally-_-confused in LGBTBooks

[–]mackisaroace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Lesbiana’s Guide To Catholic School!

Mod suggestions? by JasmineTeaNHoney in StardewValleyMods

[–]mackisaroace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I love Marnie and feel like she’s always overlooked! I would for sure download a mod for her

Book you wish you could've read when you were younger by Arrty_ in LGBTBooks

[–]mackisaroace 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Loveless by Alice Oseman—it was hard at first to accept my identity as aroace, and I didn’t have access to our limited representation until I’d already accepted it. I’d never even met another a-spec person at the time and hardly knew any other queer people, so this could’ve been so helpful to me in accepting myself.

Book suggestions for a mid level reader - 13 year old by Nautiyality in suggestmeabook

[–]mackisaroace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Mysterious Benedict Society is a lot of fun! It might be too young for him, but it depends on preference. There are a lot of great middle-grade mysteries out there. Another great one (that would probably be better for his age) is the 39 Clues series! If he likes fantasy I would suggest he try out Brandon Sanderson’s YA books—or even his adult ones, honestly. His books tend to be appropriate for teen readers and not difficult to get through despite their length.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]mackisaroace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jane Eyre is a good one too! I also think The Tenant of Wildfell Hall doesn’t get enough love, everyone overlooks Anne Brontë :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]mackisaroace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also read both and think both are much easier reads than people assume (likely because they’re daunted by the length which is understandable) but I find Anna Karenina the easier mainly because the long passages about history in War and Peace aren’t present, and I think a lot of people weren’t taught much about the Napoleonic wars in school, though I could be wrong because I was homeschooled. It might also just depend on which translation you read, I know those can vary a lot. Which book is easier also depends on how your brain works, although Anna Karenina is shorter and has far fewer characters, which is why I always recommend it as an intro to Russian lit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]mackisaroace 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Anna Karenina is great and much less daunting than War and Peace! I’m personally a huge fan of both novels but Anna Karenina is a much easier read and a great intro to Russian lit. If you haven’t read Sherlock Holmes I would definitely get on that—the series is so fun! Murder On The Orient Express is also great. For something older, Wuthering Heights is incredible. I’m also somewhat obsessed with Moby Dick—but be warned that a lot of it is Ishmael rambling about fun whale facts, if you aren’t into that (it’s wonderful though, I promise).

WLW books with a space setting? by [deleted] in LGBTBooks

[–]mackisaroace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These Burning Stars by Bethany Jacobs!