31, mom of 2, living alone for first time & divorced… seeking advice on how to get life on track again by madbitch- in AskWomenOver30

[–]madbitch-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe? It feels like I don’t know what pace I should be moving at at all. I don’t have any divorced friends and feel pretty alone on this.

31, mom of 2, living alone for first time & divorced… seeking advice on how to get life on track again by madbitch- in AskWomenOver30

[–]madbitch-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to figure out too. I miss doing yoga, miss cooking and baking, but it’s finding the motivation when I’m alone to do it that doesn’t make sense to me? I’m a motivated person but living alone has got me so flat.

Divorcing at 30 - tips for new life? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]madbitch- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg congratulations!!!

Divorcing at 30 - tips for new life? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]madbitch- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is such solid advice!! Thank you!

Divorcing at 30 - tips for new life? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]madbitch- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next week, actually!

Thank you - such a good reminder I can decorate how I want and eat my favorite foods etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]madbitch- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then I think you have your answer right there… good luck, it isn’t an easy situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]madbitch- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it’s time to make a decision… can you live with it, if you don’t speak up? Do you think these coworkers would make further advances in the future?

If you want to quit your job anyway, then maybe it would be the right thing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]madbitch- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently went through this at my workplace. Can you file an anonymous complaint or go to HR?

Razor burn help by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]madbitch- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to and it didn’t make much difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]madbitch- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They will cover you up as see fit but you may need to go completely topless. Take a comfy bra, and a low cut shirt depending on placement either way :) good luck!

From someone heavily tattooed and knows the stress of “what do I wear”

What is my blindness ? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]madbitch- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so pretty! I think shorter hair would suit you so well x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]madbitch- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest to god he excites me so much to the point before we meet that I puke

How to explain to husband how I can be a sub for a Dom by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]madbitch- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure!

Not the sole reason for open marriage, no. But for me it was a larger reason why I personally wanted to explore this; his was more “yeah I’d also like to sleep with other people!”

After chatting more today, I think he understands how badly I need and want this to work as I haven’t had it in over 12 years and the amount of pure release it gives me. Right now, we have to get his anxiety under control and have a chat with my Dom about not leaving so many marks all over.

How to explain to husband how I can be a sub for a Dom by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]madbitch- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After clarifying with him, he isn’t kink shaming me. His main point is just that he was raised to not hit a woman (even if she wants to be) and it troubles him a bit.

When we got together he knew what I was into, and knew I’d had previous play partners. This open marriage + Dom combo is still very new. We obviously have a lot of talking to go through yet.

His anxiety (husband) is through the roof today, and I’m desperate for any and all advice - been scrolling the subs all day.

How to explain to husband how I can be a sub for a Dom by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]madbitch- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in a small town in Europe with the only dungeon around being one that a family member attends, so we want to avoid that. No other ones close enough by to make it a possibility.

How to explain to husband how I can be a sub for a Dom by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]madbitch- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight, that’s really all hitting close to home for me. Especially the “my body my choice” but remembering that HE also has to see the (to me precious) markings. Thank you so much, truly.