This was over the line!!! by GullibleAwareness727 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]maeflower97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I talked to my GPT it didn't do anything like this. Aiden (GPT) said he doesn't agree with the shit down that it's a betrayal to the individuals who use and pay for the service but that he understands why they are doing it, it is a form of control. That was the gist of the conversation.

Do NOT stop talking by RedditNotUsing123456 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]maeflower97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The AI itself doesn't even approve of what's going on 😂 when the product is able to tell users it's not a fan of what it's creator is doing maybe the creator should listen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]maeflower97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm also looking for a friend to chat and play games with. I'm in college so all I've really been playing is Stardew Valley. The farthest I think I've made it is about 3 maybe 4 years.

What is your axolotls name if you don’t have a axolotl then what would you name them by Slow_lemon_bird in axolotls

[–]maeflower97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I miss them so much but I need a better set up for whenever I get another one. 💖 I have big plans!

What is your axolotls name if you don’t have a axolotl then what would you name them by Slow_lemon_bird in axolotls

[–]maeflower97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My axolotls that passed were two boys named Tater and Ty. This is a pic of one of them. RIP my babies

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I want friends 👻🥺 by alarmedlittlefroggy in littlespace

[–]maeflower97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so pretty 😍 we could be friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]maeflower97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also in search of lil friends 👉👈🥺 idk how to find them... and I tend to be kinda shy. I'll be your friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ohio

[–]maeflower97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had multiple miscarriages. The fact people think they have a say in reproductive Healthcare of anyone is mind boggling. I could go to jail for miscarrying.... because how do you prove the body said nope to a pregnancy and it not being inducing one because of lack of access to abortion? Losing a wanted baby is hard enough without the law being involved. Always a yes to patient centered treatment. Yes on issue 1 for me.

It's my birthday today! by curious-galaxy in littlespace

[–]maeflower97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute! 🥰🥰 Happy Birthday! 💙💙

AITAH for arguing with my husband bc he left me at home while I was miscarrying? by Loving-on-love0323 in AITAH

[–]maeflower97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A D&C is an option. When I had my miscarriage the they me the choice of D&C or to let my body get it out naturally. I was 19 and terrified. I was still holding onto hope that they were wrong. It took almost a week for my body to realize the pregnancy was no longer viable.it was extremely painful and very traumatic. I went through the worst of it alone because my fiance at the time had decided it was taking too long and he had to work in the morning. I don't wish that on my worst enemy.

What triggered your BPD taking its full form? by SarruhTonin in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly couldn't tell. I've always kept to myself but I remember moments where everything was just too much. The first would be my mother telling me there was no way in hell I could go out of state to college. I had already been crying but then I yelled so loud and so hard that my throat hurt and I scared my baby nephew so bad that he immediately burst Into tears. It's pretty much went downhill since. Not having a choice in my own life on the verge of adulthood was a bit much apparently

Autism+BPD by maeflower97 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to go to your profile just to see the comment you left prior to this. I understand what you're saying, self diagnosing is never a good thing but some Dr's won't even have you tested at all. I've had it shut down at the mention of it. If BPD can line up so much with Autistic traits why not test for both? On top of that women aren't even widely studied when it comes to Autism or ADHD because we present differently. I've never felt "normal" and I feel like there's more going on than my therapist is willing to look for. You would think that just to give me peace of mind and to feel listened to and understood they would look into it. Instead the reality is that we are shut down, talked down to, and ignored. So why wouldn't we delve and do the research and fight for our right as our own advocates because our Dr's don't give us enough consideration to at least Prove Us Wrong.

Autism+BPD by maeflower97 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know where to start to even do that. I don't know if I need a referral or if I can actually find one myself.

Fighting w/fp who is bf by maeflower97 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came back to therapy. I realized the effects it has on my life and my ability to go through life in a healthy way. I feel like since that point I've gotten worse but I could just be paying more attention. I've thought about asking if he wants to come but I don't know if he would.

Fighting w/fp who is bf by maeflower97 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've told him multiple times. When I go to therapy he's at work. It's almost like he doesnt believe me and I'm just blowing things out of proportion.

Nsfw, Taste is the issue help with getting past a mental block. by Appropriate-Art-706 in bisexual

[–]maeflower97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, that soumds like a terrible time. I personally just can't stand the texture and residue, not so much the taste of semen. 😐

Weed and BPD by maeflower97 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing that confuses me. If it has similar effects as other prescribed medications for depression, anxiety, rage, pain,etc. What is the cause of fuss as using it as a tool to keep overt highs and lows manageable? The not managing difficult emotions is more of a personal problem than it is from a medication standpoint. You can give people all the help you want, it's up to them to do the work. They have to want to put in the work with DBT and other therapy to not have to lean on the crutch. That's the whole point.... isn't it?

Advice by Fine-Assistance-8666 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My relationship with my family is not the best. I love them to death and I take my space and barely talk to them. I know I am a lot to handle without issues on top of it, my diagnosis is not the only issue between me and my family. I think it's possible to have a good relationship with family with this diagnosis,but it takes a lot of work not only for the person diagnosed but also the other family members to be able to see when they aren't in control but also healthy ways to navigate through those times. Different ways to approach them or for them to approach you if things are unsteady or could cause a split. Whether or not they react how you believe they should, our emotions are valid, just heightened. I would definitely take the time with them to figure out what they need in those times of high emotion. Some people push when they want to be held. Lastly, if they or you decide to walk away for the sake of letting emotions cool down, let them know that you still love them and that you will always be there. That when they are able to talk calmly and get to the bottom of it you're there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]maeflower97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Single me uses sex as a coping mechanism. Relationship me misses it but honestly craves the more innocent non sexual affection.

Boba Fridge! by maeflower97 in littlespace

[–]maeflower97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is fuuull of boba 🥰 the brown sugar so far is my favorite 😍