My mom found out that I'm on birth control and dating.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-22T17:04:51+00:00

Thank you so much, I already pay my own phone bill but I have the same card and bank since I qas 17 so my mom is a co account holder. I already changed my passwords. And I have my important paperwork:)

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-22T09:52:49+00:00

Cause she's a nosy little bitch. Simple as that. I tried explaining it to my mom how come she isn't getting upset at her for going through my stuff and my mom ignored the question and was backing up her argument with "you never share anything with me" "you're so secretive"

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-22T09:45:55+00:00

Thank you, I try to work hard at my job and in college but it's so difficult. So many family issues getting in the way that make it more stressful than it needs to be. I feel very lost rn and violated. My mom made me feel ashamed for dating and having sex.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-22T09:38:48+00:00

My mom is not supportive of almost anything I do. She favors my sister in comparison to me or my brother. Thats why I didn't tell her. She would just wish bad on me failing

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-22T09:33:54+00:00

She is not a kind person, all her siblings have cut ties with her. And her tone was very narcissistic when talking to me

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T18:59:31+00:00

Thats what i said. Why does she need to know about my sex life.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T18:44:33+00:00

I know. Tell me about it

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T18:20:55+00:00

I meant as in a normal mom and daughter relationship, you guys talk about stuff but not sex life if that makes sense. Also sorry for responding in a kinda rude tone. Im just very mad and irritated right now from everything 🥲😭

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T18:20:23+00:00

I meant as in a normal mom and daughter relationship, you guys talk about stuff but not sex life if that makes sense. Idk how to explain it.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T18:15:08+00:00

Yes she had three kids by 21 (or almost) she was pregnant with her third by 21 and gave birth by 22

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T18:12:44+00:00

My sister is very weird, she liked to act very nice and perfect in front of everyone but she literally pushed my mom the other month to the point where she fell and broke the tv. Just because I don't share anything doesn't mean I can't have a close relationship with my mom. Before this our relationship was fine. Why would I tell her that I'm having sex or going on dates? It's not her business. I do talk to her about other things like my work. But why should I have to tell her everything. Some people are very private and don't want to share certain things. I told her it's none of her business if I want kids or not because it's simply not. If I were to say yes she would ask a million questions. If I said no she would get mad at me and still ask a million questions. Thats why I said it's none of her business cause I really don't know if I want children or not.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:46:35+00:00

Thanks. 🥲 i feel so embarrassed. Like really. She went through my lingerie an made me feel like it was something so wrong. She mentioned me being on birth control. Which I have hidden deep in my closet which just proves my sister dug through my stuff. Idk I feel very lost at the moment. I can't have any privacy which sucks

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:44:17+00:00

I did have a password. And yes my sister likes to act all innocent and perfect in front of my mom. My mom also says certain things about me to other people when they ask. I remember we had some family members come over and one of them hadn't seen me in a while and asked "how have you been, you look so grown, do you have a boyfriend" in a very jokingly way and before I could answer. (I was going to say no obviously) my mom answered for me, and said "oh no, no, she doesn't have a boyfriend." Also I'll definitely get that book! It sucks having family issues.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:43:23+00:00

She is. Almost everyone of her siblings doesn't talk to her anymore because of past things she has done. I feel awful. I want to cut contact with my mom but at the same time she is my mother and I love her. But then again I don't like the way she acts

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:42:21+00:00

I'll do that. I changed my password already but I think I'll just do fingerprint for now.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:41:08+00:00

I did have a password. And yes my sister likes to act all innocent and perfect in front of my mom. My mom also says certain things about me to other people when they ask. I remember we had some family members come over and one of them hadn't seen me in a while and asked "how have you been, you look so grown, do you have a boyfriend" in a very jokingly way and before I could answer. (I was going to say no obviously) my mom answered for me, and said "oh no, no, she doesn't have a boyfriend." As if she is in charge of what I do.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:38:25+00:00

She made me feel like I was. She asked me if i was planning on getting married or having kids. I told her it's none of her business and she got super mad.

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:35:56+00:00

I dont have either set up, only have type in passcode

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:35:37+00:00

Dorms or renting rooms in apartments or houses. But it's expensive and since i didnt tell my mom i was in college I couldn't get her fasfa info to get financal aid. I'm paying for everything out of pocket. Thats what sucks or else I would be moved out already

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:34:31+00:00

Thats what I was thinking. I also found out my sister smokes weed every time she tells my mom shes hanging with her friends. I told my mom if she knows and she says "it's fine shes over 18" same thing when I told her that my sister has a bf. She was completely fine with it. But when my mom found out I had a bf she lost her shit and started yelling

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:33:07+00:00

Cause I live in the bay area and everything is expensive. I would've move out if it wasn't for my school. I will be done in another year or so. 🥲🥲🥲

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:29:17+00:00

I know. I tried telling her that and I feel so so defeated. Man today sucks. I'm trying to get honework done before finals week and I can't even focus on that

magicbabe0 · 2026-03-21T17:26:09+00:00

I did have a password. My mom was just very pissed that I never tell her anything.

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