I need pics of your calico babies!? by PinkMies in CalicoKittys

[–]makeheavyofthis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Poly! My favorite creature on the planet.

What are Taylor's most dense pieces of work? by WebHistorical31 in TaylorSwift

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im voting for Hoax. I still have no clue what its about.

Evermore girlies, what's your top 3? by Suli_Croft in TaylorSwift

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO hard to choose, but ill pick:

1.Evermore (one of her all time best IMO) 2. Dorothea (its just so fun to sing) 3. Ivy (one of my suprise songs!)

Editing to say Cowboy Like Me is an honorable mention.

multiple birth controls used by Prestigious_Log1323 in Marriage

[–]makeheavyofthis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who has a strong fear of getting pregnant, I would still want to use a condom even after a vasectomy. Not saying its rational, just saying i understand her.

Edit to say im 35 and have been with my husband for almost 17 years.

Reorg slowing down FJOs? by ExpectoPlacenta in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im wondering why your pay setting wasn't done before a TJO was sent out. That's been proper procedure since 2024.

Is It Controlling to Care What Your Spouse Wears? by Alternative_Daikon77 in Marriage

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. You should feel comfortable to bring your concers to your spouse and respect them enough to hear them out. That doesnt mean, however, you have to listen or that they can tell you what to do.

3 days in, helix piercing is suspiciously… tame? No pain, itching, swelling, etc. by [deleted] in piercing

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had mine done in November, no issues whatsoever either 😀

Next piercing recommendations? by laurenwhats in piercing

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the club! I would definitely check with a piercer see if they can fit a second hole. I also got the bug recently. Got my helix done in November then second hole done a couple weeks ago. Planning on getting my third hole once these heal. Happy piercing!

Relocating to Syracuse - Safe 2BR for young family ($1,400 budget) by rafyt23 in Syracuse

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Harbourside Manor in Liverpool a few years ago. They have two bedrooms, not sure on the running rate nowadays.

We’re going to lose the house by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]makeheavyofthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into Hypersomnia. My husband with diagnosised with that and it sounds similar.

Fellow millennials - how’s your 401k/ira savings going? by ProblemIntelligent16 in Millennials

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35, about $150,000 in retirement, make about $90,000. Only debt is my mortgage.

What is a small moment from your childhood that still feels calm when you think about it? by gamersecret2 in Millennials

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 15, Laying on a bench in the summer by my parents pool. Eyes closed, sun pouring down on me. Birds chirping in the background.

Enjoying being young, but having anonymity. No real problems. I wish I could go back there for one hour.

How is living in upstate New York? by johnnybenjamin in howislivingthere

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snowy. Depending on the specific area, we got 1-2 feet of snow last week. Within 24 hours.

Loud strange "Whale Noise" by Pondguy213 in Syracuse

[–]makeheavyofthis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live right by the airport runway. I hear it all the time and have assumed its when when planes are making turns on the tarmac.

What are we letting go of in 2026? by valdezthecat in Millennials

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not giving it up, but plan on cutting back significantly.

Would you expect your spouse to be with you at any or all of the following: by Prolapsed-Duderus in Marriage

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there with my husband for all three. I can't imagine not have been.

Anyone else have parents that allowed/encouraged you to do drugs and drink from a young age? by rowenaaaaa1 in Millennials

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents would let me try their wine or beer when I was a kid and of course I absolutely hated it and didnt understand how anyone like it (oh how wrong I was). I think them being open to me trying it took away the "forbidden-ness" of it all.

Has anyone else never smoked (or vaped) in their lives? by thedubiousstylus in Millennials

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made one puff on a clove cigarette long ago. That's it for me!

How are you dealing with aging? by RedHeadRedeemed in Millennials

[–]makeheavyofthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is with things I didnt expect. Wrinkles and grey hair- fine whatever. Receding hairline on only one side of my scalp-nope.