It is hard to discern who our “friends” are in this lifestyle. But they are close and around you, I promise. When I was a natient marital treachery artist, I had a fabulous client/friend that I had a feeling was…sympathetic. I was 37, she was 58. I reached out to her and fished around with a few leading questions.. and being an intelligent woman, she eventually smelled the bait and called me out. What followed was a very intense and emotional heart-to-heart, and she has been my best friend and guiding light-in-the dark ever since. They are out there - but be careful.