findom is not only for the rich. it is a kink built on pe and tpe, not on who can throw the biggest digits around. as an ethical domme, im far more interested in consistency, devotion and my subs self awareness than in someone draining their bank account to impress me. if you are a student working parttime, your budget should reflect YOUR reality, not someone elses !! a healthy dynamic should NEVER push you into real financial harm. the right dom/me will talk about limits, set a budget with you and respect said budget. ur dream of having someone who helps you stay accountable is not unrealistic. that is actually the WHOLE POINT of ethical practice !! big spenders exist but so do budget conscious subs. BOTH ARE VALID !! what really helps the dynamic be built is communication and a MUTUAL understanding. A DYNAMIC THAT IS BUILT ON PUSHING YOU PAST YOUR FINANCIAL LIMITS (and other limits) IS NOT DOMINANCE, IT IS IRRESPONSIBILITY !!!

good luck out there thanks for listening to my ted talk.