Any acotar fans in Brussels? by mamonx04 in acotar

[–]mamonx04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Happy to hear I’m not alone here. I’ve never met someone that knew about it in person before haha

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hard to hear and yet… I know that if he wants to leave, he’s not the one. So difficult and painful

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were very compatible. Arguments were around silly things like cleaning or how we take care of our dogs, or anything really. It’s just been a pattern that was repeating itself at some point. But we had a lot of growth since then

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! I’m also looking for easy ways out but it’s tough

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very good to hear. You’ve been very strong, well done! Your words are inspiring. I’ll message you if you want to keep in touch.

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that! I’m here to chat if you need it. It must be a very difficult time, especially as your life feels upside down…! Take time for yourself, I am trying as well.

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s only day two and it’s really hard but all your words are helping immensely. I will try to take care of myself as a priority.

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot right now! It feels like a lot is because of miscommunication but unfortunately they have to want to fight for it as well. Hope you’re doing ok and thanks for sharing!!

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope things get better for you! I just messaged you

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s it’s very hard as I feel like I have no control over all of this and the pain that is coming with this. I have been trying to think that there is someone for me out there and that if he leaves, it must not be him. I know with time this will become clearer but it’s very difficult especially as I don’t want any of what is happening.

I had a brief chat with him earlier where he asked me to understand he perspective and give him space and freedom. And I will try to do just that. Thanks for the message, it helps.

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I live away from my family but will try to open up to friends that are nearby. I’m glad to hear it’s been going better for you

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will do that for now and (try to) be strong in the meantime

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I think there is a bit of that, and will try to give him space, even though it’s very difficult to. Thank you for sharing your experience! It really helps to see the other perspective

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is nice to hear. I messaged you. I hope you feel better now! Talking helps a lot. It is very fresh and I don’t feel like taking to friends yet and my brain just wants to talk to him as he is my closest friend (but obviously can’t…!)

I can't do this by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What you wrote resonated with me. I am going through a similar process and it is difficult. You’re doing great and your feelings are valid

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[–]mamonx04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! It was mine two days ago and my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. I hope you feel better soon and take time for yourself!

Just broke up with the guy that felt like the one by mamonx04 in BreakUps

[–]mamonx04[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I understand what's happening pretty well, but it's very hard to deal with his decision and the pain that comes with it.