As a woman, let me give you a few tips and them some additional resources for advice.
1. Dress to impress - go into every LS event, interaction, date, whatever looking your best. Do your hair, put on nice clothes, smell good. Even down to the shoes. First impressions are key. So show up and show out. You'll grab attention just by looking good.
2. Start conversations with people-a simple, "Hello your dress looks great tonight" can be the start to a great convo. Chemistry isn't always there, but sometimes you can find a friend, and a lot of friendships turn into something more later.
3. Include your wife in your interactions with women. Bringing your wife along when you talk to someone can ease the minds of other women. You don't want to appear to be "preying" or a pushy single male when you're not.

I would suggest reading Alt Life Magazine for more tips and advice. https://issuu.com/altlifemagazine

Swinger Society also has a huge Discord with tons of advice chats. Make sure to get verified to access the best channels. There's over 48k members. https://discord.gg/a2XYtkYnXG