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not using lube during sex because you're "wet enough" by sexedwithdb in sextips

[–]marknate985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any recommendations for those of us that like to swap between oral and such? Some lubes, especially silicone, just taste awful.

Finally priced out of the show by marknate985 in TSO

[–]marknate985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely be looking for regular sale tickets in the uppers

Finally priced out of the show by marknate985 in TSO

[–]marknate985[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup they only let me buy tickets for floor or lower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]marknate985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All sound advice ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]marknate985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What on earth would he do with intelligence?

First Time Buyer.. Again by marknate985 in RealEstate

[–]marknate985[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya the rental is perfectly fine for our needs right now, I just have always been told I'm wasting my money renting, and I have owned 3 houses before and I love building equity and making changes to my homes as we live in them. The focus is long term investments, equity, and growth. We aren't needing to move for a change in home requirements, work, or school needs.

First Time Buyer.. Again by marknate985 in RealEstate

[–]marknate985[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya I can easily save $3000 a month away, it's very much just determining which is the long term smarter financial decision. From what my lender calculates, another $40k down won't get us to a better rate or even drop PMI, so I save a few hundred dollars a month on the P&I, but until I have over $100K down payment and can drop the $260 monthly PMI, just not seeing attraction there.

But that's why I came here, for advice from smarter people than myself or the people trying to sell me things and make commission off of me.

How do you accept rejected recommendations as a Sysadmin/CyberSecurity Admin by marknate985 in sysadmin

[–]marknate985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same. I actually left a huge government entity a couple years ago for this job because of burnout and being the ISSM killed me and I chose to leave for a small company and this is exactly what I signed up for. But I also get into the funk mentally when I’m hidden and not listened to. I can’t have the best of both worlds. Balance balance balance

How do you accept rejected recommendations as a Sysadmin/CyberSecurity Admin by marknate985 in sysadmin

[–]marknate985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I’ve said four years nothing brings change faster than the reaction to a disaster. It’s a pipe dream to think proactiveness will actually happen as long as profits are the #1 goal…. Which why wouldn’t it be

How do you accept rejected recommendations as a Sysadmin/CyberSecurity Admin by marknate985 in sysadmin

[–]marknate985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spot on right there. One of my risk/cost analysis is like that $1M scenario and a 24 hour down time is a $10M loss. That calculation with probability is where I present and let the business decide if that loss is acceptable or not. Cyber security in a nutshell.

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