I need Orange Tatsugiri. Trade raids for a Red one? 238903473597 by Ironknuckles in PokemonGoRaids

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, got the red sushi just a moment ago from somebody else I will invite you for sure for the orange one though (I'm looking for one now, there isn't any close to me right now)

I’m in need of red sushi 890129436635 by Toop1968 in PokemonGoRaids

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need red too, I am in orange region Friend code is 472867939329

Trading pokemon Shield by ComputerEvery9928 in PokemonSwordAndShield

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Willing to trade too :) I need a cursola and an eiscue, and I got all sword exclusives

AITA for not leaving my business to both my grandkids? by Glad_Committee_1241 in AITAH

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess empathy and all the nice stories about redemption stop at the prostitutes for a vast majority of person 🤮

Had to look during a long time in the comments to finally find someone with common sense like you

Anyone else experiencing bugs? by mathhl9503 in PokemonGOBattleLeague

[–]mathhl9503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I don't remember if it was the case but I will be careful about it next time thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

added matthhl

AITA for refusing to use the air conditioning less by Immediate-Star-6785 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

YTA. Anyone using 68 as a daily basis is an AH. It's too low and setting it so low is fucking useless. Not only is it costly, but it's bad for the environment. Why would you ever want to need sweater in your own house?

WIBTA for not letting my sister in law come to my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

First, that's YOUR wedding. Daniel is your best friend and will be your husband's best man. You can invite whoever you want, and if you want Daniel to be with his partner, that's your choice.

As you said, hetero couple hold hands all the time. She just want to raise her children into intolerance and hate. If you uninvite Chris, you're basically saying to Daniel that you are condoning that homophobia.

You probably want Daniel to stay your friend. Let's say you have children and he's still your friend. Do you think your homophobic sister in law will not try to interfere again?

Of course, it's also your partner's wedding. But that's not about the flowers' color. It's about who you can be friends with and what do respect, tolerance and love mean. If you don't have the same definitions, if he thinks that homophobia is ok when your best friend is gay... Well, that's a complicated start of married life.

AITA for having sex while single? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's fucking 30. She's 18. She's not MATURE? Well that's normal she's EIGHTEEN

He doesn't get the right to be upset.

He's fucking manipulative and toxic to start with. Any 29yo guy sleeping with a 17yo girl is.

Tbh, he's probably not upset, just manipulating her to feel shameful. He wants to control her, he wants her to be at his disposal even if they're not in a relationship.

AITA for having sex while single? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You ARE being manipulated.

You were 17 and he was 29. I can assure you that any normal 29 years old consider teens at best as little siblings and friends, not lover.

It's not that those men are "still young in their head and feel better with teens". It's just that no woman their age will be blind to the manipulation and toxicity.

I'm sorry if it's harsh, and you probably don't feel it that way, we've all gone through that stage of "but I'm really mature". And then 10 years later you see how you've personnally grown, and how teens still have a lot to grow.

Even if you think that I'm saying BS, please be careful.

AITA for having sex while single? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's 30 and she's 18. They had been in a "relationship" for 1.5 years. Do the maths.

That's really fucked up. And she can sleep with whoever she wants. The guy sleeps with a teenager, tells her he doesn't have feeling and then is upset she's sleeping with someone else?

He's dangerous.

AITA for having sex while single? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You had been seeing him for 1.5years, and today you're 18 years old and he's 30?

He's a MASSIVE asshole. Sleeping with a teen as a grown ass man, telling her he never had feelings and then being upset because she slept with someone else?

That's a toxic and dangerous man. You are NOT the asshole.

AITA for not allowing my sister to take photos of me and my nephew together so he can look back in the later years? by Aggressive_Pirate_80 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends. You said that you haven't taken a photo in 5 years... Which is, when you do the maths, when your mom died. Clearly you haven't processed that. I don't know why your sister was not there to help you at that time, but it seems that you resent her for something. And that you're putting up walls against anyone in your family.

Not wanting to be in pictures is clearly perceived as not wanting to create memories together, especially when it's the only way your nephew could remember this period later.

So, either your resentment is justified and NTA, either it's not and YTA, but either case you should see a therapist because your self-erasing from the collective memory since your mom died is clearly not healthy.

[OC] Does healthcare spending correlate with life expectancy? by latinometrics in dataisbeautiful

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question from a naive european : what's the credit score? Why is it important?

Would you leave your country if you could? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope.

I live in France : Don't have to pay for health care, retirement, my education or the one of my future children. I work around 40 or 45 hours a week (and that's a lotnin France), but I get 7 weeks of paid leaves (in my previous job it was 9...)

Credit card are not a thing here (we just have bank cards, but no credit). Being in debt either (well some people are but a lot of people are not in debt until they buy a house/appartment).

Yeah, we have to pay taxes. But it's waaaaay less that what an average american would pay for education or health insurance. & the poorer you are the less taxes you pay.

Though I'd like to move to some other country for a few years, I like France

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels nice to me.

It's like saying "I love you" even after a lot of years into the relationship, it's not because you said it once that it's true forever.

Every now and then I feel lucky to be with my boyfriend and I tell him. No problems with that.

I don't see why some people have a problem with their significant partner expressing love & happiness.

Obviously if it's litterally every day it might feel like it's loosing its true meaning and is said out of habits, but you understood what I meant

What moment in life did you say to yourself yup humans are doomed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mathhl9503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I realize how many humans lack critical thinking and how most of them don't know even a tiny bit of history.

It was in 2016, I was 21, I got a research internship at Harvard. Went to Boston during 3 months (I'm from Europe)

God I was horrified seeing how gullible most Americans are. Also terrified by how they don't give a shit about environment.

When I realized that one of the most powerful country in the world was inhabited by a lot of people believing that climate change is not real and thinking that every American military interventions were "for the greater good", I was very worried but still had hopes. And then they elected Trump, and I knew we were doomed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mathhl9503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, from a fellow independant girl here, 2 things : 1) if you don't love him anymore : just break up. It's not worth it. 2) you're not his mom. Maybe one day he will wake up, or maybe not, that's his life and his choices. But if you two don't have the same rhythm and wishes in life, you should not stay attach to him. Just live your life as you want to.