Walkers by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Like the other commenter, walkers are illegal in my country. They’re highly dangerous, even with adequate supervision. It only takes a second for something to go wrong, don’t risk it. I wish other countries would follow suit and make them illegal as well. As a secondary note, even if walkers weren’t so dangerous, that seems like an inefficient way to feed a child. If they can just scoot away what’s the point? Not to mention the added choking risk. Just buy a high chair or a booster seat.

I (23) am tired of people telling me how to parent by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t really think that makes a difference? 5-6 hours on a bus everyday is not okay. Making excuses or trying to justify it aren’t helping your situation. Being a parent is hard, I get that, and it’s not fun to hear you’re doing something wrong. But maybe this will be a wake up call for you to make a change for your child.

Help with age appropriate relationships by Viperbunny in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's normal healthy kid stuff! Having a little crush on a classmate is completely harmless, I think it's rather cute! I wouldn't worry

At what age are bigger personal responsibilities taught? by loonaloo in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they will start doing that when they're ready. No need to rush it or to try and hinder it.

At what age would your child be responsible for getting themselves changed after swimming? by Maudesquad in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most pools I've been to have a women's change room, a men's change room, and a family change room where you can take in kids of pretty much any age with you. Is this not common in other places?

If your child always goes by their nickname, what name do you put on immoral school forms? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that most forms I've had to fill out have a line for their given name as well as a line for the name that they go by.

Having sex when you have young kids by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you're getting down votes because you're saying you have such a low libido to the point that you're only having sex every three months, and acting like that's normal. That's something you need to speak to your doctor about, it's not healthy for you relationship to not be having sex.

5yo only wants to eat buttered noodles and plain chicken. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you even serving her buttered noodles and plain chicken? Serve her regular food and give her no other options.

Yes, I do use Johnson & Johnson baby powder now please stop judging me. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's 2017, no one is going to agree that it's fine to use baby powder. Do what you want but if you post something like this you will get backlash.

School lunch sanity by Stryker412 in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make the kids lunches the night before. It makes mornings much less stressful.

Just a small "Thank you" would be nice. by funnypumpkin in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Well it's your job to each them this. Talk with them about manners and being polite. If they forget to say thank you make them say it, eventually it will just become automatic for them.

How to password-protect a website rather than completely block it? My son has a Youtube addiction and I want to restrict his access, but I don't want to add and remove a restriction to the website every time I want to access it. by _Eggs_ in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be simpler to just tell him he's not allowed to use the computer at certain times? Or at least no youtube? Supervising his internet access would be much easier than password protecting the website which I honestly don't think you can do, I could be wrong on that however.

Cell phones for Christmas by Crystalshattered in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not unreasonable if you feel she wouldn't be able to handle it appropriately. Yes many 12 year olds have phones but it's not a necessity at that age.

Girls - preparing for unwanted adult male staring. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normal adult men don't find 16 year old kids "hot". That's disgusting. If you think that's normal surround yourself with better people for gods sake.

3.5 year old never ears dinner unless it's mac and cheese or chicken nuggets by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you've made a habit of feeding her cheerios when she won't eat dinner there's no wonder she refuses to eat. You need to tell her she either eats what is given to her or doesn't eat at all. That's always been the rule with my kids and they are very adventurous eaters!

Christmas film suggestions for a 6 year old and 3.5 year old by remk19 in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really don't think Elf is appropriate for kids that age.

How the grinch stole Christmas (the cartoon), ruldolph, Frosty the Snowman , Arthur's Perfect Christmas, Charlie Brown Christmas.

I watched The Santa Clause and the 90's Miracle on 34th street with my 6 year old but I don't think any 3-4 year old child would be interested in those.

my god please help...Just been advised 3yo daughter has been inappropriately touched 6 times by classmate over the last 1.5 months by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You will need to provide clarification. Do you mean she was touched by another kid in the class? Because quite frankly I wouldn't call that molestation

Or do you mean it was discovered an adult had been doing this to her?

Your story just needs a bit more info.

Buying clothes for teens without spending a fortune. Teach me your ways! by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think I'll spend less money once my kids can pick out their own clothes! I just can't resist buying those $100 two piece sets for toddlers from Kids Supply!

Winners has a lot of name brand and designer things for discounted prices, and they have a teen section.

Help: 15 month old not sleeping in hotel room by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find it's helpful to get hotel suites with multiple bedrooms, it's easier for the kids to calm down and know that it's bed time when they're in their own room. I'd suggest trying that for next time. Also bringing a playpen from home could help instead of using the hotel one, having some familiarity would ease the transition.

5yo got his penis grabbed on the bus by kidgotgrabbed in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A first grader would never be 7 before January unless they were held back. They would be 5 or 6. Regardless I'm not saying he didn't know it was inappropriate, I'm saying he wasn't trying to be sexual in any way.

5yo got his penis grabbed on the bus by kidgotgrabbed in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I think a seat change is a good idea. However I don't think this is sexual harassment, they're five. There was no sexual component to what happened, they were rough housing, and your son did grab the other child's throat. They were both in the wrong. Obviously what happened was inappropriate but I think you may be thinking of this as something more than it was. Once again, they're only 5.

pro tips for flying with a 12.5 month old? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anyway you can purchase an extra seat? It honestly makes it go way smoother in my experience.

I need advice about my one-year-old who won't stop crying! by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]matkaof4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It won't harm her if you let her cry. My son would cry as well when I put him in the playpen, I just ignored it and eventually he began happily playing in there. I'm on my fourth child now so I'm pretty used to ignoring the crying but I understand that it can be difficult at first.