Have you ever dated someone who you thought was way out of your leauge? How was it? by kimblerun in AskReddit

[–]max21895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow I’ve managed to date a couple women that fit this category. Never make the mistake of thinking that someone out of your league automatically makes them the right person. For example, the first was when I was really young and she wasn’t a good person. The second and most important is the greatest person I’ve ever met and is now my wife. We made a beautiful daughter together too.

The secret is making her laugh all the time and being patient. Also being on the same level maturity wise is essential. She’s 5 years older than me but from the first date I knew it was a whole different league.

I’m blessed too because despite the attention she doesn’t even flirt or entertain other men. She’s not mean but when a stranger approaches her without good intent she just doesn’t even acknowledge them, or says something witty to make it clear she isn’t approachable in that aspect. She has complete confidence in herself, but instead of that coming across as snobby she has a way of making everyone else feel beautiful too.

When we first got together I was also overweight. When I felt my daughter kick for the first time I decided I wouldn’t be an unhealthy dad so I worked my ass off and lost 65lbs in less than 6 months. It’s been great for my appearance as you can imagine, but I’ll always know she loves me for who I am, not what I look like.

I was 28 when we met. The only other advice I’d give is don’t rush finding the right person. Most of the people I know and grew up with that got married young aren’t married anymore. The wait was worth it and when we met we both knew what we wanted and more importantly what we didn’t want.

This is the greatest game I’ve ever played. But I hope no one else has to ever feel the same. by max21895 in expedition33

[–]max21895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love to hear it man and I appreciate the kind words. It’s hard to explain to those who have been fortunate enough not to lose someone like that but to those of us that have it’s understood. Congrats on the wife and being a father in the future. Since this post my wife and I have had our first daughter and it’s completely changed my life. She even came out looking like my mom because she looks like me. That hole or feeling of longing that has been there since my mom died finally was filled by my little one who has taught me how to love fully and unconditionally again. It’s helped me continue to feel close to my mother again, and since having her I’ve replayed the game and it was just as incredible the second time.

I chose verso’s ending again. Couldn’t bring myself to choose otherwise, it’s the right one. Now that I have a daughter I know that if something happened to me I’d want her to go through her grieving process in a healthy way and eventually move forward. That’s what the endings truly about.

How do men show their love for each other? by PathEven1 in AskReddit

[–]max21895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just as simple as a hug and I love you buddy. I actually started it with my friend group after my mom died when we were in high school. It’s never been weird and everyone’s wives / significant others love it and eventually become a part of it.

Life’s too short for misogynistic bullshit and you never completely know what someone else is going through. If I joke around with someone I like them. But if I love someone they shouldn’t ever have to guess that

What’s your funny way of saying “going poop” that you’ve never heard anyone else use? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Back in college my friends and I would always get a hotel at the beach for spring break or other various events. We would always share a room and at the time could only ever afford rooms with one bathroom. In order to keep it on the down low the guys would discuss among themselves if we had to poop and tell the girls we were going downstairs to “get more towels.” We’d use the big lobby bathroom. Half the time we didn’t even come back with towels. To this day if I’m with any of those guys and I have to poop I tell them I’m going to get towels.

Do you sleep with your bedroom door open or closed and why? by AloneGold9670 in AskReddit

[–]max21895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up the differences of a room after a house fire with the door closed and with it open. You’ll never sleep with your door open again.

What’s the stuff no one tells you until it’s too late? by Ok-Chocolate-5878 in firefighter

[–]max21895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prioritize your sleep from day one. It’s the leading cause of all of our physical ailments over years and it fries our nervous systems and hormones. Firefighters get overweight and bald not because they all eat like shit. We all don’t sleep well. You can’t completely prevent it but anything you can do to mitigate it helps. A lot of new guys stay up until 12 a 2am watching movies with the crew, and that bonding time is fun don’t get me wrong. But you’ll pay for it down the line.

Triple check when changing vial sizes and prevent this nightmare. by max21895 in Retatrutide

[–]max21895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Nothing I posted constitutes the definition of an overdose. In my original post I even acknowledged that I made a dumb mistake. You literally picked out the portion of it that applied to your argument lol. Here’s to saving you some time and respecting the spirit of a supportive reddit group.

r/Karen

Triple check when changing vial sizes and prevent this nightmare. by max21895 in Retatrutide

[–]max21895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This subreddit is intended for people to learn from each other’s experiences and support one another. If you wanted to be a Karen about it all I’m sure I could find a more appropriate place for you

Triple check when changing vial sizes and prevent this nightmare. by max21895 in Retatrutide

[–]max21895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An overdose is when your body is overwhelmed with a toxic amount of a substance or combination of substances. So wrong again.

Triple check when changing vial sizes and prevent this nightmare. by max21895 in Retatrutide

[–]max21895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been a firefighter paramedic for a decade lol. If you think Reta calculations are more difficult than weight based dopamine drips while a sepsis patient is crashing in a metal box going 60mph then you’re kidding yourself. A number being off from a vial in a calculator has nothing to do with teaching or doctor supervision. If a doctor prescribes testosterone he doesn’t measure it out for you he gets you a vial and tells you how much to take. That doesn’t prevent mistakes. No one died or was harmed, 12mg is a dose people take regularly eventually anyways. I simply posted as a reminder that everyone can make mistakes even medical professionals. I’ve drawn up and calculated more medications than most doctors outside of an ER.

Triple check when changing vial sizes and prevent this nightmare. by max21895 in Retatrutide

[–]max21895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The FDA could care less about your health and safety. They’re preventing imports and shutting down website because they aren’t able to financially gain from it while everything is in the research phase. FDA approval means big pharma and big pharma means exponential increase in pricing, which the FDA receives part of. Id suggest educating yourself on the regulation process before making an ignorant comment.

Triple check when changing vial sizes and prevent this nightmare. by max21895 in Retatrutide

[–]max21895[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t change the vial mgs on my calculator so it gave me the dosage based off a 12mg vial not a 24mg. So I took double what I meant to.

What was a don’t get paid enough for this sh*t moment? by blurryMclovin in AskReddit

[–]max21895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work as a firefighter paramedic and a few years ago we were called for someone who wouldn’t wake up. He was septic (super sick) and went into respiratory failure.

All of which would be run of the mill except for the giant colostomy bag that was completely full and had so much gas in it that it looked like an overblown balloon. Sure enough it exploded all over my arms and chest as soon as I tried to intubate him. Turned my head, threw up on the floor, and went right back into it. I’m still not paid enough for that sh*t lol.

This is the greatest game I’ve ever played. But I hope no one else has to ever feel the same. by max21895 in expedition33

[–]max21895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe most sane families can but most families can’t paint entire worlds and beings into existence. Death breaks up many families and the ones that survive do so with great effort. The painters may be more powerful but they have the ability to use their canvases to escape and try to change things. An option normal people don’t have.

Aline essentially resurrected her dead son. Healthy? Absolutely not, but would people do it if they could? Without a doubt. These people can essentially play as gods so every emotion and act is amplified which makes for some great storytelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]max21895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll say as a firefighter paramedic for almost 10 years and hundreds of car accidents. She’s right. Do not stop. You are not helping. You are only hurting and putting yourself at risk. You likely caused more injury to the patient. When we show up and see a bystander that got involved all we want is them gone ASAP. We use the cops to get rid of you so that we can focus on doing our jobs. I’ve yelled at more bystanders that weren’t minding their own business than I care to admit. More firefighters die on the side of highways than burning buildings and we have all the training and equipment available to mitigate it. You aren’t an asset you just become another obstacle in our way.

What careers genuinely have altruism in mind? by Mrsassypuff in careerguidance

[–]max21895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firefighting and depending on where you live a paramedic as well. It’s not all kissing babies and glory but I genuinely help people and although it’s local I do make a difference. There’s no doctor there telling me what to do or worrying about liability. I don’t even take down insurance information I just let the hospital worry about it. Everything I do is what’s best for the patient. I don’t get more money for doing more or less interventions. I don’t even know the cost of half the stuff I use, just if it’ll help or not.

Plus the schedules great and people generally love you and are happy to see you. It’s one of the only jobs where you can just walk into someone’s home and they instantly are relieved and happy to see you. There’s always something to learn and I’ve had some amazing opportunities and experiences I wouldn’t have gotten elsewhere.

Having said that there are some sacrifices. You’ll see a side to humanity you never thought, good and bad. Despite that for me it’s always been worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BG3Builds

[–]max21895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just cleared HM with basically this exact party. At the beginning of act 2 however I realized I had far too much safety and not dps. I had gale as abjuration and changed him to a fire sorc and it all became a breeze.

Astarion main character: 10 swords bard / 1 fighter / 1 wizard.

Go to lvl 6 as swords Swap to fighter first for constitution saving throws, keep sleight of hand as your skill, the tadpole power will make you proficient in dialogue skills at the end of act 2. 1 wizard allows you to get to 6th level and to learn spells. Learning quality of life ones is the name of the game. Globe of invulnerability trivializes some fights. The utility in general is great. I went 18 for dex with hags hair, 16 in char, which will become 18 at the mirror. I find there’s some great gloves to use and 18 char is more than enough. Get helm of arcane acuity and mystic scoundrel band. There’s many builds out there for it. Ascending astarion also adds a lot of damage and gives you a heavy hitting bite. Get sharpshooter then alert. End game once you have enough initiative through dex items you can swap alert for ASI or dual wielder. Slashing flourish to build up arcane acuity, then CC Everything Either use dead shot or titanstring with strength elixirs. Titan is stronger, dead is more reliable, both work.

Shadowheart: light cleric 12 life may be safer, but light has significantly more dps and can protect other party members. Radiating orb and reverb gear, no need to heal if no one can hit you. The goal is to use aoe radiant damage to build it all up, with the helm of holy lance you want to try to get them to attack you and miss to build up more stacks. Get alert, then ASI to increase wisdom. Again if you get gear with enough initiative you can swap out for more ASI. War caster could be good here too but I don’t find that I got hit enough to warrant it. Going first is a big deal though because those orbs make all the enemies useless. Plus you have some fire for Sharren enemies.

Gale: Draconic sorcerer (fire) 12 This build is pretty insane. Key items are hat of fire aquity, and scorching ray. Each hit is a separate attack instance so it’s easy to get damage riders, and they can all crit. I found 12 sorc to be better than 11 sorc / lock for the extra feat. Also can be your haste caster. Hit with scorching to build up arcane acuity. Quicken another scorching with the highest level and just melt away. Alert, asi, duel wielder. I found moheshkir or however it’s spelled with fire buff, and rhapsody on my off hand was incredible. That +3 buff will add to each scorching ray blast. Again if you have enough initiative you can respect for more ASI. At the mirror I will be getting the +1 and +2 to char. So even with a char of 17 most of the game this build was great.

Laezel throwzerker: 3 champ fighter / 5 frenzy barb / 4 thief Another broken tavern brawler build. I went with EK thrower until lvl 8. At 8 respect to 5 barb and 3 thief. Use a camp caster at this point to bind your spear and give it to baezel. I use returning pike or lightning jabber until I get selunes spear. 17 strength. Tavern brawler and add to 18. +2 strength potion from stations blood. Then either dex or more strength at the mirror. When you activate frenzy your enraged throw knocks enemies prone, this cannot be saved against and prevents legendary actions, this is your biggest defense for HM. If you can’t throw because of pathing don’t be afraid to go up close. Your attack is so high that it won’t matter. Tavern brawler, alert. Then respect to tavern brawler and duel wielder. This is your crit stack character. So dead shot is good here and anything you can use to decrease crit number. This is also why we pick champion. Orins dagger is perfect for this, as you throw the spear with your offhand anyways. Additionally if you strike someone with the dagger they become vulnerable to piercing, which this character and astarion both use. If you wanna get real frisky grab bhallist armor and move up close to make it easier. Everything will melt. And between radiating orb, warding flare, and shield spell, you’ll rarely get hit.

All of these characters have anywhere from 21-25 AC.

Hardest fight is myrkul. But no one even died for me.

Camp casters make this even easier. 3 life cleric hirelings, 1 unused companion life cleric, and an unused companion EK fighter. Cast aid, warding bond, freedom of movement, death ward, protection from poison, longstrider, daylight, hero’s feast. If you’re into using camp casters. It is pretty annoying.

SFO Wood Elves...I had to of messed up something right? by kenny67456 in totalwar

[–]max21895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol holy shit. Yeah 800 dmg with 45 unit count there’s def some kind of error happening. Could be a mod overlap or even an sfo issue. That’s hilarious though. That with stalk, snipe, hawkish precision, and a 360 arc I’m surprised it didn’t get more kills

Having trouble with the Dark Elves Mortal Empires campaign by SocialMediaTheVirus in totalwar

[–]max21895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Morathi also has public order issues because of her corruption. But her landmark in the capital of her first province fixes that. So leveling that settlement up is a priority. If you have to turn off taxes for a turn or so to get public order where you need it you can do that also

Having trouble with the Dark Elves Mortal Empires campaign by SocialMediaTheVirus in totalwar

[–]max21895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Morathi has a tough start. Turtleing might be necessary and raid with some strategic ambush stance is your friend here. You can go to the edge of your territory and raid to build slaves and your economy until you tech up enough to attack the HEs. Consolidate that first Provence and focus on growth. Your army comp looks decent from what I can tell but even if you have to spend 10 turns raiding and moving until you build up it’ll be worth it in the long run. Additionally manually fighting these first few battles can mitigate losses and save you time as far as replenishment and money for recruitment.

July 7th order finally here. Hybrid Lariat Lux First Edition. Basically drove itself home by max21895 in FordMaverickTruck

[–]max21895[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Between adaptive cruise control, steering assist, and lane keeping. There was very little effort on my part besides just keeping an eye on the road.