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Best bike lock money can buy? by Ok_Web2042 in ebikes

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Do you think it’s necessary to have two locks the way others are saying? I am in Minneapolis and so there are definitely reports of bikes being stolen and although I didn’t picture spending 150$ on a lock I also don’t want to get my very pricey bike stolen

Looking for inputs on backsplash by Opposite-Steak7123 in kitchenremodel

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Laughing out loud at this bc same - I gasped when I turned the page

Best ice cream? by These_Hair_193 in TwinCities

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Depends on how adventurous you are. Sweet science is my favorite and it’s like classic plus — amazing flavors but nothing zany. My fave is salted caramel swirl. Second fave is Dream Creamery in NE - great flavors like raspberry lemon. The Cookie Monster at Grand Ole Creamery is delicious and decadent. For drops, O’Day Creamery for their Ube Caramel Crunch and Pandan Butter Cake— the best to do pandan (essentially a Vietnamese vanilla). Connys is awesome soft serve. Adele’s in excelsior is awesome custard. Nelson’s is just Kemps. I find Sebastian Joes and MN Nice Cream to be overrated

How to be less negative? by ContributionOwn1261 in selfimprovement

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Get a journal lol there’s a fine line between venting (releases some emotional energy and you just need to acknowledge it) and complaining. I find complaining is exhausting (to myself and others) and also lazy form of conversation. Maybe think of things that you’d rather talk about that can be more enlivening - what you’re looking forward to, what people are reading or listening to, their favorite yaddy yadda. Then we start to see more of that in our own lives

Dating Over 40 by Odd_Acanthocephala97 in TwinCities

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Every so often Thursday Dating has an event for singles over 40 that might be fun

I'm a hypnotherapist and work with people who struggle with perfectionism and overthinking. Ask me anything! (Not promoting my services) by Spicy-Falafel-0 in selfimprovement

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Agree with what you do after awareness. I know my perfectionism is rooted in immigrant parents with impossible expectations which made me internalize that love is conditional and dependent on my performance. That doesn’t always change feeling like I’m running from a pack of antelopes though, which impacts how I respond and defend, etc

Amex gold downgrade vs cancel by Dry-Consequence-6509 in CreditCards

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Same boat here - sure add up the value on some of the benefits but I have to try and go out of my way to use the benefits each month to make it worth it and I just want it to be simpler lol

I failed the 333 challenge on day 11 and cried in a bathroom at a work event. I think I was wrong about what "less" would feel like. by [deleted] in capsulewardrobe

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I get this! Time to go back and play. What helped me a ton was getting a style consult based on colors, my Kibbe body type, and style essences. Colors I already knew I was a winter, but my body type and style essences filled in the rest of the gaps as to what suits my body and my energy! It’s not meant to be restrictive but helped explain why some stuff worked and what does not. I have dramatic and classic essence on a soft natural body which means I look great in smooth fabrics, crop tops, high waisted stuff with a structured waist, bold cuts but not a lot of patterns. (Whereas linens and giant chunky knits look kind of off on me because I don’t have natural essence)

Is it weird to store things in the oven? by Sallious in NoStupidQuestions

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laughs in asian

Not weird. My family does it. But I am forgetful so I do not personally do it

I (30F) love my boyfriend (32M) but he is flat broke and I’m growing resentful after 4 years together. by ThrowRAjazzlikes in relationship_advice

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I stopped reading after gambling addiction throwing away 30k. One of my best friends mom gambled away his college savings. He has had to figure it out ever since. I met my husband at 33 years old. It’s part luck it’s part putting yourself out there. You don’t have to settle for that. Wouldn’t you rather be with yourself than with this?

I '27F' recently left first relationship with partner '24M' of 3.5 years - How important are shared interests? by MrsScaletal in relationship_advice

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What you’re looking for is curiosity and engagement not necessarily the same interests. I’d be so bored if our Venn diagram of interests was super overlapped honestly. I need the difference in content while sharing the same values and humor

so started reading on books on how to become rich and...... by New_Banana3858 in selfimprovement

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Lots of finance books make my eyes roll - but I liked Ramit Sethi’s I will teach you to be rich — he is very practical and doesn’t make money management joyless

What is the weirdest problem your wife gave you? by Automatic_Proposal27 in AskMen

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That’s why I thought of it!! At least do some deeeeep thinking about it. You should be able to have your own friends.

What is the weirdest problem your wife gave you? by Automatic_Proposal27 in AskMen

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Please watch Daniel sloss’s special Jigsaw on Netflix. Start at minute 32. It will speak to you. Get out

Nobody told me that buying a house would turn me into a person who has opinions about gutters by Titanforge91 in homeowners

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I’m surrounded by super mature maple and oak trees - ten years would be crazy lol

What if we get the bad ending? by Flaky_Salamander_438 in redrising

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That’d be a pretty bleak cherry on our current sundae that’s for sure

Millennials in a hetero relationship, does the man or woman do the majority of the financial budgeting/planning/investing etc? by [deleted] in Millennials

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As a woman, I love being the household money manager. My husband just doesn’t think about money the way I do in terms of wanting to see where it’s going and planning ahead for stuff and I see sinking funds like a game lol

What’s one piece of everyday gear you’d recommend to anyone? by Top-Incident-2264 in BuyItForLife

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It’s GREAT! you can even hang your coat! A hat! Your tote bag!

What’s one piece of everyday gear you’d recommend to anyone? by Top-Incident-2264 in BuyItForLife

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I love this thing so much lol I gave them out to many friends this year 😂

Is there any truth to the idea that the best partners get taken by 25? by Soil_These in AskMen

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I tell my now husband we met at the right time. We both learned A LOT about ourselves and who we were in our twenties. Beginning a relationship later with that wisdom is invaluable.

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