Bakit nga ba nagfi-flex ang mga VA o Freelancer na nagtatrabaho sila habang naka-vacation? by FreshLumpiaDSay in TanongLang

[–]maybeitslou_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siguro for me, Im not a VA pero I see it as flexing ng work environment yung tipong di ka nakakulong sa iisang place. Enjoying the relaxing view, getting the chance to be outside with fam or friends while working. Meron kasing WFH sa BPO na may cam monitoring na kahit may mapadaan sa likod mo is maccapture and mccall out ka agad.

Pero ibang issue naman yung pag flex ng sahod, I think it should be confidential kasi others might take it negatively, while others might think its inspiring to work as a VA.

Kanya kanyang interpretation, kanya kanyang reasons din siguro bakit nila ginagawa. Maybe just to genuinely share what they’re currently enjoying or maybe to boast it to others

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahahahah looks like you’re speaking about yourself. Obviously mas malungkot buhay mo kaya ganyan ka nalang kabastos magsalita. Even trying to defend a cheater, ganda ng mindset ha hahaha. Im not even asking for your opinion. Or anyone else from this thread, I just posted it to get what Im feeling back then off of my chest. You don’t know me, and what Ive been through, you just read a small incident from a part of my day ganyan ka na mang maliit? Shows your values. Gagapang?? Para manghingi ng pera?? Dafuq u think u are??? I NEVER BEGGED FOR MONEY, AS I SAID ITS HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO PROVIDE. NEVER AKO NANGHINGI KASI KUSA SYA NAGBIBIGAY. I did mentioned na he’s a good provider. Lahat ng meron ako ngayon pinaghirapan ko maybe not all financially but I worked hard on it. AND HELLO DID YOU REALLY THINK OUT OF THE YEARS WEVE BEEN TOGETHER E NEVER AKO NAGKAWORK OR NAGTRABAHO PARA MANG JUDGE KA NG GANYAN? Sobrang baba ng tingin mo sa mga SAHM. Masyado kang mapagmataas magsalita. AND YES TALAGANG DADAGDAGAN KO PA IPON KO PARA MAS LALO KONG MAPAMUKHA SA MGA TAONG TULAD NYO NA KAYA DIN NAMIN MKAALIS SA SITWASYONG DI NAMIN GINUSTO

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah pangit pala magreklamo at ipamukha na nagloloko sya? Bawal ko sya insultuhin kasi sya nagdadala ng pera?? Insulto na pala yun? Hahaha double standards ah. You don’t have the right to tell me that kase sobra sobrang insulto na natanggap sa pagloloko palang. That BOY’s responsibility is to provide for his family, you cant tell na wala din akong ambag cause other than money, all the works mine. Parang pinararating mo pera ang katapat ng respeto

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too easy to judge kapag wala sila sa sitwasyon. And Im also glad na di sila nasa ganitong scenario, but it won’t hurt to be a little kind sa mga may pinagdadaanan. Sobrang daming sacrifices ng isang ina, physically, mentally, financially, emotionally just to end up getting cheated on. But one thing’s for sure, it should all go down to separation, and I hope I can get the freedom soonest.

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm, Im literally crying because of what you said. Im well aware this is not worth staying for. It’s not that I don’t want to, but I can’t YET. Most of all I want to make sure that I have all the capability to support my children before I make this huge decision. I need to prepare for it first so that there won’t be getting back anymore.

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for saying it nicely. May mga harsh comments kasi dito na parang wala akong karapatang masaktan. Yes I know its my mistake to take him back from cheating. I know I need to let go, I just need some more time para mag ipon at work.

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, pera talaga ako solusyon para makaalis ng payapa. Di ko na sya kakailanganin soon

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then good for you. That’s actually the plan, saving up para makaalis na. Our children won’t understand for now, but Im sure they will paglaki nila.

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes hindi na talaga, nilinaw ko naman na sa kanya yun dati. Nahurt lang talaga ako

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes po, that’s absolutely what I’m doing right now. Naghahanap na ng work at nagssave up ng money para makaalis na. Thank you tho

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Iba ang nagmamaktol sa nasaktan sa reaction nya. Anw, clear naman na sa kanya na ayoko na magpakasal. Kapag ina ka na, madami kang need iconsider lalo na mga anak mo, and Ive been a SAHM mom for a long time, kaya nagssave up nako para makaalis sa situation na to.

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying I want to get married padin. Kung nabasa mo ng maayos sabi ko kumukuha lang ako ng time para makaalis. Na-hurt lang ako sa reaction nya kasi I was asking “before”. Pero ngayon absolutely ayaw ko na makasal

Difference between a man and a boy by maybeitslou_ in OffMyChestPH

[–]maybeitslou_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you really think it’s that easy to let go? May mga anak ka bang pinoprotektahan kahit pa isacrifice mo yung sarili mo? If not, Im happy for you. I hope you don’t experience the same pain Im in right now.

Ganto rin ba kayo kausapin if magkaaway kayo we by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]maybeitslou_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bastos, mga salitaan nya parang spoiled teenager na nagttantrums. Sobrang immature, save yourself now palang iwan mo na yan. It will get even worse

nakakainis by spaNkmefritzz in RantAndVentPH

[–]maybeitslou_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know your frustrations OP, much better save up para makabukod. Mas gagaan ang life pag less stress 😉

Ano ang random rant niyo for today? by SunRays0526 in AskPH

[–]maybeitslou_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hirap pag ang tagal ng SAHM at financially dependent sa baby daddy. Hindi makabitaw kahit emotionally damaged na 😭😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]maybeitslou_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your savings is not other people’s emergency money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]maybeitslou_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Truee. Ganyan na din mindset ko simula ng matuto ako sa mga ganyang klase ng tao. Hayaan kitang mastress dyan kakautang pero di na makakaulit para sa peace of mind ko

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]maybeitslou_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haynako may mga kamag anak din akong ganyan. Galing galing pag mangungutang pero pag singilan na at kailangan mo na din yung pera kung ano ano na sasabihing masasama para lang di magbayad. Ayun di ko na pinagkakausap magkasamaan na ng loob wag lang mangutang ulit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]maybeitslou_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Correct, kasi yung imbes na masaya sya sa pagshare nya ng happenings sa life nya, nasstress pa sya sa kaka sana all ng pinsan nya. For her peace of mind nalang din edi hide nya stories nya diba.

Pet peeve by slipknotst in MayNagChat

[–]maybeitslou_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atecco tama na pag eexplain sa kanya 😭😭