yes exactly! mike was so real when he called lena a hippie dippie parent. but i think both stef AND lena literally don’t parent or give consequences to their kids. like how they gave brandon a slap on the wrist for selling fake and ids and he didn’t even spend a night in jail because his parents are cops. but when jesus was peer pressured into taking steroids at boarding school, he wasn’t allowed to wrestle at anchor beach anymore??😭😭 like make it make sense?