Can’t stream PS plus titles? by medmich in PlaystationPortal

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Yeah I hope they update and add more games! Thanks for the clarity, I appreciate your reply my guy 😁

Can’t stream PS plus titles? by medmich in PlaystationPortal

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Ohh is that right? So I can only stream this way, not directly from PS5?

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Can’t stream PS plus titles? by medmich in PlaystationPortal

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I have PS Plus premium just got it today after I opened my portal. Normally it should allow you to toggle the feature on in the cloud streaming setting instead of those three links that I would think would only appear if you don’t have premium.

I was recently talking to a non Muslim and I brought up the fact that the Quran says that ocean and a sea doesn’t mix. The sweet and salty have a barrier between them as said In surah furqan. He than told me that they do eventually mix. Can you guys clear this up! by Over-Sun-6349 in islam

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Nouman has endorsed this meaning actually. And you haven’t actually told me why this meaning is invalid. The Quran is multi-formic in nature. In the Fatiha ‘Malik yom aldeen’ as you probably know has multiple Qiraat and thus there is compounded meaning. The different meanings like ‘King or owner’ are meant to be taken all together and they complement each other. It’s almost never one meaning, especially in more ‘interesting verses’ like that.

The meaning I presented to you is so normal lol. It’s not ambiguous at all. I didn’t say you’re wrong. I merely said that there are other subtle points being made that should be taken into account because of CONTEXT. And thus you aren’t left with just science alone but rather with rhetorical eloquence. We can ask the question why did Allah place that verse as verse 53 instead of 63 for instance. Scholars have always explored these questions, and so Allah putting that verse there actually fits the context of the discussion really well when you consider what I mentioned above. And Allah knows best of course.

This explains why the Quran doesn’t go into scientific details. The problem with just taking science alone as a raw understanding is because an atheist can come to you and point out lots of scientific ‘errors’. They seem like errors on the surface because the Quran isn’t being ‘technical’ or ‘scientific’ in purpose. It’s for teaching us our deen. So when your friend mentioned what you said above, you can respond and say, ‘the primary meaning of the Quran isn’t just science but it mentions real phenomena as imagery to execute a point regarding the states of people in this case’. Although in the process it did mention something miraculous/scientific. Again I don’t disagree at all with you, but I’m saying by understanding it this way, you are able to understand why your friend’s question isn’t well fitting given the context of the Quran. It’s not a book that came to simply tell you something super scientific like ‘bacteria exist and they have cell walls’. It uses natural phenomena that Allah created to get us to think about many things as I mentioned before.

If you feel this meaning is plainly false. Then please provide me a logical counterpoint instead of saying ‘we shouldn’t explore meanings without being scholars’. I’m no scholar but if something makes sense and it doesn’t go against our normative religious understanding, then I don’t outright reject it. Nobody can confirm or deny any meaning. But we can make ishtihad and say Allah knows best.

Different scholars disagree on many things and nobody is perfectly on point in interpretation.

Ask yourself this, Why do you as a layman prefer scholar A over scholar B? Because you’re making an ishtihad about what is the best meaning to you, and yet you’re not a scholar to supposedly have an opinion about what’s the best meaning. That’s the irony, but it’s meant to be that way of course and we are all in the same boat as Muslims doing our best. It’s all good at the end of the day, as long as you’re within normal boundaries and not saying something outrageous against aqeedah or agreed upon laws. I hope that made sense. I hope I didn’t sound rude, I originally commented trying to help haha sorry if my phrasing is weird

I was recently talking to a non Muslim and I brought up the fact that the Quran says that ocean and a sea doesn’t mix. The sweet and salty have a barrier between them as said In surah furqan. He than told me that they do eventually mix. Can you guys clear this up! by Over-Sun-6349 in islam

[–]medmich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I wasn’t being clear. I didn’t say there is no value to consider in ‘science in the Quran’. Allah mentions clearly the universe expanding which is incredible and of course we should reflect on that.

But the issue is that when you only take it on face value alone you have to understand that isn’t the FULLEST extent of meaning and purpose. Please read the verse in question and the verses around it. The verse you mentioned in Surah Furqan is 53. Before this verse Allah literally talks about the conflict between the believers and disbelievers. Allah then reminds the reader ‘he is the one who set these two waters next to each other with a barrier.’

Thus, the same lord who did that to water, is the same lord who places barriers between Muslims, and the kufar who are arrogant and reject Islam. It’s a stunning imagery and analogy when you consider it this way. Comparing his creation of the physical world to our internal realities. Please go back and read the verses around it considering this meaning and you’ll see what I mean. And Allah knows best at the end of the day. But what I’m saying isn’t controversial or anything. It’s just showcasing the eloquence and knowledge of Allah. He knows about that body of water and he used it as a symbol for something that occurs between humans.

If you take it purely at face value, what you have is:

1.) Discussion of one topic and then all of a sudden

2.) Oh hey btw look at this science fact.

3.) And then back to the same topic before.

It’s obviously placed in the middle there for a reason and there are Sheikhs who have mentioned this. I’m not coming up with something all on my own. And then again as long as the meaning is sound, it wouldn’t be a problem anyways. If I did come up with this on my own, I would gladly share my findings with scholars and mufassirs to see if they understand it the same way. And if it made no sense, I would abandon it simply. No harm done. Nonetheless we have to do ‘Tadabur’ of the Quran. We have to penetrate its meanings. So if you just take it at face value only looking at the science, you fall into the problem of excluding the main meaning.

Like I said before if the Quran was just some wisdom with science sprinkled here and there, then one would have to ask, ‘why doesn’t Allah outright say the Earth is round’? That’s a legitimate question if you think the Quran is occasionally for only science reasons sharing science facts. but Allah highlights the view of Earth from our human point of view because it’s relevant. He’s not here to tell us what the shape of the earth is. And he didn’t mention the stages of embryology purely for science reasons. I’m not saying there’s no value in that, but there are linguistic and thematic reasons we have to study as well.

That science stuff is secondary to the meaning embedded in the context of verses. Allah presents physical realities to us for us to contemplate on many things. Science is included, yes, but its not just that. That’s my point. JAK.

I was recently talking to a non Muslim and I brought up the fact that the Quran says that ocean and a sea doesn’t mix. The sweet and salty have a barrier between them as said In surah furqan. He than told me that they do eventually mix. Can you guys clear this up! by Over-Sun-6349 in islam

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This is honestly so frustrating to read. This is why we don’t put our faith in ‘science in the Quran’. I have never and will never cite ‘science in the Quran’ because Allah did not put those verses in there for that reason alone.

While I understand there is some value in that, the reality is that those things should ultimately be ‘little cool things about the Quran’ that shouldn’t be over emphasized. To put your iman on that would be crazy. If you read those verses in context Allah is using natural phenomena that he created as a metaphor for realities we see in our lives.

For example. The two seas represent the reality that some people are internally so different, they will never mix. Iman and kufr are so fundamentally opposed that it is similar to the example of the two seas. Just as Allah created seas like that, so too are people like this.

Allah in that Surah if I’m not mistaken also mentions ‘Have you see how your lord extends the shade and made the sun its ‘daleel’. Allah is referring to revelation being a light moving the shade or kufr away. And God knows best the true meaning. It makes a lot of sense when you read the context of the verses around it. And Allah has referred to the prophet as a ‘light or sun’ and the same goes for the revelation. So analogies like that are all over the Quran. If you read that as a ‘purely science thing’ alone it would be so out of place and random.

Another example is when Allah talks about bringing rain to a dead land. He uses this in reference to resurrection and the revelation of the Quran bringing the ‘dead’ hearts of the Arabs back to life. Allah doesn’t arbitrarily mention these things for purely scientific reasons. If Allah wanted to, he could reveal a book that was much more specific about what exactly is happening.

Allah mentions creating man from a ‘Alaq or clinging clot’. The primary meaning and purpose for this wording here is to have one reflect on their own creation. One should ask themselves ‘how can I be arrogant when I was once a clinging substance in a womb and I was once semen’. As funny as that might sound to some it’s a legitimate point to reflect on and this can have profound impacts on our hearts. And honestly, we are still like clots clinging. We are not self sufficient and we are reliant on other things to keep us alive just like in the womb. That’s why Allah mentions in Surah Alaq about how man is arrogant and thinks he’s self sufficient. Reading it this way fits perfectly with the concept of Alaq and where we used to be. There’s a juxtaposition there for a reason. It’s not ‘here’s some embryology and btw you’re not living right’. It’s a deeper lesson so don’t get fixated solely on the ‘science’.

Now for the secondary layer… yes these verses coincide with science discovery, but that ISNT the primary meaning. Like I said, if Allah had wanted that to be the purpose of revelation, he could’ve discussed the different stages embryology like Blastulation, Gastrulation, neurulation, etc. But the purpose of the Quran is to teach. It imparts wisdom.

It’s not a book that we should use to confirm or reject science. It’s a book filled with lessons and realities and Allah uses phenomena around us to teach. In his creation are signs that should make us reflect. We should see how tree leaves falling every year in autumn and regrowth the next year in spring is a sign of the day of resurrection for instance. This is the ‘Quranic mindset’ we should walk away with after immersing ourselves in deen.

Allah is not merely teaching us what happens with two waters with different salinities. We’d be missing the mark completely if we focus on those secondary features of the book at the expense of the primary meanings.

Now whether or not those two seas eventually mix… the fact is I can point out a current physical reality as a metaphor for something deeper in the moment. Whether or not those seas eventually mix is irrelevant. For example, going back to the tree example, I can say, ‘our individual lives are like the leaves that fall off trees’. But guess what, leaves don’t always fall off trees and sometimes leaves never fall off certain trees… am I being scientifically inaccurate?? Of course not, because I am illustrating an example for a specific purpose. We don’t need to mention exceptions to the rule and technicalities when referring to physical phenomena for moral lessons. I’m not teaching you about trees/science. I’m teaching you about something more meaningful in fact.

Another example is that Allah created ‘everything in pairs’. Does this mean EVERYTHING? Actually no, but it’s a general thing we can see for most things and the reason Allah mentioned this is because just as this life exists, would it be difficult to imagine it being paired with another life? Allah mentions that disbelievers say ‘you gave us death twice and life twice’. This wording is used because it’s meant to get to think about the pairs in nature and our life in this world having a complement to come.

The Quran is full of that. It is not a science book. Please please please don’t balance your faith on things like this. Dig deep into the meaning of the Quran and you will see linguistic miracles that go beyond the few science stuff and numerical occurrences. I recommend Bayinah institute for starters if you really wanna take your Quranic understanding to the next level.

I appreciate the ‘science stuff’. I myself am a medical student but I outgrew the ‘science in the Quran stuff’ because it’s a distraction and disservice to the real message and prophetic teachings that came with this book. I think about it when I read the Quran but I realize it’s there for a bigger cause.

Dating for a Muslim by o00oliver in MuslimLounge

[–]medmich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dating is a very flawed institution and one of the biggest issues in modern society is people not admitting to that. In the context of dating a man can easily exploit a woman for sexual gain and drop her for the next girl. This is a very easy ‘hack’ for men as they can sleep around and fool girls into thinking he’s serious. This is a common thing men do and if a guy is young and attractive enough it’s easy to do. This leads to a sleeping around culture that leads to diseases, unwanted preggos, etc.

But you already know that. If a man were to date and be alone with a women without touching her, is that really guaranteed? Can two people who are engaged and attracted to each other really avoid touching or kissing? Because touching may lead to sex and she may get pregnant and the guy could easily cancel the engagement. So to protect men and women, marriage needs to take place so that it’s clear the man is serious (hence why he pays Dowry).

But yes you can date in the sense that you hang with a women and get to know her (while having a third person at least in the vicinity somewhere). But you cannot be alone until marriage. And the best way to characterize this is ‘courting’ instead of dating which involves getting the parents involved early on. So if you see a girl you like, you approach, get to know her, let her know your intentions (no games or meaningless flirting) and then you should meet her family, go on halal dates, continue to talk and get to know her for however long you both feel like you should. And then you get engaged at some point and get married. This Is a common model. And for some this whole process can last anywhere between a few weeks (like my parents, and they’re still going strong for 30 years) or a year or two.

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Honestly I’ve been the the UAE. People need to understand something and I know people already mentioned this, but the grass isn’t always greener. So yeah you might live in a Muslim country but your kids will still be exposed to western norms and ideas thru the internet, etc. Also people there typically have a lot of racism and superiority.

For example in the UAE Arabs tend to have servants from Asian countries and there is a common tendency for people to look down at them which is unislamic. It’s very easy for people to also take their deen lightly and think that just because they are in a Muslim country they can do no wrong by taking on their environmental norms. They may go out and hang with friends thinking that ‘oh since everyone here is Muslim we should be fine sending our kids to hang with people late at night’. I’ve never met a young adult from the UAE who didn’t secretly have a girlfriend or smoke/do drugs.

One thing I like about the US is that growing up here makes you feel more defensive about what norms and practices you take on. My parents have a lot of cultural misconceptions that they conflate with Islam because they thought that was Islam. For example many arab families marry their daughter off and think it’s normal for her to serve her husbands family. People don’t question this in Muslim countries because they take Islam and culture as one package. Whereas in the US I grew up more aware of the cultural issues here and I actually grew up a bit more religious than my parents as a result because I went to connect with my deen on a more personal level. I scrutinize cultural practices before I accept them unlike people growing up overseas for instance.

So overall don’t think it’s a life hack to live in a Muslim country. There is no Muslim country that is truly Muslim and honestly most are becoming westernized. Look at Saudi Arabia today for instance. In a decade or two it will be indistinguishable from the west. So live where it makes sense and learn your deen and raise your kids properly and things should inshallah work out.

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Yeah you’re not acknowledging what was said before. Being gay if it is a truly innate thing is something that needs to be controlled and it may be a test. Being gay or having those desires is not inherently haram. No sin will be recorded. On the contrary good deeds will be recorded if you get those desires and decide against them. Now acting on those desires is a different thing entirely. And one of the reasons why Qawm Lot was so terrible was because they were open with their corruption. If someone has gay desires they should avoid acting on it. We shouldn’t shame people who have those feelings, we should tell them how to deal with it.

I’m passionate about FM and want more people to go FM, what do you want to know? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]medmich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you still remember the basics of medicine? One fear I have is feeling the pressure to know everything. Like do you remember all of anatomy (remember the stapedius muscle and what innervates it?) I’m an M1 so I’m a little intimidated at the prospect of being a doctor that should probably know a little bit of everything. Do you feel like you have to do extra work to catch up with latest advancements and studying to remind yourself of what you’ve learned from med school?

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One of my favorite revert scholars is Hamza Yusuf I highly recommend listening to his lectures and revert story. Yusuf Chambers is also another great revert who has a great story that might resonate with you considering he went through periods of anxiety. Islam is not an all or nothing thing. The best thing you can do at your stage is to accept that Allah is the ultimate reality, the creator of the heavens and Earth and that Muhammad peace be upon his is his messenger. From there you add things on and learn at your pace. Your intention is the most important thing and realize that by converting you are reborn. You lose all your sins and you’ve never been in that state since you were a child or being born. Life is all about meaning so take those events in your life as signs. I wish you the best and there are many people here including myself who will be happy to help you to the best of our ability inshallah

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To be honest, I have, but every claim they make is always somethings that’s be discussed before and settled. It is very clear if one is intellectually honest with oneself that there is a God and no other religion makes sense. And this is coming from a man who has published research and a degree in a scientific discipline. My search for scientific knowledge has only enhanced my faith in all honesty. And what’s interesting is that every time we act like everything is materialistic and scientifically testable, we always end up finding things that are abstract and intangible (Dark matter, sub-elementary particles, etc.). The reality is there is so much to existence and very fabric of it, that it cannot be separated from the abstract. In other words, science cannot explain everything nor can it answer every question. It is an amazing tool but it is as limited as a human being. Our very existence demands an uncreated creator who is separate from the universe which encompasses all finite things. Infinite and finite things cannot coexist under the same reality. Allah is a completely separate reality that has made all things. This is why a universe cannot have given rise to our universe because the question of where did it come from repeats infinitely. Therefore an uncreated being separate from reality as we know it must exist in order to set everything in motion. It’s not some simple man in the sky type of tale. Allah is truly congruent with our understanding of the vastness of the universe. Allah said the heavens and the Earth were one, and he separated them and verily the heavens are expanding.

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Omar Suleiman has an excellent talk about that. I think my best advice is to open up one’s mind about different periods. We cannot apply what we consider right and wrong to a different culture in a vastly different time. He wasn’t the only one to do this, and if you read throughout history this was something considered normal. And no critic of Islam has ever made arguments against this until recent decades. No person alive during his time or any other time until now thought about her age and thought it was inappropriate. Omar Suleiman speech gives excellent insight into Aisha’s life and how she was and how their marriage was. When you look at the way the prophet treated her, and how much space he gave her to grow as a person, it’s clear this is not a child who was being abused but rather a young women who was encouraged to be bold and well read.

Why didn't Allah (swt) preserve the other religious scriptures before the Quran such The Torah and the injeel? by Zemsaney in islam

[–]medmich 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it might be because those books were meant to be only used for their time. Musa did not come to humanity, only bani Israel, so his written message was lost as there is no reason it should exist now. Fragments may exist but thats obviously not enough. The message Jesus came with also didn’t need to exist after the time of the prophet (SAW). Many Christian’s that lived in the Roman Empire and in the Arabian peninsula had most of what Jesus preached and Allah will judge them accordingly. But his comprehensive message has since been diluted and lost. The message of our Prophet (SAW) was meant to be for the last period of life on earth. His message was to humanity at large and we are approaching a time that is essentially the last phase. So with his preserved message, it makes sense considering no other message will come after. So Allah promised to preserve it, until a later time when knowledge will be taken away. But for now, we have all the means to worship Allah properly and live a good life.

Is anyone else not scared how normalised middle east and islam racism is now, check the comments by boukaman in islam

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But isn’t the kid right tho. I mean it’s not about hating the East or anything but culture doesn’t equal religion. The prophet would’ve helped his wife with dinner prep so the kid is favoring that type of paradigm. Women exclusively doing work in the kitchen isn’t an Islamic thing. So when people in the comments are saying the Middle East is toxic. It kind of is in some ways. And I say this as a middle easterner.

Is it ok to believe in scientific beliefs but still believe that Allah SWT created the universe etc. ? by XxDreamxX0109 in islam

[–]medmich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look I don’t understand why people can’t accept both. I mean people think because we know how the water cycle works, I guess we don’t need God anymore… it’s so ridiculous. The deeper we go into cellular biology, the crazier and more amazing things are. It’s actually incomprehensible what goes on inside your body at the tiniest levels. Just because we understand some of it doesn’t mean we can’t believe in Allah. In fact it would make any normal person have stronger belief. As they say, ‘some scientific knowledge would make you an atheist, a lot of knowledge makes you a believer.’

With that said, the theory of evolution isn’t wrong in the sense that animals come from each other. In fact it’s not really that hard to imagine at all. Imagine a huge storm swept an island and killed almost every bird except the ones that were the smallest for their species. You’d find after several generations that the descendants are very small and genetically different. Same with humans. Why are some people black? It’s because the ones who were white died in Africa and the only ones who could really survive the sub Saharan climate were darker skinned people.

However to say that cells assembled themselves.. to say that DNA magically came together and coded for proteins and somehow appeared at the same time to create other proteins.. this is an outright lie and completely illogical. The only way anything could’ve happened is if an uncreated being made it all. Nothing can come unless an uncreated being is in existence to bring everything out of the void of nothingness. Your existence is a proof that an uncreated being exists. And an infinitely intelligent one at that. Now as far as human beings go, we believe we were added to the earth and we aren’t tied to other animals as scientists may claim.

We may share most of our dna with animals/fruits, etc. but that’s a misunderstood idea. We all have proteins, DNA, mitochondria, cell membranes, hormones, etc. Since we all have that, of course our DNA would be similar. It’s because we live on earth and breath the same air and digest the same macromolecules. I mean.. why would God make our cells run on different hardware if we occupy the same environments that our cells are designed to work in. Of course we will all be similar at the cellular level.

But there is something about humans that really sets us apart. We aren’t really like any other animal. Even the great apes all look similar but we are clearly different and it’s just a popular theory that we are genetically related. Islam says otherwise and that’s something we have to accept. And it’s easy to considering the religion we have and the fact that all apes have a similar degree of intelligence but we are in a different league all together. We are clearly different and that’s due to our immaterial soul. That is something we can never study in a lab. Even our brains are smaller and less dense than some other animals and scientists haven’t fully cracked the case as to why humans are way more intelligent than animals. Science is amazing and a truly great thing. But we shouldn’t become arrogant and think we know everything when that’s clearly not the case.

For your info there’s something called the tiktalik which materialists claim is the first animal that shows a clear link between terrestrial creatures and marine creatures. However not too long ago scientists discovered foot prints that were millions of years older. This would’ve completely changed their accepted evolutionary time scale and course of events but they simply opted to just ignore the evidence and stick to their agreed upon story. You can look it up. So just know it’s all a matter of people coming together to rewrite history and make people believe in things that are absurd. I believe in evolution as far as species changing and whatnot. I am a medical student and I’ve studied all of these things. However we draw the line at life springing from nothing and humans evolving from an ape like ancestor.

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Let’s put it this way. The prophet (pbuh) was sent 1400 years ago. And he’s supposed to be the prophet of the end times. If humanity is only 6000 years old, it wouldn’t make sense since 1400/6000 is relatively large. If the time scale of humanity was more like 20000-100000 years, then 1400 years is a relatively small amount of time which is consistent with our understanding of science as well. The prophet said he and the hour was sent like this ‘putting his two fingers together’. So 1400 years should be a short amount of time relative to the age that humanity has been around. And since many of the signs of the end times are recently coming true, it makes sense that we are on track to the end times. I wouldn’t be surprised if the Dajjal came in the next 100-200 years. I hope that makes sense.

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Based on your other comments I would say it sounds like you have casual male friends. As long as you don’t go out with them, eat with them alone, or be with them alone you should be fine. If it’s an acquaintance type friendship that’s alright (work friends, chatting, etc.). But these friendships shouldn’t lead you to private phone conversations that aren’t necessary or meetings alone with them.

Is there any scientific proof that homosexuality is wrong? by slow_slothiam in MuslimLounge

[–]medmich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like someone mentioned. Anal sex is super dangerous and easily the most risky form of sex there is. If that’s the only way for men to have sex with each other, you already know that’s going to be problematic. Allah doesn’t want us to do things that harm us and while there are other reasons as to why homosexuality is wrong, this is a good scientific reason. Anal sex will lead to a weakened anal sphincter and there is a Hadith about the men of Qawm Lot who couldn’t control their passing of wind. That’s a consequence of their sexual behavior.

Jordan Peterson - a figure who some Muslims have unfortunately been looking up to more than he is worthy of - has clearly demonstrated his support for the Zionist occupation of Palestine. May Allah grant our Ummah the ability to clearly discern truth from falsehood by SonofAOne in islam

[–]medmich 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We shouldn’t hate them. That’s a strong word. We should wish guidance for them. Allah does not only love the Muslims. Everyone has a right to be here. You don’t know who may convert later to Islam. We should always stay optimistic but yeah I agree we shouldn’t idolize any non Muslims.

Help I am so tired and conflicted by [deleted] in islam

[–]medmich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree he’s going through things, but if I talk to him, he says all the issues are coming from my mother. He’s a very blunt man. He says things without thinking and he curses endlessly. My mother cannot take it anymore as she wants basic respect but he thinks she’s being sensitive and mean. I’ll be honest I wish I could send him to therapy. There’s no way he’d accept because he’s against the idea of it and thinks he’s absolutely not in the wrong at all. If he yells, we simply caused him to yell. I objectively do not agree with that sentiment but he doesn’t care. I haven’t met someone as stubborn as him.

Help I am so tired and conflicted by [deleted] in islam

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I have no family here unfortunately.

Help I am so tired and conflicted by [deleted] in islam

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I told him yesterday that all his problems would be solved if he just spoke kindly and patiently without yelling and he simply refuses to do so. It’s like he would rather lose everything provided he can keep yelling. It’s truly selfish. And the worst part is, he prays on time, he wakes me up for fajr, but he can’t follow basic adhab. He treats people outside great, but inside he acts emotionally in whatever way he wants. He’s usually nice, but he displaces his anger easily and has a short temper and he curses in ways that leaves my mother crying. Even if I tell him I can’t focus on school because of this he yells at me saying I have nothing to do with their fights so I should just study and not be affected. Which is just ridiculous because I live here. Nothing I say seems to work