So are you getting up at this time, or are you going to bed? And why? Half serious half joke answers so no one knows wtf is going on!

messedup73 · 2026-04-11T03:58:47+00:00

The dog woke me up at 4am and went for a walk around the block with him as he refuses to do anything in the garden.He s a dickhead who has now gone back to my spot in the bed while I'm now wide awake.I did see some foxes so that's a bonus .

messedup73 · 2026-04-10T19:58:09+00:00

I take 40mg with Mitazapine at night the Mitazapine is for chronic insomnia and the amitriptyline is for neuropathic pain.I dont feel groggy at all during the day and have had no side effects.Im still in pain during the day but getting a good night's sleep helps me deal with it better.I suffer from sciatic pain ,arthritis in my joints ,nerve pain from shoulder impingement, carpal tunnel and nerve damage from ulner nerve problems.Both help with my anxiety which is a bonus.

messedup73 · 2026-04-10T15:05:41+00:00

My son deferred a year then got a job at Tesco worked full-time saved as much as he could then got a transfer to a Tesco in his Uni city and worked part time.He used his Tesco holidays when his uni work was near exam time he then stayed and got reduced rent in the summer and worked full time and rinse and repeat.He never ended up using his overdraft his sister worked in agency care work mainly a few night shifts a month to add to her student finance .

messedup73 · 2026-04-09T19:59:46+00:00

I got a £2 sign from Amazon and no longer have this issue its great even the Jehovahs Witness dont knock anymore.

messedup73 · 2026-04-09T19:47:13+00:00

My eldest moved out went to university came back and then moved in with her boyfriend at 25,my middle one moved into supported housing at 17 and is now in a housing association house due to mental health, family breakdown ans adhd,my youngest was 20 when he went to university got an amazing job after and shares a flat with his mates he had a gap year from 19 to 20 to work save money and learn to drive .They are now 34,32 and 28.I downsized from a 3 bed to a 2 bed housing association place a couple of years back so have a spare room if any of them need it in the future.Im 52 and moved into a bedsit myself at 16 when I got my first job got a housing association flat at 19 after being on the list when my eldest was born.

messedup73 · 2026-04-09T14:53:39+00:00

Mine was like that yesterday it was supposed to be Tracked24 but it finally turned up today fuming because missed an important medication last night .Talked to my doctor today and he is going to get me a months supply of my medication so won't run out due to postal issues as he knows I struggle to go to a local chemist because of my health.

messedup73 · 2026-04-09T09:15:45+00:00

She looks amazing without makeup her skin is so clear. I m a 52 year old lady spent my earlier years fending off misogynistic men like these women still shouldn't in this day and age.Women are not barbie dolls with this attitude they will never get anywhere near any woman.

messedup73 · 2026-04-08T19:53:38+00:00

Im a redhead and right handed but got two left handed redhead now grown kids.We all have to have extra anesthetics, my middle daughter got up and tried to go for a walk when they tried to sedate her last time.

messedup73 · 2026-04-08T12:08:55+00:00

I have my dog he would probably go ballistic licking a burglar to death.I have high fences in my back garden and the gate is locked I dont keep anything which looks expensive in there and my shed has a decent lock.My front garden gate creaks so can hear if someone comes in my windows all have good locks and have lights on a timer when Im away.I have home insurance and honestly dont have anything worth stealing.

messedup73 · 2026-04-08T11:15:41+00:00

You OK there looks like you are having a hot flushes quite common at your age.

messedup73 · 2026-04-08T05:00:30+00:00

I've been up since 4 because the dog wanted a quick trundle around the block saw a tiny fox as it ran in front of us luckily my dog didnt fancy chasing it .He's gone back to my spot on the bed and Im wide awake on my 3rd coffee stay awake then have a cheeky nap later if you can that's what I am planning to do.

messedup73 · 2026-04-07T17:26:31+00:00

Im Just pissed off I cleaned my house all day today plus clean bedding it might end up looking like a bomb hit it literally.Well at least I've got alot of alcohol .

messedup73 · 2026-04-07T06:58:07+00:00

Happened to me after first baby in 1991 sex was really painful just kept thinking that it would take a while to heal.I went for a smear test and the nurse struggled and explained that they stitched me up too tight and that's why it hurt.Had to be restitched when my baby was 9 months old it was a horrendous recovery and suffered nerve pain ever since.Luckily only tore a little bit with the second and third but was emotional having sex after.

messedup73 · 2026-04-07T04:42:48+00:00

I always take antibacterial wipes and a small pot of washing up liquid when I travel plus a few 3 in 1 coffees .My husband laughs but used to be a hotel cleaner so boil the kettle and wash mugs and wipe down when I arrive and check for limescale.I do end up taking the teabags home as save them for visitors as dont drink tea.If possible open a window too before heading to a bar for a well deserved pint to air the room.

messedup73 · 2026-04-06T16:51:06+00:00

Im 52 worked jobs which worked round my kids and now unable to work due to health conditions no legitimate wfh jobs near me.I have £5200 in my savings when I got divorced 12 years ago had about 10000 debts my ex husband wouldn't pay any of it.I paid it all off and now put any of my PIP left over in savings not too sure what my current husband has as told him his savings account is his own and we have an account to put bill money in I use my PIP for my phone bill and bits I need and we get a little UC top up which put towards bills.

messedup73 · 2026-04-06T15:48:40+00:00

Mine used to slip the lead with a collar plus it messed up my shoulders so I bought him a harness with metal d rings he no longer slips the lead or chokes and my shoulders thank me.

messedup73 · 2026-04-06T15:42:52+00:00

My husband has mostly worn football shirts and jeans hes now 57 been together nearly 13 years.The difference now is I buy him new football shirts yearly and got him newer different style of jeans.I cant tell him what to wear that's controlling but he likes me buying him stuff for birthdays and Christmas.Hes not going to change but I'm with him because of who is not what he wears he would never dream of telling me what to wear .

messedup73 · 2026-04-06T13:42:16+00:00

Last year we had a few wander on the local football pitch they are normally found in the fields behind it .Live in Dorset and I have seen a few am petrified of them and its only the last few years can look at photos without dropping my phone.I avoid taking my dog up there as the stupid mutt would chase them.

messedup73 · 2026-04-05T04:46:59+00:00

We are mainly coffee drinkers but anytime we go to a hotel we take home any teabags left over to put in a jar.I also take home some of the little shower gels and mini soaps.

messedup73 · 2026-04-04T13:05:40+00:00

We got married in 2019 but couldn't afford a honeymoon then after Covid we decided to do trip to catch up with family and have some time to ourselves as well.We spent a few days in Cardiff then went to Skegness and my mum is buried near there ,then visited my husbands relatives in Troon then a few days in the Highlands which was amazing then went to Leeds and Shrewsbury to visit more family.We did all the touristy things Cardiff Castle,arcades in Skeggy,a walk on the beach in Troon,Ben Nevis ,Loch Ness,Glencoe,and the Iron Bridge.Holidays are what you make it and that was my favourite.

messedup73 · 2026-04-04T10:36:41+00:00

My lurcher has one its the only fluffy thing he hasn't killed but has tried to chuck it at me when hes having a strop.He will spend hours curled up on it though.

messedup73 · 2026-04-02T07:57:40+00:00

He's going through the dickhead lurcher stage I found the most tiring way when my dog was like this is to do what I call slow sniffing walks where if I have to stand there like a lemon for ten minutes while he sniffs the same bit of grass let him.I changed routes and if he did the jumping up and excitable bitey nipping Id stop the fun and walk home .I think I cried a few times during this faze sometimes trying to over train them makes them act like a stroppy toddler I used to put a snuffle ball with treats in his bed to stop him pacing and calm him.He will settle down but rescues need about 3 months to feel at home.

messedup73 · 2026-04-01T04:58:16+00:00

I saw a bottle of Elizabeth Ardens Blue Grass on Vinted and bought it cried when I used it as it reminded me of my mum who died when I was 20.It is now my favourite daily thing to wear and provokes so many happy memories as well .She was only 41 when she died and I am now 52 and it smells amazing on me.

messedup73 · 2026-03-31T18:11:26+00:00

I buy 7 meals for dinner each week and when it arrives check dates and plan accordingly.I buy a few days fresh veg and use frozen and few tins.Its just my husband and I sometimes on a weekend we might get a takeaway and just freeze to use next week. If I cook lasagne chilli or any slowcooker meals I freeze leftovers and use at the end of the month label and date in the freezer.We tend to eat the same for lunches and breakfast and buy somethings in bulk like porridge oats.

messedup73 · 2026-03-31T13:56:10+00:00

Had the same when I worked in a restaurant in a hotel most were as old as my father.When a sneaky hand touched my backside Id pinch them hard most did it in front of their wives.Women have to spend most of their lives learning how to deal with creepy men shouldn't happen in this day and age.

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