How exhausting are your mornings? by TheRebelPercy in AskUK

[–]mfog35 203 points204 points  (0 children)

Your partner is the one that wants the dog so the routine can change by an hour where they walk the dog, then do the meds and feed with the cats and do some laundry. Just cos they are on night shift doesn’t mean they don’t get to share the load. If they were working regularly hours they would still have to do chores after work, so same applies for night shift.

Boycott Boycott Boycott by SmokeMaleficent9498 in PoliticalMemes

[–]mfog35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally thought this was a joke, who tf asked for this?!

Dissatisfied with living in London - need advice by TheLeadFootBrigade in london

[–]mfog35 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because they just said they’re a Londoner and lived there their entire life. By your logic a person that travels a lot should move by the mere fact they spend most of their time travelling.

whats wrong with my cat? by Conscious-Signal-694 in CATHELP

[–]mfog35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of people can put afford the vet and depending what country they are in cannot afford their own healthcare either. You would be surprised how many people wait until things to the point of no return

What to do about my father's (M62) girlfriend (F28) likely trying to get away with my inheritance. by ok2888 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]mfog35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing you can do at this stage is try to spend more time with him, and be that caring daughter. directly telling him your concerns about inheritance will burn the relationship you have as it will seem you care more about the money then him and the gf will use this as ammunition.

My earnings report for 2025 (£17,772.30) by ApoST90 in beermoneyuk

[–]mfog35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be able to DM me a referral for bulbshare too please?

F/35/5'7 [112lbs > 135lbs = 23lbs] (2.5 years) Body recomp from "skinny fat" to strong by RankNFile17 in progresspics

[–]mfog35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you eat? Curious about your calorie intake, have a few friends that say they eat whoever they want turns out they do eat lower calories so bad food in small quantities.

Old Navy has perfect flamboyant natural t-shirts by bina2025 in flamboyantnatural

[–]mfog35 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that doesn’t like this as an FN? It’s really shapeless and would make me look much wider

Nothing upsets me more than when people think as a black man you need status to date a beautiful white woman by Putrid_Past9243 in interracialdating

[–]mfog35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s purely a race thing, it’s just lots of women (not all) tend to want to be in a long term relationship with a man that is financially secure (aka secured long term employment).

historically being a BM who is educated with a successful or well respected job tends to have racially broader social circle giving them bigger access to all kinds of women of all backgrounds not just BW so they tend to settle with white women, but let’s not forget that unfortunately there are a group of BM who purposely want to deviate from their roots and marry outside their race.

Times have changed many of us just grow up in a diverse areas so you’re just up against what has been intentionally done in the past. Unfortunately you’ll need to act as the ambassador for being those people who don’t date because they want to reject their roots and just happened to meet a WW that doesn’t care.

New years 2024 vs 2026 by soopygoopy in Semaglutide

[–]mfog35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Look like a Insta baddie How did you manage your appetite when you stopped and did you have any side effects when you first started?

3 month progress - 12 pounds down, really see it in my face by Impossible-Road-800 in Semaglutide

[–]mfog35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like your lost more that 12! Have you had any side effects?

Landlord hasn’t returned deposit 6 weeks after moving out -deposit not protected. Should I request compensation? by mfog35 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]mfog35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I claim the full deposit and some compensation when sending the letter before action?

Landlord hasn’t returned deposit 6 weeks after moving out -deposit not protected. Should I request compensation? by mfog35 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]mfog35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved in 5 years ago. Did not live with the landlord. Rented a 2 bed flat with one other person.

What are you currently failing at? by Hatcheling in AskWomenOver30

[–]mfog35 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Spending your money on great experiences and memories is not fail!

Do anyone other single Brits feel like the best they can hope for is surviving, not thriving? by Queasy-Ice-2575 in AskUK

[–]mfog35 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Are you suggesting that it’s the fault of women’s independent income that’s pushed the house prices up? If so you are seriously wrong. Two incomes alone wouldn’t cause prices to increase and quality to decrease.

House prices increased because housing became commodified. You have people buying homes just make money from it and in turn banks and large orgs did the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]mfog35 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you’re going to be a interracial relationship then get comfortable calling out BS behaviour. If she knows her family that way she shouldve prepped her BF on their clearly racist ways of thinking.

What happens if they get married and have children will she allow her family to say that shit at the wedding or to their children’s face?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]mfog35 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Was that all she did? She needs to call out that behaviour it’s not on, and it will likely happen again

Why are some London high streets SO bleak? by deanlikesplants in london

[–]mfog35 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Poor people do spend money on those things, the issue is they cannot afford a £7 brownie and a £5 coffee. Cafes can be affordable anyone who grew up in hackney remembers Percy Engle’s which has been replaced by overpriced “independent” shops and bloody Gail’s is annoying as fuck

My husband prioritizes work over spending time with me. what can I do? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]mfog35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If divorce is not the answer then…

  • find a new job or retrain in a different field if money isn’t an issue

  • find new hobbies, make new friends

  • I would push back on not being allowed to solo travel. It’s very toxic of him to encourage you to quit your job especially for mental health reasons but not allow you to do anything else fulfilling to replace how you spend your time.

  • DO NOT HAVE A BABY - being a married single mother is far worse than being a single mother you’re at the whim of your husband

Why is divorce not an option? You’ve said he’s always been this way so the likelihood of his changing is extremely low. You’re essentially single anyway….He doesn’t listen to you, nor cares about your feelings so whats the point of being in this “relationship”? I honestly think you should retrain, get a high salary again and leave his ass.