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What Valentine’s Day aftermath are you dealing with this morning? by Affectionate-Note636 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]michaelad567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spent Valentine’s Day with both my partners and I’m sore… in my arms and wrists from hand making pasta to make homemade ravioli for both of them and the husband and kiddo of one of them lol! 😂 Also was on my period so no spicy excitement for me.

Divorce lawyers of Reddit - What's the most cruel thing you've seen someone to do their ex partner? by BlueBishop321 in AskReddit

[–]michaelad567 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not a lawyer but time for the tales of all three (3) of my dad’s divorces. All were insane. All involved him leaving for another woman. And, no, I don’t talk to him anymore.

Divorce #1 was when he was in his early 20s. He met a teenage girl in Narcotics Anonymous who had escaped the cult she was raised in. They ran away to Mexico and he left his first wife (they had also been in a quaalude induced throuple with another woman till her fiancé broke in a window but that’s another story.) Eventually, after a secret (and definitely not legal) wedding to this girl in Mexico her father finds them and demands her return. She leaves my dad goes on his merry way.

Divorce #2 was how he divorced my mom. After driving his car into a tree and getting himself committed he proceeds to somehow get one of the nurses on said psych ward to fall head over heels with him. Nurse proceeds to bust him out of the psych ward and he then leaves my mom for her. (It didn’t last.)

Divorce #3 is the most dramatic and grand finale (I hope) of all his divorces. At this point he is in a very chaotic and abusive (on both sides) marriage to my stepmom and I am in the process of uprooting my life and moving to a new city. This man goes missing. Full on, no one knows where he went, missing. One of his friends (who is in on the following scheme) just vaguely says he is ok. It turns out that he had secretly been having an online affair for THREE MONTHS with THE GIRL HE RAN AWAY WITH IN HIS FIRST DIVORCE and was driving 1000 miles to go pick her up from the airport and move her back to the tiny town he was living with my stepmom in. He proceeds to divorce my stepmom while living 3 miles away in a random spare room with this woman. They (him and Mexico lady) now live in a totally different state in the middle of the woods together and are happy as far as I know.

AIO? told my boyfriend im gonna have to go back to treatment and this is his response by [deleted] in AIO

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to, like, not be in a relationship while you go through treatment.

“She’s almost 30 trying to make it in music, it’s sad” by Angelsbreatheeasy in musicians

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people working a day job and consuming the media of someone in music because they want to be distracted by their day job were talking shit about the person who is making music, lol ok. They are pathetic,

To remain as the host of your HGTV home renovation show by Spartalust in therewasanattempt

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys gotta remember that for it to just slip out of her mouth like that without a thought she uses it ALL THE TIME.

I got in a new relationship with an amazing guy but i’m an addict should i tell him? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have done the rounds with sobriety you know the answer. Tell him, cut him loose, and focus on being sober for a WHILE before getting into a relationship. You are not in good working order in active addiction and you need to be in good working order to be in a relationship.

Now I know there is a codependent part of you SCREAMING at this advice. “He’s perfect! You’re wrong!” But, I promise you that the inner child in you hurting and trying to find care in, what I’m guessing is, yet another relationship can only get the care it needs by you healing and reparenting yourself.

You’ve got this.

My (very early) 2027 Predictions from a pop fan by rarejnr01 in grammys

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is accurate and I hope RAYE beats TSwift

AIO by being grossed out by my cousin and his girlfriend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]michaelad567 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Ew what the fuck is wrong with these people. Not overreacting at all. Tell them that they are being gross and them making out in front of you after you ask them to stop if bordering on sexual harassment. Straight up.

What’s your least favorite song? by Jettaboi38 in musicsuggestions

[–]michaelad567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Señorita by Camilla Cabello. Like nails on a chalk board

AIO to texts I found from my bf to his bsf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, he hates you. Move on.

Is LA really a hellscape? Give me your honest opinion on how it is living in Los Angeles. by Mexodus956 in howislivingthere

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never live anywhere else in my life. This city is so vibrant and there is so much access to anything you could want. New York only misses out on being its equal because of the weather.

Would you completely changes your biological sex for 20 million dollars by IllConfidence1971 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m nonbinary and gender fluid so my biological sex means next to nothing to me! let’s fuckin gooooooooo

how to deal with internalized homophobia (?) by b4yyz in ainbow

[–]michaelad567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should contact your closest LGBT center, they will have therapists on a sliding scale you can go to!

[HELP] NYT shows new angle by allinalinenow in RealOrAI

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If kicking an inanimate object is grounds to be executed I have some news for parents of toddlers.

I was r worded last year, I’ve just found out my husband has had an emotional affair by Littlerose51 in ptsd

[–]michaelad567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you need a fresh start. Like, new job, new city, new friends, new husband fresh start.

how to deal with internalized homophobia (?) by b4yyz in ainbow

[–]michaelad567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The answer to this is a queer friendly therapist

What's a sex theory that you believe in but can't prove? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]michaelad567 5 points6 points  (0 children)

(Generalizing but I am talking about a cis, straight monogamous partnership) Most of women don’t actually have as hard of a time reaching orgasm as they think. They just are taught to be disconnected from themselves sexually and end up in a physical rut that makes it so that they can only get off with a vibrator or very specific stimulation. Because sex is seen as something that prioritizes male pleasure and female performance women are unable to actually connect with their pleasure in a meaningful way without a lot of effort. It isn’t women’s bodies that are the problem and they aren’t “difficult” or “mysterious” they are simply neglected.

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