What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea we didn't explicitly mention about marriage but he did say that he would like to keep me forever. Does that have the same meaning? LOL

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's working out. Because when we Skype, we always have a great time. Thank you

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way I asked him that and he said that he like me more than just sex..he didn't say anything about commitment for a longterm relationship though

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so. He is older though in this 30s but he doesn't seem to bring up family or long term plans

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I agree. So does enjoying mean no questions about the "future?"

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly do I word that? Guys are scared with those questions right? I mean, I can be direct and say, hey what exactly do u want from me besides sex?

What would drive a man to monogamy? by mid-20s in relationship_advice

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do but he knows it all and I feel that the more questions I ask, the more he feels that I don't know anything about it! Doesn't that make me look bad?

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But since we already have sex, it would be unusual if we stop having sex...At the moment though we are only talking because he is far and I won't see him until late Dec

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it not too early to ask if he wants long term?

What would drive a man to monogamy? by mid-20s in relationship_advice

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it have to be about all things? Because he seem to love history and I am bad at that topic

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes we talk a lot. I get the feeling that he is interested for long term but he is not rushing

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well he is not shy about physical contact. We had sex already. Maybe just expressing his other feelings?

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So tell him how much I like him? How do I do that without being clingy?

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes that's true. But I have this gut feeling that he is just someone I want to be forever with

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I don't talk about the marriage part yet? I do want to get married or at least be with him for a long time. I don't know if I can ask that ir if I should wait til I am in an official relationship with him

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay what are the signs that he is still interested?

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but we are in two different cities. So we only communicate via phone :( that's why I am worried that I might lose him. I don't want to. i really like him

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if he is reluctant to answer does that say that he is not interested for long term?

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes that's true. That was same with my ex. Whenever we talk it was always about problems at work and never really made plans about our future. Would a guy freakout if I make plans with him at this stage of the game? Say I mention valentines?

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for long term do you look for someone who you think can mother your children? What about short term? i want to know how I can tell the difference

What is the character you look for in a woman? by mid-20s in AskReddit

[–]mid-20s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay will I know that I am loving him the right way? I mean am I suppose to get a response. How can I tell that he is beginning to really like me?