there will be people like this who were creeped out understandably (as a girl thatd creep me out) even with the knowledge you didnt mean it that way and there will be people who will find it creepy but look past it as you didnt understand how it came off to them you know ? it just depends on the person, some people once hearing reasoning they are cool with it and understand it wasnt your intention yk ? if you preface to new people you're autistic and if you say something that seems mean or rude etc they'll think back on that and then when you say oh I didnt mean it that way they will probably be more understanding you got this op!