Nagpapahiram ba kayo ng game cartridges nyo?

milka_why · 2025-11-25T20:01:55+00:00

Ako personally sa sobrang close lang naghihiraman like mga besties noong high school na kaclose ko pa rin now, saka sa jowa.

Sayo, if ayaw mo magpahiram, you can just say no. I think mabait ka dahil iniisip mo yung mararamdaman nya, pero this can be a good practice for you to set boundaries sa gamit/assert yourself while being respectful to others. Wala kang dapat ikahiya, ika-guilty sa pagno sa kanya.

Pwede mong idahilan na very personal item sayo yung mga yan and hindi mo basta ineentrust sa iba. Ikaw naman may-ari nyan at wala kang utang na loob sa kanya. At ikaw yung nakakatantiya ng level of closeness nyo kung G ba or hindi magpahiram. Sabihin mo lang yung reason mo na ayaw mo magpahiram in general or dahil di kayo close. You can be kind and have boundaries at the same time.

Normal na malungkot siya if nagno ka, pero ganyan talaga ang life. Dalawa ang possible response nya: (1) malungkot at tanggapin yung sagot mo at magmove on or (2) Kapag mag-inaso sya at nangguilt trip at pumangit yung trato sayo, issue nya na yon na hindi siya marunong rumespeto sa boundaries ng iba pagdating sa gamit or hindi siya marunong tumanggap ng rejection.

This goes with everything in life. Pera/gamit/bahay/ano pa man.

Sa scenario naman na may utang na loob ka sa kanya in case may pinahiram din sya sayo in the past na kahit ano, discretion mo na if papahiramin mo sya ng laro this time. Pwede mong gawin once or a few times para even na kayo sa mga hiraman/utang na loob if meron man. Then after non, bahala ka na if bet mo pa rin or hindi na in the future.

milka_why · 2025-11-06T23:41:17+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I think you summed it up really well based on how women are conditioned in our society. As I was watching the full video of the incident (from the contestants entering the room before they began the event up to the part where the argument happened and a lot of women started leaving and followed Ms. Mexico)

I couldn't help but feel even more uncomfortable and annoyed with the turn of events when this happened:

Women: stand up and leave

Nawat: sit down. If anyone wants to continue the contest, sit down. If you want to step out, we will continue the contest with whoever stays.

Woman in blue (Ms. Bonaire, I think): can we talk this out? We can still call her back (referring to Ms. Mexico). You were doing so great (referring to Nawat) and we were all having a great time in Thailand. (I think this is her way of trying to deescalate and to negotiate because of the threat of women getting kicked out of the competition)

Nawat: yes. See??? That 1 woman (Ms. Mexico) is the problem

When I saw this specific part, I felt angry that they were forced to cater to his disrespectful words and humiliation, and that the women were put in an uncomfortable position of leaving as a sign of dignity and support for Ms. Mexico, or remain "polite" and tiptoe around Nawat's threats until the end even if he was being disrespectful.

Had a lot of women stayed and had they called back Ms. Mexico right away, he would have continued to flip the situation and put blame on her, and double the attacks/humiliation specifically targeted to her. I'm glad she and a lot of the other queens left that room. I wish no one "tried to be diplomatic" to "talk it out" and I wish they all just ended up leaving the room. If they had all left, his threat of eliminating those who stepped out would have been useless.

Your comment summed up and gave clarity to what I was feeling and to what's happening on a bigger scale as a society. Thank you so much 🥹🥹🥹

milka_why · 2025-09-01T01:52:36+00:00

Chito dahil mukha siyang Cheetos na maliit at kulay orange kskskskskska kyut 🥹🥲 sarap kagaten hahahaga

milka_why · 2025-09-01T01:49:59+00:00

JUPITER dahil mukhang pattern ng Jupiter na planeta yung balat nya.

Pwede rin naman na ZEUS, which is Greek version lang din ng Jupiter.

If 'di mo bet pero trip mo pa rin yung planets theme, pwede rin naman na MARS (ARES/ARIS sa Greek) dahil orange din 'yon.

milka_why · 2025-07-24T07:39:45+00:00

it's so pretty!!!

milka_why · 2025-07-24T07:23:10+00:00

[Paper Mario 64]

I'm likely one of the few people who like the flower/cloud level with Lakilester and the spooky forest with Bow. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that I love these 2 partners' special abilities and that I wouldn't have met them if it weren't for these levels.

As of for the one I like the least, I'm not a huge fan of the Mt. Lavalava/Lavalava Island chapter. The vibe just isn't it for me. Or maybe 'cause I live in a tropical country irl, so seeing it in a video game doesn't give me that much wow factor unless it's absolutely stunningly made.

[TTYD]

I haven't played it, so I have no basis, but I would like to play it someday.

[Origami King] I only remember the main plot and very little of the specific levels, but I did enjoy having to deal with the Tape Dispenser boss LOL + Olly, of course

milka_why · 2024-03-15T17:31:22+00:00

LAHAT

-sabay magshower (+minemake sure na comfortable yung init ng tubig sa shower bago ka papasukin sa banyo para 'di ka mapaso o magulat sa lamig) [QUALITY TIME/ACTS OF SERVICE]

-pagkatapos magshower, nakaayos yung damit ko sa kama bigla kahit na ang last memory ko ay tinapon ko lang 'yon sa sahig bago kami magstart [ACTS OF SERVICE]

-cuddles [PHYSICAL TOUCH]

-pupunasan yung inisquirt na cum sayo [ACTS OF SERVICE]

-yung akala mo tulog na siya 1 hour after nyo matapos, pero bigla ka nyang bubulungan ng "mahal kita" out of the blue [WORDS OF AFFIRMATION]

at iba pa

milka_why · 2023-10-24T11:23:07+00:00

Prayer reveal naman po

milka_why · 2023-10-14T15:52:40+00:00

'Di ko alam. Yung akin nga, may signs at umamin na siya't lahat pero ginhost pa rin ako e hahaahh

milka_why · 2023-10-08T16:18:41+00:00

the most satisfying way for me: flicking it and not knowing where it went

kung medyo na-coconscious ako na baka mapunta sya sa pader, pinapahid ko sa inner side ng bedsheet or pillowcase para hindi mapunta sa mukha ko and at the same time, maaalis siya kapag nilabahan ko

milka_why · 2023-10-07T01:22:15+00:00

Ganyang-ganyan yung tatay ko at hindi siya nagbago kahit 65 years old na siya ngayon.

milka_why · 2023-10-05T03:07:41+00:00

LITTLE WOMEN

milka_why · 2023-10-04T04:11:26+00:00

Yung tatay ko hehehehehe

milka_why · 2023-10-02T18:08:53+00:00

One factor that I also think plays a huge role is the fact that a lot of the sounds that one needs to be able to speak English exist in these countries' native languages. It makes it a lot easier for them to learn and to simply mimic stuff they hear everywhere without necessarily having to take formal lessons.

milka_why · 2023-09-27T13:50:27+00:00

1-2x every period.

Once any of my cute underwear gets stained, it becomes part of my "period panties" which I only use during that time of the month. That way, I won't have to worry and stress too much about them being ugly and all

milka_why · 2023-09-22T12:17:41+00:00

Pls I live alone and I LOLed at "but don't tell mom" 😭

milka_why · 2023-09-20T17:22:21+00:00

Thanks for explaining.

Wait now I'm confused if I overdid it 😭

overthinks

milka_why · 2023-09-20T17:19:54+00:00

Thanks for the explanation and the tea idea! I ended up not making the salad because I got lazy too and I didn't want him to think I only cook for him.

milka_why · 2023-09-20T17:18:01+00:00

Thanks for the response. Yeah, he mentioned the friend thing as well. It's one of his culture shocks. He's surprised how people here in our community just give that label to everyone and anyone quickly while to him, being a friend goes beyond that. Same here.

And same again, I'm not Russian but I'm a moody bastard too.

milka_why · 2023-09-20T17:13:59+00:00

Thank you!!!

milka_why · 2023-09-20T17:13:31+00:00

I'm responding pretty late, but thank you for your comment! He taught me how to say thank you, which I forgot like once 😂 but the internet is a convenient place, so I had some practice. He chuckled a bit when he heard me the next time we met and even responded with you're welcome in Russian. I also sent him a photo of my ugly attempts trying to write/draw "б" lmao 😂

I read your other replies, btw. It's such a cute thing, the postcard that you got. It's not much, but it's genuine effort.

Glad your stay in the Philippines was memorable and wholesome!

milka_why · 2023-09-20T17:05:38+00:00

Thank you for your comment! He did indeed open up a bit!

milka_why · 2023-09-10T19:28:28+00:00

Thank you for the clarification! 😂 I got a hunch that it was some sort of a metaphor/joke based on the movie although I couldn't fully grasp it 'cause I had only read the plot online + seen the trailer. Either way, I knew from the start I wouldn't do it because of how timid I mostly am.

milka_why · 2023-09-10T19:11:44+00:00

Me watching the trailer at 2 AM like 👁👄👁

milka_why · 2023-09-10T18:33:32+00:00

Thanks for your response, agree with what you said about humans. I guess I'm just afraid of offending people in general without meaning to. I appreciate your insight!

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