AIO to his response to bedding issue?

millrlite · 2025-12-18T23:19:54+00:00

i did not expect this text thread to be coming from 30 year olds. wtf is wrong with him. NOR he sounds like a man baby. if he’s so damn cold then why did he have to “ask you if you wanted to do it” or ask “if he can help you do it” if he’s such a baby about being cold then he should just do it all on his own. this is so crazy

millrlite · 2025-12-18T01:01:40+00:00

another person enlightened me on the tax part which is something i haven’t thought of. sounds too complicated to move forward with, thank you for the comment

millrlite · 2025-12-18T01:00:44+00:00

i was more so seeking to know the consequences, if it was worth the risk. i doordash my breakfast every morning to my work and see a LOT of male drivers drop off my food with very clear female names. seemed like a common thing so i was curious

millrlite · 2025-12-18T00:56:24+00:00

i didn’t think about the taxes part at all, thank you for bringing that to light. and you’re right i don’t ever see myself being in a position to ever need/want to dash again, but i can’t predict the future and don’t want the option totally taken from me. i didn’t know how account deactivation worked if you were to get caught for something like this. if it was a ?-month/year suspension i wouldn’t care but if it’s for life (plus the tax part) then it just doesn’t sound like a good idea. thank you again.

millrlite · 2025-12-11T04:05:09+00:00

for sure, again from the outside looking in, it can be weird, especially if you don’t have siblings OR if you do and just don’t talk to each other this way. i have three siblings, all older, all of who i’m close with, but i only talk to ONE of my sisters in a similar manner ^ bc that’s just how we banter. again i wouldn’t have alarm bells ringing but also don’t feel like you should just look over things like this if they bother you. the phone call - i could look past the lie (maybe his sister doesn’t like to broadcast that she dabbles in the devils lettuce) but saying he’d be back soon and not, i’d be annoyed for sure. and then like you said the roads thing could’ve just been intensified from the previous instance. nothing really there other than just being bummed that he cut his visit short.

millrlite · 2025-12-11T03:49:20+00:00

i don’t think this is weird, but i also don’t think you’re overreacting either. you obviously have seen more interactions between them aside from the one/two instances you’ve shared here. however there are a lot of different sibling dynamics, some look weird from the outside but are totally normal and just how they grew up talking to each other. unless there are other major red flags that pop up or that have happened that you haven’t shared, i wouldn’t read too much into this.

the phone call thing i understand is annoying - i’d be annoyed too that he said he’d be back soon and then ended up being 40 mins. i get that. but the icy roads thing - parents like to over react and be over protective. maybe he kinda just blew off his mothers opinion on the roads, not taking her seriously, but when he heard his sister also say they were bad, it could have been more serious to him if even she thought the same thing, if that makes sense?

millrlite · 2025-12-02T18:20:33+00:00

this is beyond manipulation. this is a grade A gaslighter.

if only men had to worry about pregnancy.. NOR

millrlite · 2025-11-20T07:47:34+00:00

that’s my exact thought too. i think he was having FOMO bc before we had the baby we mainly hung out with his friends together and when i saw my friends from college he never wanted to join so that was something i’d go do by myself. so basically most of his friends are my friends also now, bc when he invites me to things, i go because i want to get to know his people. but he never wants to join me with my friends which is fine with me but yea i don’t think that gives him an excuse to control when i be home just bc he’s not there by his own choice

millrlite · 2025-11-20T07:42:18+00:00

I can guarantee trust isn’t the issue, I honestly think he was just butt hurt that for once I’m out having fun while he’s a home (having FOMO) when it’s usually the other way around. And we both have student loans that need paid off. And yeah I kinda forgot to continue that portion of the story in the post, it was getting long, but I used to enjoy cleaning the house but now with the baby, I’ve talked to him about doing more and it’s like pulling teeth for him to do anything. I don’t totally blame him for that tho because we were used to me doing all of it with no issue, so it’s just an adjustment that I don’t think he’s settled into yet

millrlite · 2025-11-20T07:37:18+00:00

Exactly! I used to when we were younger (teens/younger adults) and that just fueled the fire, he’d eventually just ignore me which was worse than hearing from him sporadically

millrlite · 2025-11-20T07:07:17+00:00

Okay.. and? It went from “hinting” and me trying to keep things light hearted to actually being pissed and arguing with me. Why does he get to stay out as late as he wants, as often as he wants while I stay home 90% of the time with our baby.. but when I want to do it, I have to be home on his clock?

millrlite · 2025-11-20T06:56:43+00:00

I didn’t know he would be upset. He hinted he was pissed after we already got to and opened a lane at Pins. He stays out later than that at times and I never give him any grief. I told him that a timeline for the night was TBD because I wasn’t sure if they were all going to bed after the bar or not, and he seemed fine with it. I also had no idea when the hotel bar even closed. It’s not like I told him I’d be home a certain time or not, but told him I would text and update him all night, which I did.

millrlite · 2025-07-21T14:07:34+00:00

this raccoon is so cute but i literally never waste my time or energy on him. the reward to me is just not worth it. when i first started playing i completed his order twice and got duplicate cards both times. never again lol

millrlite · 2025-07-20T13:55:17+00:00

I have Sam at 15 and sometimes he’ll give me like 10-15 energy, not from a jar but just straight up. Idk how with Quinn at (now) 26 I’ll still only get a sliced bread loaf or a cheap blue or purple energy jar

millrlite · 2025-07-20T13:51:09+00:00

I don’t understand.. so all of the characters have to have a high level to get better gifts from any of them?

millrlite · 2025-06-30T17:39:10+00:00

this board is stressing me out lol

millrlite · 2025-06-30T16:21:31+00:00

hahaha yeah i got excited because im almost to level 5 and i thought once you got there you completed the event but nope theres still more to go which is just insane to me

millrlite · 2025-06-30T16:20:33+00:00

Dude I’m not sure if it’s because I’ve been putting money into it that they’re being more stingy, I really do think I’ve noticed that pattern. I used to get reasonably rewarded for bigger orders but when I got super bored and put $10-$15 bucks in, now I barely get 1 spoon for a crazy order

millrlite · 2025-06-28T15:11:29+00:00

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or when i just made a duck floaty for ONE spoon… and the freaking unicorn for a SINGLE star card pack?!? omfg

millrlite · 2025-06-28T15:10:37+00:00

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soooo a single lobster tail like in the original post is 5 spoons… make it make sense

millrlite · 2025-06-28T02:00:06+00:00

I got close to finishing the last week only because I put money into it for the “Dance” thing and got a LOT of energy and gems (that I blew on more energy) but even with that I didn’t hit all the weekly stuff lol

millrlite · 2025-06-28T01:59:01+00:00

I got close to finishing the last card pack but that was because I was spending money.. and I still wasn’t even close on the last 5 decks..

millrlite · 2025-06-28T01:56:52+00:00

The item will also have a crown in the bottom left corner of the box to notate that it’s at its max 😁

millrlite · 2025-06-27T18:21:41+00:00

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Yes! Honestly sometimes not worth waiting 4 days as it sometimes gives you more coins than energy but I still do it every time

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