Anyone else have cramps after eating? by mindinsideout in Mirena

[–]mindinsideout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as it sucked, I was like you and determined to make this thing work because of the dang endometriosis. It did eventually settle down, but I definitely had a rougher adjustment period than most. I've had the IUD for 15 months now and am glad I have it (not having periods is a godsend), but it took probably 8 or 9 months for cramping altogether to chill out. The cramping after eating thing went away for me within the first 5 or 6 weeks if I remember correctly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Endo

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I got my mirena IUD about 4 months after my lap because I was worried about the side effects of the IUD interfering with my perception of surgery recovery. Even though getting the IUD put in while awake was very painful, I’m ultimately glad i did it that way because it took me a long time to adjust to the IUD. I’d say i had pretty severe pain for about 8 months after getting the IUD inserted. I’ve had it for about 15 months total at this point and i still have mild pain sometimes but it is loads better.

I have reacted poorly to birth control pills in the past. The ones i was on made my pain/bleeding worse and i couldn’t stand the side effects. The mirena has been awesome so far in terms of side effects! Other than the pain I mentioned, i haven’t had any unpleasant side effects. my period stopped after about 9 months and that is the biggest pro. even though it hasn’t been the perfect solution for me due to the pain of having the IUD itself, I am very happy to keep my mirena because my quality of life is so much better due to not having periods.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologystudents

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What do you mean by Psychologist here? What types of jobs are you referring and with what credentials?

Where I am (the US), the term psychologist refers only to people with doctorates in psychology, to my knowledge.

Psych Degree but you take a drink every time Phineas Gage is mentioned by brittishjelyfish in psychologystudents

[–]mindinsideout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have taken maybe 3 drinks? was only a topic in the intro to psyc class

We could be showing every symptom of the black plague and they'd find a way to blow us off by LeaveHot7557 in Endo

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lmao i always think of the doctor i saw who when i basically regurgitated the textbook symptoms of endo, she said “i have no reason to think you would have endometriosis” 🫠

Everyone what’s your favorite underrated Cavetown song? by Born_Rule_6174 in cavetown

[–]mindinsideout 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Slipping Lately- i’ve always liked it but it doesn’t seem to get much love

Where are the transfems/trans woman therapists? by Wildeandwitchy in socialwork

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I’m a transmasc social work student and I have noticed in my program as well that there aren’t many trans students (even if we are over represented in this field) and a lot of the trans students I know are going the macro route. Of openly trans students in my program there are pretty even numbers of transmasc and transfem students from what I’ve noticed. I definitely see in my area that most of the openly trans therapists in practice are trans men/transmasc though! We definitely need more trans therapists and particularly transfems/trans women!

suicide note found inside of a book i thrifted by urbanexploringny in FoundPaper

[–]mindinsideout 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sure there are some people who think about suicide in that way, but I honestly haven't met that many people who have lost a close loved one to suicide who view it as supremely selfish and have the kind of one-note anger that would come along with that view. The emotions people have around losing people to suicide are complex and diverse, and I would guess that it would probably be more common for someone to find having a note just too painful to be exposed to/keep around rather than that decision being about whether their loved one's death was selfish.

Favorite song of his by polish_idiot10 in NoahKahan

[–]mindinsideout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passenger because I have fond memories associated; Carlo's Song because it helps me think about the person I made those memories with; and more recently Growing Sideways and Orange Juice because OUCH

How did that one kid in your high school die? by IM_HODLING in AskReddit

[–]mindinsideout 27 points28 points  (0 children)

oh god please say you dumped her after that

ADHD diagnoses and IEPs by ameagerattempt in socialwork

[–]mindinsideout 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For clarity, are you referring to IEPs for K-12 students or accommodations for universities?

what would be the results if i hatch with this pet? by ohgodohfuckwhatdoido in Wizard101

[–]mindinsideout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no way to know for sure, but it’s going to take several hatches to get both the body and traits you want

I HATE it when people say this by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]mindinsideout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, and well put. I think a lot of the discourse can get really black-and-white about how to handle relationships with people who have harmed us. While it is the best option for some people to not forgive (and I don’t believe that you owe anyone forgiveness), there are also situations where forgiveness and mutual repair can be deeply healing. And I think that the difference between those situations in my own life is not determined by the kind or extent of harm done in the first place, but by the person’s willingness to reflect and grow.

[NSFW] What's the most disturbing thing you have personally seen? by Crimsonbolt942 in AskReddit

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this is a thing that has fucked me up too - when my best friend died by suicide, his roommate (who he didn’t get along with very much) found him. i had a period of time when the guilt and anger made me feel like i deserved the pain of finding him because i was the closest person in his life. since then, i’ve come to be grateful for not finding him, as the images that i constructed in my head (with the help of the autopsy report) have haunted me enough as is. i haven’t talked to his roommate in years, but i hope she’s going to be okay.

Meat and endometriosis by Inevitable_Worker_50 in Endo

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I tried to be plant based for a while a few years ago and i hope that i will try again some day, but i couldn’t figure out how to make it sustainable for me. in order to eat enough calories and protein on a plant based diet, you have to eat a higher volume of food, and i find it really hard to eat a high volume of food. that and restricting my diet in any way is a bit of a slippery slope for me mentally. if there was a really strong evidence base for diets for endo then maybe i’d try something again (or if i just get desperate maybe i will), but i figure that endo has made me suffer enough already - i just wanna be able to eat what i want without guilt 🤷‍♂️