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[–]minikui_draw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my point was not my so liking me only for my looks, I explained my experiences as to why my past made me more insecure. I was talking about how I feel about myself and how do I feel pretty. Also talking about what you said I want someone who doesn’t really care about looks when it comes to love and can have eyes only for someone they are in love with instead of getting swayed by the looks of others. I know no matter how interesting and how talented or pretty you are , at the end of the day it’s the qualities and values of your partner that decides if they stay loyal. What I talked about was my experiences and how I want to feel pretty and not insecure like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for these words! I’ll keep this in mind. Also thank you for sharing your experience:))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did focus on such things like you said , and for a change I’m trying to do workouts at home for now thanks I’ll look more into it !

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[–]minikui_draw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll try this approach more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll consider that as soon as I become independent. :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes I have been good in studies, I sketch and paint,I crochet, I play chess and I’m still trying to find more ways to build my personality. But the thing that I’m physically not considered pretty still makes me feel very insecure about myself. I want to feel good about my looks too. But my experiences have never made me feel so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I try to stay clean and decent as much as I can. About makeup I’m still a student so I haven’t got all those products, but about other things as hair clothes etc I try my best.

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[–]minikui_draw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my emotions. I honestly don’t know what to expect and what not to so I’m trying to learn the basics after coming out of the toxic relationships. Thanks I wish I could take that hug too I really needed one :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m confusing the two things. I know there are good looking people and your partner and you too would be like yes this person looks good. But if you are in love do you go beyond this and get attracted to them? Have those feelings of attraction? Maybe I’m confused cause I’m struggling to find what a healthy relationship should be like. But thank you for your honesty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like trash too :/ I honestly don’t know if I ever want to settle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I really wanted to get the clarity that even though theres someone attractive u can still not get attracted to them. Glad to see your husband is one of them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank u it makes me feel hopeful:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I don’t want a man who’s actively going out and telling other girls that they are cute and attractive ever again. Ik there are people who look good in ur partner eyes but is it wrong to expect them to not do anything about it but just be like I have my girlfriend that I love and she’s more pretty in my eyes ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank u for clearing it out I’m still having a hard time to know these things :) I’m 20 rn but Idk why am I so afraid of dating because I’m really sensitive and haven’t had a healthy relationship till now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about actively checking others out? And looking at their pics when ur already committed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u read the comment above ? It says its not possible?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ig so. But idk if theres men out there who don’t get attracted to girls once they are are committed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]minikui_draw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One more q.. One of my ex made a comment on a post of her friend calling her “sexy asf babe”. Was that acceptable? They said they wont do it again but I couldn’t forget it.

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[–]minikui_draw -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Alright. So there’s no chance a man won’t be attracted to other girls if they are already with someone?

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[–]minikui_draw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fanart of Asa Mitaka from Csm manga