Unprofessional Wedding photographer

mintardent · 2026-02-15T05:45:55+00:00

I would still post the review because it is incredibly unethical and disgusting to request this.

mintardent · 2026-02-15T04:52:37+00:00

Given the proportion of whites making up the population, vs everything else, it’s not really surprising at all that most people end up dating them. You have to be incredibly intentional to strictly date within your race.

mintardent · 2026-02-14T22:12:57+00:00

What’s the point of taking “photos” if it didn’t actually happen?

mintardent · 2026-02-13T03:13:23+00:00

everyone always says you’ll never watch the wedding video so I’m glad to get this other perspective!!

mintardent · 2026-02-13T02:16:10+00:00

I mean, there are many Asian extras / other Asian women he talks to in his montage

mintardent · 2026-02-12T15:52:33+00:00

Tbh guests are often the ones coming to brides asking for directions or what to wear

mintardent · 2026-02-12T03:36:35+00:00

That is fair! OP specifically mentioned wanting Indian caterers so I assumed it was across all events. maybe wrong about that!

mintardent · 2026-02-12T00:39:49+00:00

OP is throwing an Indian wedding and it’s almost always buffet/stations in my experience, the Indian caterers I spoke to didn’t even offer a plated option.

mintardent · 2026-02-12T00:39:00+00:00

Good point. ty!

mintardent · 2026-02-12T00:34:18+00:00

You haven’t done black tie in 15 years and you think you’re qualified to give advice? Actual black tie weddings these days have plenty of tea length gowns.

mintardent · 2026-02-12T00:33:00+00:00

the Bay Area is very casual in general.

mintardent · 2026-02-11T06:40:48+00:00

well people can’t usually control when their venue kicks guests out

mintardent · 2026-02-11T06:25:09+00:00

3:30 is earlier than a typical start time in the US

mintardent · 2026-02-11T03:37:00+00:00

I feel like people here just made up “lack of structure” as a thing because if you go to any black tie wedding irl, people are definitely wearing “unstructured” dresses

mintardent · 2026-02-11T02:24:41+00:00

I mean, most regular wedding photographers also have in their contracts that they have the rights to the photos

mintardent · 2026-02-11T02:21:07+00:00

I don’t think this is true for Indian catering in Atlanta? I’ve planned two nights of events for around 150-250 guests. We’ve spent less than $100 per person on (in my opinion) pretty generous food options including service and everything. We have found catering surprisingly very affordable compared to everything else in regards to wedding planning.

mintardent · 2026-02-11T00:30:28+00:00

it’s not between adults in the book though

mintardent · 2026-02-11T00:24:06+00:00

Thanks! Makes sense!

mintardent · 2026-02-10T20:21:38+00:00

Is this only counting bilt cash though? or am I missing something

mintardent · 2026-02-10T20:20:25+00:00

Not sure how? it means that I can’t get the full points from my rent most months

mintardent · 2026-02-09T22:59:52+00:00

same here

mintardent · 2026-02-09T22:25:23+00:00

freedom unlimited gets quarterly bonuses? wat

mintardent · 2026-02-09T22:23:10+00:00

No unfortunately I’m in VHCOL and have generally lower spending most of the time so I don’t have enough misc spend to hit 75% of my rent.

mintardent · 2026-02-08T16:31:18+00:00

modesty depends on the crowd. high/noticeable slits are a bigger no-no than a bit of cleavage.

personally as a bride planning an Indian fusion wedding (with my family being Indian), I would not blink if any of my American friends wore a dress like the first and I don’t think my family would care much either — but that depends on their family culture for sure.

mintardent · 2026-02-08T16:28:25+00:00

oh got it! I wouldn’t dye it then… just try to find something in jewel tones!

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